November 26, 2007
Random Acts of Kindness Month
Yesterday at lunch, Knitting Daughter (aka Starbucks Barista) was telling us about a lady who comes through the drive-through line for her coffee and frequently pays for the person behind her, too. Now wouldn’t it be fun to drive up to the window and hear, “Yours is free today – the lady ahead of you took care of it.”? Since I frequent Starbucks
quite a bit once in awhile, I decided that I’d do that on occasion, too. Not all the time. But maybe once a week. Which got me to thinking about other Random Acts of Kindness that I could be doing during this season of giving. And then I started thinking about how fun it would be if we all did that from now until the end of December! So we going to sponsor “Random Acts of Kindness Month” here at The Loopy Ewe. Each Monday, we’d love to have you leave a comment about a random act of kindness that you did during the past week. Some people like to do this anonymously (like me), but rest assured that the people you are being kind to probably have never heard of this blog, so you’re safe in sharing it with us. Not only will you enter yourself into a weekly drawing here, but you will inspire all of the rest of us with your ideas and kindness. (And really – inspiring others to random acts is, in itself, an act of kindness, right?) Since you’ve had no warning for today’s contest, I think it’d be great if you’d leave a comment about a RAK (Random Act of Kindness) that someone has done for you. That will give all of us some great new ideas. (Or if you do one today, enter it today.)
The prizes? Each week we’ll pull one name from the list (and if you do more than one act, leave more than one comment – you can be entered more than once) and we’re going to send you a fun Loopy Loot package worth at least $75. (Hey all of you book authors that are Loopy customers – and there are a lot of you! – if you’d like to donate an autographed copy of one of your books to put into one of these 6 drawings, we’d love that! Ditto to all of our Loopy indie dyers and Loopy indie artisans. I’m not going to email you and solicit products – we are happy to stuff the packages right from inventory here, too, but if you want to contribute, it could be your RAK for the week!) We will ship all winners at the same time – on January 2nd. That way we can make sure that all 6 packages are of equal value. We’ll do drawings for the next six Monday posts (including today and ending 12/31. We’ll draw on Tuesdays, so that all of the Monday comments will be included.)
I did go through the drive through today and I did pay for the person behind me. I was hoping that someone who really needed a free coffee would pull up behind me. Instead, a guy in a fancy sports car pulled up. What to do? Because of course I was making judgements about him and his fancy car and the fact that he could well afford his own coffee I wondered if he’d appreciate it? Then I stopped myself. I decided he must need a kindness today, so I went ahead and paid for him and then sped off as fast as I could so I would stay anonymous! And, unbelievably, on the back of my Starbucks cup today, I noticed that it says: “Pass the Cheer. A good way to pass the cheer when you’re on the road is to pay the toll for the car behind you. Do this and you might start to look at stoplights as holiday lights instead. Red means to stop and be thankful for a moment. Green means to out and do nice things.” What a coincidence! But you don’t have to spend money to show a RAK. How about letting the person behind you in the grocery line go first? Or go to the manager of the next store you shop at to tell him or her something nice about the person who checked you out. Or …. well, you get the idea. Share your other ideas with us.
Speaking of winning things, I totally forgot to announce the winner of our November Blog Contest last Friday. I think I was too involved with getting my holiday rules down (and you all added some very good ones to the list – thank you.) The winner of the November blog contest is: Genny. Genny has a fun Loopy credit in her account to spend on her next order. Thank you again for all of your great musical suggestions!
Lastly, we have more fun yarn coming from Cherry Tree Hill. We’ll be getting some very special Supersock, at a really good price (a savings which of course we pass right along to you.) More details when they arrive! We also just got a large shipment of Lorna’s Laces today, which we’ll be putting up. And we’re still working on this week’s Sneak Up for you. It’ll be a good one.
Sheri can’twaittohearaboutallofyourwonderfulkindnessesinthecomingmonth!
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Carrie said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:35 pm
Um, I haven’t shouted at anybody yet today. Does that count?
Hmm. Well, I found the perfect night-light for the kid on our company’s adopt-a-holiday-family thing. That was planned, though, so I don’t think it falls under the random part. Gonna have to work on that.
MaryEllen said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:36 pm
I’m definitely a believer in RAK. I live in an apartment complex with a fair number of older residents, and if I see someone struggling with heavy grocery bags I always offer to help.
It can be so easy to forget to be nice to people when you have a million errands to run, and cookies to bake, and packages to wrap and mail… Thanks for reminding us all to be kind – the holidays are the perfect time to add RAK into our daily routines, and maybe we’ll make them second-nature and continue the whole year through.
Gina said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:37 pm
Not sure if this qualifies as the person knew that I was the one doing it, but I have a special neighbor going through a miserable, prolonged divorce and through and unintentional error had her gas cut off last spring, because nasty nature of the divorce and the fact the house is for sale she did not get the gas re-connected. However, it is now cold here and she was trying to live with a space heater. So, I called the gas company and have agreed to cover her bill should she not pay so she could have heat. Not totally random but I just had to do something for her.
Michelle said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:40 pm
Hubby and I were coming back from Thanksgiving and taking the shuttle from the airport to the subway. It was a bit crowded for 10:30pm, but we went to the back and found a seat for me and Hubby stood next to me. The young man I sat next to realized we were together and got up so we could sit together. So nice! He wouldn’t take no for an answer. Now I’m wondering what I should do for someone else!
Karen in Toledo said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:42 pm
I made the decision last week to not buy yarn (eeeek!) in late November and during December. That money instead would go to charity as a generous donation. It’s already made. http://www.offhanddesigns.com/fundraiser.html
Hariamrit said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:44 pm
When I was not very well off I lived in a Studio Apartment with no heat. I could only afford a tiny electric heater and believe me I was grateful for that. A coworker knew of my situation and came over with a very large electric heater. That was eyasr ago and i have never forgotten what that meant to me. We are still friends today.
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I shop at Publix Supermarket and most of the time they have bags for the needy. At the beginning of school it is school supplies, Holidays is food and during the year canned goods for the food banks. I always take a bag. It makes me aware that there are many people who are less fortunate than me. And on the way home while driving I think about all the things I am grateful for.
And it just so happens I am on my way to shop at Publix and will be buying a food bag today.
Lori said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:44 pm
Well, it was a holiday weekend here in the restaurant business, which can get crazy. People are cranky and tired and want to impress their family. It can be very hard on our hostess to have all those people in her face demanding tables we don’t have. So, I got her this little rubber doll I saw in one of those 25-cent candy machines at the grocery store. He had flames for eyes. I named him “El Diablo” and told her that he was her mascot for the night and whenever people were really giving her a bad time, she could look at El Diablo to give her strength. She really perked up when I gave her El Diablo and carried him with her everywhere all weekend!
Karen Lauterwasser said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:44 pm
i had the chance to replace a set of DPN’s damaged by a knitter’s dog. i was hoping she would take me up on my offer, and I had the “Pay it Forward” argument all ready if she tried to tell me not to bother (after all, she had to share her snail mail for this to take place). Well, not only did she graciously accept my offer; she also wrote me the loveliest e-mail with her own “Pay It Forward” story from another time in her past. It was the most amazing coincidence of ideas.
I think the concept of paying it forward is sort of the corollary to random acts of kindness.
Amy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:47 pm
I gave a co-worker a knitted hat for his new baby today, I think that it seemed quite random to him, as we do not work directly with each other and not friends in any other way.
I will try to do something a little more random sometime today.
Also my officemate offered to run an errand for me as she was going to the mall over lunch… so that was a kindness paid to me.
Megan said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:49 pm
Two little ones…
To me: I had to go out in the rain during work, and instead of having to take the elevator back upstairs to grab my umbrella, the security guy let me borrow his.
From me: On the way back from the above errand, a man was walking in front of me with an unzipped backpack and the contents gradually fell out. I helped him pick his papers up from the wet ground.
Robin said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:49 pm
I feel funny telling someone about what I do. This is an act of kindness that lasts all during the school year. I take a little boy to the babysitter to save his mom and dad from having to leave work to pick him up. I really enjoy doing it because if I didn’t he might not be able to go to preschool and I know how much the kids enjoy it.
Camille said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:50 pm
I always yield to more than one car that is merging onto the highway during rush hour. One is the norm around here, but I’d like to think not fighting to merge makes their day a bit brighter for that second person.
Laura said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:51 pm
Last week I sent two movie tickets to my accounts receivable team member. She is in Calgary and I am in Vancouver. She emailed me and said that her and her husband haven’t been to a movie in 20 years….but both of them went on a date night with the tickets. That made me feel awesome. She is works really hard for our team and I think that sometimes she is taken for granted.
JoAnn-WI said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:52 pm
I love to bake and so yesterday I made 2 loaves of banana bread. I took a loaf over to my back yard neighbor who, on Friday, underwent her first chemo treatment for breast cancer.
Thanks for starting this new RAK contest. I will be more aware of people in need. Although RAK should be done with with no rewards, the Loopy prize certainly would be the icing on the cake!
Sarah said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:53 pm
When I was in college, I worked part time as a nanny. The little girl I took care of was sick, and I was at the pharmacy after taking her to the doctor. It was cold season, and the place was packed. The poor thing was very fussy, as she had an earache and was running a low fever. I was pretty frazzled as I had been running around all morning with her, and I must admit, a cranky, feverish three year old did not really help my state of mind. We got up to the counter to pick up her antibiotic, which was covered by her health insurance and I just had to pay the co-pay. Not a big deal, since it was less than 10 bucks and I had money given to me by her parents for occassions like this….but with all the rushing and fussing, I left my wallet in the car. I had resigned myself to packing the baby up and heading back out to the car to get it, then coming back in and waiting in line with her again, when an elderly woman behind me stepped up to the counter and insisted on paying. She wouldn’t take no for an answer, she said she remembered what it was like to have a sick toddler, and that if she could make my day a bit easier, she’d be glad to do so. Her RAK saved my sanity that day.
Fast forward seven years or so… a week ago, we had some unusually cold weather come through our area. I was at the pharmacy picking up a prescription, and there was a lady in front of me picking up about 5 or 6. She was an older lady, and was fumbling with her purse. She had a terrible cough and was all bundled up against the chilly wind. The line at the pharmacy counter was pretty long, and the cashier was being SO RUDE to her. It was obviously she couldn’t find what she was looking for, and she was getting really upset. Apparently, she had forgotten her wallet at home. I stepped up to the counter and paid for her meds. She didn’t want me to, but I wouldn’t take no for an answer.
I love RAK’s….I try to do a few a month, or more frequently when the situation allows.
Dina said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:54 pm
Last week I was doing my Thanksgiving grocery shopping with my toddler in tow. He was getting increasingly cranky as the cart filled up, and was coming close to a meltdown as we got into line.
Although the woman in front of me had already started putting her things on the conveyor belt, she told me to go ahead of her. “I know how it is, and the last thing you need right now is to be trapped here feeling like a bad mother just because your little boy wants to go home”.
I couldn’t thank her enough!
Barbara said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:55 pm
I use to have a sticker in the back window of my car that said “Random Acts of
Kindness and something else I can’t remember. Not to blow my own horn,
but I have been practicing random acts of kindness since 1991. They are
getting few and far between because I am not too well. I have been giving money
to my friend who has nothing, several times a year.Sometimes I give it to her and
sometimes, I slip it under her door in an envelope so she doesn’t know who is
giving it. She also helps me out by
making big bowls of soup for me since I can’t do that anymore. I just gave her
some money last week and if I’m out, I’ll pick up some food for her. Also the
person before me mentioned “pay it forward”. That is a very good movie if
you haven’t watched it yet.
Danielle Meder said,
November 26, 2007 @ 12:59 pm
Well, last week, on the 21st, I was at Starbucks getting my morning green tea when the gentleman at the counter next to me ordered and then left his wallet in his car and ran out. I offered to pay (the barista looked shocked, out here in Cali I wonder if it’s not common to pay for anothers drink) and I paid. Well, the guy never came back so I took the drink (after waiting 10 minutes to make sure-he didn’t know I was paying so maybe it was too expensive) and delivered it to my office. The manager at SB gave me a coupon for a free drink which I used on someone else since I didn’t want a reward for doing the good deed. It was a RAK that went a little awry but hey, it’s the thought that counts! RAK are great…should be a year round thing we all do…:) But the holiday season does offer a new sense of generosity!
Sharon said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:02 pm
RAK done for me: Last week I had to renew my registration sticker for my car and get new plates. The bolts were rusted and I couldn’t take them out, so I had to stop by the shop to have them do it. I don’t feel so silly now about not being able to change my license plates since he had a difficult time, too. I asked him how much, and he said don’t worry about it. I even tried to make him take something for it but he wouldn’t.
Kim B. said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:02 pm
Last week I took a food box to a family in our community who has had a lot of bad luck this year — lost job, ill child, very little in their minds to be thankful for. Few people know of their plight and while I was grocery shopping I decided to add them to my list and got them a turkey and all the trimmings plus some extras. I put the box on the porch, rang the bell and jumped into my car and drove off as they were answering the door. It was dark so they will never know who left the food. Made me feel really good inside.
Amanda said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:03 pm
This is such a wonderful idea!
My story doesn’t fit exactly into your request that we talk about a random act of kindness that happened to us but this post has reminded me of one of the most beautiful random acts of kindness that I witnessed a few months back that I want to share.
I was waiting in line at your Classic-ly Canadian coffee and doughnut joint a few months back. The person directly ahead of me in line was an older gentleman who was obviously struggling to keep things together and who likely hadn’t seen a decent meal in the last little while. He asked the clerk how much a cinnamon bun would cost him. She told him that it would be $1.75 or so. He opened his hand to reveal a little clutch of pocket change that would never even come close to that amount and proceeded to count it out. I watched and started to think about whether I was going to do the normal human thing and offer him the extra he’d need to get the cinnamon bun. As I reached into my wallet to pull out an extra dollar, a man from further back in the line went up to him and said to the cashier “Why don’t you just add that bun to my order.” he then went up to the man and asked “would you also like some soup, or how about a sandwich? Order whatever you want, it’s on me.” The older man ordered a sandwich to go with his cinnamon bun and a nice warm coffee.
I am still very much moved by that man’s kindness and humanism. It is something that inspired me to shed a cynicism in the face of my fellow man. Thank you for reminding me of that.
Katrina said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:06 pm
I hosted Thanksgiving this year for my entire family, which is enormous! I was glad to do it, but not only did people offer to walk my dog for me, they all left some money for me to help pay for all of the food! Some of them hid the money, and I only found it after they left and had cleaned up. Sneaky.
Nancy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:09 pm
The weather here in Chicago and the surrounding suburbs has been bizarre this fall and winter. It was really warm then cold then back again. The leaves have taken forever to fall.
Finally most of them are down and this weekend I took to cleaning up my front and back yard, no easy task when you live in an established tree heavy area. The elderly woman at the end of the street has a huge corner lot. Until recently, she had a yard service come and do all the cleanup, there was no way for her to do it herself. This year, because she has been ill, there was no money for that and so she went out in the frigid cold and started doing it herself. After about ten minutes she was done.
After a friendly wave, she headed inside. I headed to all of the neighbours and before I knew it there were 12 of us outside making incredible progress in no time flat. By the time she realized what was going on, we had raked, edged and fertilized the entire thing. The look on her face and the tears in her eyes hit home harder than any words ever could.
It may not be the biggest RAK around but to see a neighbourhood like it should be, looking out for its own…. it was truly special.
Linda said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:14 pm
I try to do RAK’s at least once a week. My mother’s health is not so good, and since June, she has either been in the hospital, a rehab facility, or now in a facility that deals with Alzheimer’s and Dementia. When she was in the rehab facility, I would vist her everyday and her roommate did not receive a lot of visitors, so when I would come, I would make sure that she also received a treat and would always ask if she needed anything. Even though my mom is no longer there, I drop in every weekend to see two of the ladies that are still there to make sure that they have a visitor and see if they need anything.
This year, when thing were really bad, many of my friends banded together and made sure that someone dropped off foodstuff every couple of days and they worked out a schedule to walk my dog for me so that I could stay at the hospital.
Kindness makes the world go around, not money!
Monica said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:21 pm
I drove my kids to the bus stop this morning since it was raining. Not really a RAK since I do it when ever the weather is bad. But they sure appreciate it when they see the other teens standing in the rain. I always offer to let them wait in the van. We sometimes have a van load of kids. Not so many this morning though, just a few took me up on the offer.
Carla said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:21 pm
What fun! I have done that with Dairy Queen in the summer when it is really hot and busy. I also signed up to do the pass it on thang on Fiberfishes blog. Have you heard about it? You send a handmade gift to 3 people some time in the next 365 days! -
Tammy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:33 pm
Mine isn’t totally random, but there’s a very sweet single mom in our church, and my DH and I left an unsigned “thank you” card for her with a $100 bill tucked inside. We’ve been blessed and wanted to be a blessing to someone else.
Another idea – and this involves the same single mom – but we have no idea who is doing this – but someone sends her son a card every year in February with money in it and instructions for him to take her out on Valentine’s Day. Whoever is doing this has been doing so since her son was young (he’s 14 now).
Kathryn in Minnesota said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:40 pm
We have three dogs, one of which does agility, and the agility people in our neck of the woods are really good at cleaning up after their dogs. The people in my neighborhood aren’t so consistent. My random act has become so regular it’s no longer random, though I hope it still counts for the drawing. : ) Every time I pick up after one of our dogs, I pick up after somebody else’s dog. This is keeping the lawn at the elementary school across the street just a little bit better looking, and better smelling . . .
Thanks for a great idea! I’m taking on the challenge of adding to my regular random acts something truly random in future weeks. When I lived on the East Coast, I used to pay the toll for the person behind me. I miss that — it really cheered up the drive.
Beth said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:41 pm
A few nights ago, the boys told me that a van had pulled up our driveway. I went to the front door to see who it might be. My neighbor from across the street had come by with a casserole for us “just because”. I often give her our outgrown toys for her much younger boys and she said that while this meal could not pay me back for all the toys, it was something she could offer us.
I was so touched by the complete randomness of the meal as I hadn’t given her new toys in months. It’s hard to put the feeling into words but it meant a lot to me that she thought of me while she shopped and cooked and delivered our meal.
Susan L said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:44 pm
A number of years ago, I paid the toll for the guy behind me. – Not totally random, since we’d just left a bar/club where we’d been talking for quite awhile, but it still surprised him.
More recently (sometime last year), I was driving home with one of the dogs in the car, & as I came to a stop-sign a few blocks from home, a woman sitting in a car at the side of the road called out her window imploring me to call the police. I looked & saw that several of her car windows had been smashed. She had 2 small kids with her. I parked the car & went over to her, & she told me that her boyfriend had smashed the windows, taken her cell-phone & the car keys, & went off. I let her use my cell phone to call the police, stayed there helping keep the kids calm & under control til the police came & while she gave them a report. I called my daughter (who was at home a few blocks away) & had her come walk the dog home. I let the woman use my phone to make a few more calls & wound up staying with her until a relative came to pick her & the kids up.
Acts of kindness done for me, which I’ll never forget:
(1) As I stepped off a Metro bus (sometime in 1989!), I dislocated my ankle. I was only 4 blocks from home, but as I couldn’t stand on that foot, let alone walk, I hopped over to a tree & had to lean against it. A passerby called 911 for me, & a young woman who got off the bus at the same time waited with me until the ambulance came, as I was feeling very lightheaded (I’d gone into shock).
(2) While driving back from an out-of-town trip with my daughter, then around 4 or 5 yrs old, one of my tires blew out, with pieces flying everywhere. This was around 9-to-10pm on the Capital Beltway (Rte 495, where traffic moves at 70mph in the slow lane despite a 55mph limit). A stranger pulled over immediately behind me & offered to change the tire for me. I started to pull things out of the trunk so we could get the spare out, & he took over & told me to just take care of my daughter & he’d take care of the rest, which he did, including putting everything back in the trunk afterwards. He refused to take any money for his troubles, & said that if I really wanted to do something, I should just donate to a charity of my choice (which I did).
alyson said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:47 pm
I think that’s a wonderful idea!!! Thank you for enabling us to do wonderful things (not that buying yarn isn’t a wonderful thing – you’re quite the enabler in that department as well.) And I’m quite impressed that you still paid for Sports Car Guy – ‘cuz I’d just been thinking, “Yeah, I’ll do that! But probably only if the guy behind me has a crappier car than I do.” Heh….whoops.
I had a lady come up to me after a training class one day, and she praised my public speaking ability and then told me that she thought I was quite pretty. It was such an unusual thing, an unsolicited flattery on my appearance, and I was completely touched. So I’ve tried to adopt that from her – so often when someone pays us a compliment, we feel uncomfortable. And so we tend not to compliment others so we don’t make them uncomfortable – how silly! So any time I look at someone and think something complimentary, I try to tell them also, in a non-threatening way. (You know the sort of thing – you’re with your husband and you whisper, “Look at that girl’s hair. It’s so shiny and pretty.” Or “Isn’t that woman just stunning, so smartly dressed?” So now, if I can, rather than glancing at and away from the girl in front of me in the grocery line, I’ll tell her, “You have such a pretty smile.” Or, if I’m feeling shy that day, I’ll say it to my husband, but loudly enough that I know she’ll hear me. Subversive compliments can sometimes easier for people to enjoy.
fbz said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:53 pm
i seem to be very lucky and have had a lot of random acts of kindness bestowed upon me throughout the years. the biggest and the most poignant was of course when a new york city bus driver put aside my clarinets which i had left on his bus at 3am coming (i was playing professionally at the time so i had a case with 5000 dollars worth of clarinets and traveling through queens and brooklyn to get home from the airport) and called an old number i had left inside the case, when that didn’t work, did an internet search and found my email address. he then emailed me and kept my clarinets safe for the four days he was searching how to find me! i knew i couldn’t repay him for his kindness so i went and got him a 50 dollar gift card for a big cd and music store in the city because he also gave me the gift of music. this was back in 2002, people seemed to rally together and do nice things for strangers so often after the towers fell, but this bus driver went way out of his way for me. thank you mr. bus driver again for rescuing my favorite clarinets!
Angie said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:53 pm
I’ve had someone pay for my toll at one of the Chicago tollways. It was such a small amount that really made a big impression.
The local groceries always have the pre-bagged food around the holidays. I always buy one at least 2 or 3 times during the holiday season.
Amanda’s story (2 above) brought tears to my eyes…what a nice guy.
Sarah T. said,
November 26, 2007 @ 1:54 pm
My fiance and I took a 3-day trip to San Francisco a few years ago. We decided to stay in a nice hotel close to downtown and just hoof it around the city all weekend – we couldn’t really afford to ride the busses, trolleys, or subways. However, when we were waiting to check in to our hotel, a man walked up to me and asked if I was checking in. When I said yes, he handed me 2 week-long metro passes with 3 days left on them! I guess it didn’t really cost him anything, as his family was checking out, but it was very kind of him to think of people who could use the passes, rather than just throw them out.
Last year, I “payed it forward” while traveling in Sweden by giving my Stockholm Metro pass to someone waiting in the subway station as I was leaving the country.
Rebecca said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:04 pm
these aren’t lately but
one to me – my coworker gave me a really nice gel pen because he knew I liked them.
one from me – I let a guy go ahead of me in the Wal-mart line and this Wal-mart always has long lines.
susan said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:09 pm
My random act of kindness today was to help a friend (who works in a yarn shop)
to help rearrange the display shelves! It is NOT her favorite thing to do, as she
says she doesn’t have the eye to do it!
Barbara said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:10 pm
Instead for giving gifts to each other, two friends and I have adopted a Katrina victum family (mother, father and 5 children) who have had to move in with the women’s mother. We got their name from a local Care and Concern Shelter. We are purchasing gifts to be opened the 12days before Christmas. These will include a movie night…complete with a current movie,, snacks and a comfy blanket/throw to sit upon.
Another package will contain a gift card for a Pizza, a cute pizza cutter and a disposable camera to record the event. We did this last year for a women and her childrenr that were going through a difficult time and were truly the recipients of a special blessing. Each day’s gifts will include a Bible Verse that points to Christmas and God’s special care for those in need. Wkhen the large box of gifts is delivered, there will be a card that says……Merry Christmas from HIS MAJESTY’s SECRET SERVICE
Jodi said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:12 pm
Sheri, what a great idea. Even though that guy had a fancy sports car, you just never know what’s going on with him — he might be lonely or recently divorced or just lost his job. Or he might just be pleasantly surprised by another’s kindness!
Incorporating kindness into every day is a wonderful idea. I’m gathering up our old but still warm and serviceable winter coats and sneakers and donating them to a local shelter. I know they always need donations of new socks and underwear, so I’ll stop by Target first, too.
Kelli said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:15 pm
I love RAK. Sometimes I get my boss a peanut butter cookie from our favorite bakery here just because I know he loves them.
I also found the face mask my room mate looked at three stores for when I was in CVS one day, so I bought a bottle for her. My mom was having a hard day last Monday so I brought her a lemon bar (sooooo tasty, I bought one for me too!). I try to hold doors, let people go in front of me in line, and pass along the savings if I find a good one every day.
But, can I think of any RAKs I’ve done in the last few days? Not really, I’ve been holed up in my house and haven’t had the chance. lol
Melissa said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:20 pm
I decided to forgo the thanksgiving festivities this year and instead served dinner to a community of people in NYC living with HIV/AIDS.
I found it was a great way to stop feeling sorry for myself when things didn’t turn out quite how I wanted them to.
Kristi said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:20 pm
I always, ALWAYS let the people with less items than me go ahead. I have Murphy’s Law with lines, so I know that I better get the people behind me out as fast as possible.
Last year I took the kids to the local fair where they zipped through rides like they were going out of style. I had THREE people come up to me with ride tickets they had left over, such a nice thing to do!
Julia said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:22 pm
I’d like to add that random acts of kindness don’t need to involve money, or items, or anything material. They don’t have to anonymous. Sometimes it’s just taking the time to tell a stranger you appreciate them.
Most people don’t know what I do for a living. They may have a vauge idea, “Oh, Julia works at the animal shelter.” or “Julia is a veterinary technician”.
I work in a shelter for sick and injured stray animals that also investigates animal cruelty charges. I see every horrible thing that people can do to an animal – using them as target practice, starving them to death, setting them on fire. I am also directly responsible for the euthanasia of roughly 100 homeless animals every week. And, in payment, most of the time all we get is public scorn, nasty articles in the paper about our euthanasia rate, and the knowledge that I’m one of the few people who have the strength to offer kindness and care to animals that have gotten the short end of a very small stick.
Two weeks ago, after a nasty, brutal article in the paper about the behavior evaluation we put all of our adoptable dogs through, someone cornered me while I was giving medications out in adoptions. I have no idea who she is, but she took my hand, looked me in the eye and said, “Thank you for everything you do. I wouldn’t have the heart for it. These animals are very lucky there are people like you in the world.”
And then she left. I had to be one the nicest things anyone has every done for me, and, for once, made me really feel like people appreciate what I do, and that I’m doing something worthwhile.
Bertha said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:24 pm
This is so little, I am not even sure it qualifies as a RAK, but every time I use the vending machine here in our office building (2-3 times a week), I leave the change from my dollar in the little change return slot for someone else to find and use. It’s only 10-50 cents at a time, but it’s nice to find money (especially money which can be spent on snacks) and if that brings someone a teeny bit of happiness during what I am imagine is normally a crappy work day, it makes me feel good.
Margaret said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:30 pm
Last week I heard about a co-worker that had just completed his Master’s degree after many long years of night school. I bought a bunch of balloons and tied them to his desk.
Kristin said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:30 pm
Well, my youngest DD was born at 24 weeks gestation, and weighed 1.5 lbs. Yes, One and a half pounds. All of the times that we nearly lost her, the same doctor was on-call. He was an older gentleman, who garnered my respect very early on. As she started to get better (but still very sick and about 2 lbs now), he asked me if I listened to any classical music – HELLO – music major in a former life. He said that he read studies that Brahms was thought to promote intelligence in preemies, etc.
I immediately rushed out that night, and got a bedside tape-player, and some Brahms. But alas, when I got to her incubator the next morning, there was a fresh stack of Brahms music there. Hmmm………..He never said a word, but I knew it was him. My daughter will be six years old in a couple of months……she’s doing really well – a miracle!
I love RAK’s – they always make me feel better as the giver, rather than the receiver though!
Alexis said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:32 pm
I had my wallet returned to me once when I had dropped it in a Home Depot parking lot– before I even realized I had lost it! That had me marveling about my karma for a good long while afterward. Sometimes it’s just nice to be reminded that there are kind, compassionate people out there. I know I’ve had days when I’ve felt like there aren’t!
mouse said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:33 pm
This RAOK actually got me on the road to a love of fiber arts, unintentionally.
When I was pregnant with my son (now 6) my husband and I were really hard up for money.. so we weren’t able to buy things ahead of time for the baby like folks do when they are expecting. I was really upset when I went into labor an entire month early and didn’t even have clothing for the baby. When the nurses came back from giving my son his first bath.. he was wearing tiny hand knitted baby booties and a little hat. I was so touched that someone had spent their time to make something for someone that they didn’t even know that I swore I’d learn to knit or crochet so that I could repay the kindness one day. About a year later I learned to crochet and the first thing I did was make baby booties and hats for the local hospitals. I still try to make at least one baby set a year and donate them because I know how happy those simple little knits made me feel.
Leah said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:34 pm
Our neighbor brought us a pecan pie for thanksgiving, still warm from the oven. A few months ago my husband and I got a new washer and dryer
and our neighbors was broken, so we gave them our old ones to bless them
It is so fun when everyone starts looking for ways to bless others instead of tear them down!
Carole said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:36 pm
I used to do RAOK more frequently and have gotten out of the habit so thank you for the reminder. But I will tell you that Saturday night Dale and I went out to dinner and we had the most wonderful waitress. She was sweet and friendly and helpful and we just really liked her a lot. I made a point of asking for the manager when we left and I sang her praises high. I always appreciate it when someone tells me my staff did something good and I thought I’d return the favor.
Melissa Featherly said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:38 pm
I don’t know know if this is a RAK in the sense that I didn’t recieve anything other than that warm happy feeling…but… here goes anyway. My pastor shared a story with our Church Sunday Morning about my son. My husband had told it to him during Monday night visitation and he shared it sunday will the whole church. I had been fighting with my husband and hearing the story made me realize that we are good parents and we love each other and nothing else should matter. So his act of kindness was reminding me what I have to be thankful for and it was worth more than anything I could have recieved.
Lani said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:49 pm
I’m not sure a RAK from a husband counts, but I’m going to post it here anyway. Last week I was frantically trying to finish a baby present before leaving for an out of town Thanksgiving. Well, husband sat me down and told me to knit. Not only did he do all the packing and carting our puppies off to their “sitters”, a task in and of itself, he cleaned the whole house, did the laundry and mowed the yard because he knows that I really stress about coming home to a messy place. Not only did it put me in a great mood because I managed to finish the present but when we came home it reminded me again of how much my husband loves me and the trouble that he went through to do something exceptionally nice for me.
Laurie said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:50 pm
Thanks for reminding us all about the joy of RAK’s! In my line of work, I am in and out of doctors’ office buildings and offices almost on a daily basis. The two large buildings I go to both have SLOW elevators, and I always try to make a point to hold the elevator for people if I see them coming, especially those with physical limitations. I know how it is to wait on an elevator, so if I can help others out, I do that! I also try to help people out who don’t know which floor to get off on as I know where most of the doctors in those buildings are located. One day I got on the elevator with a young woman holding a baby and two older children in tow. The older kids were arguing over who got to “push the button”, and I could tell the mom was pretty stressed. I asked the kid who didn’t get to push the button (who was almost in tears) to push a button for me. I got the biggest, brightest smile from that little girl and a smile and thank you from mom as well! It was a small thing, but I was glad to help her out just a little bit.
Lisa said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:52 pm
I have a sweet friend who has been saying she wants to learn to knit socks for about a year….we’ve tried a couple of times but …anyway, she travels and always brings me some sock yarn. The last ball came from Germany. I knit her a pair of socks with it..
We both feel very blessed!
Mary said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:54 pm
I stopped into a local take-out lunch place today and there were 6 local firefighters in line ahead of me. I had an interesting thought about what I could do to thank them for their service so when it came time to check out, I went ahead of them and told the person at the register that I was buying lunch for them and handed her my credit card. They protested, but in the end, I bought lunch for 6 very happy firefighters! I think I felt better about it than they did!
Cat said,
November 26, 2007 @ 2:55 pm
How interesting! I can’t wait to read what others have done or had done to them.
Just this morning I sent some $$ through paypal to someone who is sending yummy care packages to our troops in Kandahar. She buys the things herself and sends the packages with her money so I thought I would help her out a bit.
Hugs!!!!!
Jan said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:01 pm
I was paid forward by someone who took me back to my train station when I’d slept through it. He and I had talked on the platform before boarding the train, and he woke me as the train left my station, saying “our station is next”. The scenery didn’t look familiar, so I asked where we were, and he told me what station we’d just left. He was kind enough to take me back to my station.
Some weeks later, I had the opportunity to pay back that kindness, and took a lady back to her train station when she missed it. Had a lovely chat with her on a Friday afternoon.
Today I spoke with my friend who rides the train and then the local bus here at work. He had a lamp for his desk, and when I asked him about it, he said it was a daylight lamp to add a little cheer. I told him he seems quite cheery to me, and he said that was thanks to nice folks like me to chat with. I returned that compliment, as I feel he always cheers me up, too!
Thanks for another thoughtful contest!
Amy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:03 pm
Well, the random acts that I’ve done that come to mind are to people who know it came from me.
One of my favorite things to do is when someone I’m friends with or someone I work with is having a rough day, I like to buy them a card to cheer them up. And, sometimes if I can’t slip away and get a regular card, I send an egreeting – just something to put a smile on someone’s face… : )
Wollmeise said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:07 pm
What a great idea! That should be the learning-testing curve for the next year, not only for Christmas.
and we know it works! The creative part is a big challenge, it would be to simple to donate some yarn. Perhaps some voodoo-yarn ( with positive vibrations), which teases out the best from the knitting person?
. And please promise me to not escape the next kindness time, to get the thank you (or not) is important for human relationships.
Beta-phase
Sheri I´m in the boat, no in the next boxes!
Why do you dislike to spend a kindness to a young man with a gigantic car? You are a mum and you know that would be heart education
Hi all it´s also important to be kind to yourself (a worldwide women problem)
Claudia
Karen said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:07 pm
This isn’t really “random,” but I think it falls under the general category. I do volunteer work for the county’s hospice organization, visiting patients in their homes for several hours in order that the primary caregiver can get away for a while and have time for his or herself. My volunteer days are Saturdays, as my husband is off Sunday and Monday (I also don’t work on Mondays, so that’s our “weekend” together). Last week I received a call from hospice asking if there were any way that I could visit someone on Sunday, as the people who regularly volunteer for Sundays already had assignments.. The caregiver hadn’t been out of the house for a week (taking care of his mother who has ALS and his father, who was injured in a fall), and just wanted to play a little golf. My husband and I didn’t have any plans for the day, so I cheerfully took the assignment. It may have been an act of kindness to give the son some time away and to help this elderly couple with anything they might need, but in all truthfulness, this was one of the most meaningful visits I’ve ever had. The woman’s sweetness and courage while facing such a devastating disease and her husband’s obvious love for her is something I’ll never forget.
Tigger's Mom said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:08 pm
I’m a big believer in RAK so I love this! Here are some I practice: paying for tolls, coffee, fast food, dry cleaning, etc for someone else. Putting my cart and another cart in the parking lot cart keeper. Getting a cart for someone. Picking up items that have fallen on the floor in a store. Helping others reach things on high shelves in a store. Letting others in line in front of me (in traffic, a store, the PO, a restaurant, etc). Complimenting strangers. Holding the door. Donating money/time/items to those less fortunate. Giving unexpected gifts to friends. Once my husband and I paid the restaurant bill of a family with exceptionally nice children. Just recently I explained how to do a craft to a woman in the aisles of Michaels, and I helped her select appropriate materials. She was so excited!
At Thanksgiving we saw a cousin we hadn’t seen in years. She gave us a photo taken by her father about 1950 of my husband’s father (long deceased) and mother when they were newlyweds. It was a fun, touching and very unexpected RAK.
rohanknitter said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:10 pm
This is such a great idea and some of these comments are making me cry!
Last spring I messed up my back pretty badly, and a blogging friend I only know from online sent me a huge get-well-soon package. It was so sweet!
Anita said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:11 pm
I work for a school district in a moderate to low income area and found out at a “community services” meeting that the Thanksgiving baskets being put together by our community agencies were all short on turkeys – NONE! No turkeys whatsoever. 125 Thanksgiving baskets with no turkeys! So I contacted the Student Council teacher and the National Junior Honor Society teacher at the Middle School where I formerly worked. This middle school’s enrollment is approximately 85% military dependent students, who are amazingly resilient and generous despite their own holiday circumstances (most are missing at least one parent this holiday season), and lo and behold, all 125 turkeys and loads of other necessities and extras were provided by these two groups. In the end, we (me, the teachers, the kids, their principals, the school district, and all the people who benefitted) all felt a sense of satisfaction for making a difference!
Lee Cockrum said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:18 pm
Great idea!! I have always believed in doing whatever you can to help someone else. As I get farther along in life, I often have more money than I once did, but even when I did not have much, I always shared whatever I had, money, time etc. The most recent thing that I did was buy a meditation book for a friend who was asking me about meditation resources (I study Buddhism). It was so nice to see the look of surprise when I gave it to her. Most recent received kindness was someone buying a soup for me while I was at the local yarn store and people were ordering takeout. When I went to pay for mine, a friend had already paid for me.
Lisa said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:19 pm
We used to have a babysitter when our kids were small. She was great with them and had very little money. When she had her senior pictures taken we knew she was really strapped for cash. and would have had a hard time paying the bill. We went to the studio and payed it for her. She did guess it was us, and she cried, but it was so much fun just knowing she wouldn’t have to use ALL her money to pay that bill. It truly is so much better to give than receive.
Lisa said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:24 pm
Not just my “random act” but one I was part of….my children’s school adopted a small school in Africa where some ot our teachers had volunteered this summer. Many children walk miles to attend. Our school collected more than 250 bikes to send to Ghana, a parent who owns a shipping company has agreed to ship all the bikes plus a school bus the school refurbished and has donated. Each child at the school in Ghana was “adopted” by one of our kids so the bikes went from a specific child to a specific child. As things got rolling, people began to donate clothes and school supplies and backpacks and dictionaries. It was an amazing thing to be a part of. All from my dear friend ( the one who I said brought me yarn a few posts back) having an idea. It has challenged me to dream big. Who could have ever seen all this from someone saying..”I wish those kids had bikes to ride to school”.
Elise said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:24 pm
I am having trouble thinking of a RAK that has happened to me recently, I was feeling down earlier this year and decided to try to do one nice thing for someone each day. It was mostly things like holding doors open for people, doing my roommates dishes, or letting someone else have a seat on the train, but I like to think it helped a little.
My dad and I were shopping on black Friday and we let someone go ahead of us in line at one of the crowded stores, she had gotten seperated in line from her adult daughter and they had to drive a couple hours home. It’s just nice to do something like that for someone else, this time of year crowds seem to get extra “pushy”.
sara l said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:24 pm
I always let the person behind me in the grocery line with just a few items to go a head of me. Usually it’s an employee on a break, so they are always quite happy to take me up on the offer.
Melanie said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:27 pm
I think this is a great idea, and thanks for the reminder to do something nice for no apparent reason!
I actually got a RAK today. I work on a university campus and it was raining really hard, but I needed some breakfast so I walked out of my building downhill to the dining hall for a bagel. As I was heading down these huge marble stairs I slipped and fell 6 huge stairs to the bottom. A student I had passed about 10 seconds earlier came racing down to help me up and he made sure nothing was broken and that I was ok. He was so nice I almost cried right there! I’d love to find him and send him something nice. But I might have to settle for sending someone yarn!
Mo said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:28 pm
Who knew Starbucks had drivethrus? I must really live in the sticks!
I met a woman at Rhinebeck who is good friends with a co-worker. Now this Rhinebeck woman is a very hard worker and never does anything for herself. Last month she was diagnosed with pneumonia which meant she was down for the count for over a week. She spins, knits and weaves for a living. I said to co-worker – Let’s send her a care package! So we put together all sorts of healthy snacks, teas, some books, some chocolate (everyone needs chocolate), some handmade soap and more and sent it on to her. She said she ought to get sick more often!
Luckily she is much better now.
Stacey said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:36 pm
I ALWAYS offer to help the elderly, in the store getting something from a high shelf, with their bags, whatever I feel is needed. And the best part is that I think I am rubbing off on my children. My sons, 3 & 5, are often caught holding open the door for girls. It makes me feel like I might being doing something right by them. But the best one was last week. My youngest, Isaak age 3, and I were standing in line at W*lgreens waiting our turn. The gentleman behind us was trying to pull some cash from his pocket and out with it came a bunch of change. My son saw this, and started picking them up. I thought he would be tempted to pocket them. But NO. He had a few in his little hand and held them out to the gentleman and says in his tiny little voice “here sir, you dropped these” I almost cried I was so proud! And the man said thank you and gave him a quarter for “helping him”! He was so excited! So he learned to help people and, in turn, got a reward! Maybe I am doing this parenting thing right….
Liz said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:39 pm
Great idea, Sheri!! It’s so easy to forget, whether we are in the middle of a string of petty annoyances or truly in the depths of despair, how fortunate we really are. We have food to eat and a place to live and yarn to knit, friends and family to love. That’s pretty darn lucky, I’d say.
I had a coworker who would leave me little gifts when I had helped her with something–a scratch off lottery ticket, some chocolate, etc. It was completely unnecessary…I was just doing my job, after all. But it always made my day. I was very sad that she was laid off at the end of last year. This past summer, her daughter was tragically killed in a boating accident in Alaska while working with Americorps. Her daughter was missing for some weeks, and they had to hire divers to find her once the official search was called off, to great personal expense. Fundraisers were held to help the family pay for this, and you can bet that I didn’t hesitate to contribute. Kindness begets kindness.
Hillis said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:42 pm
I showed my elderly neighbor my fingerless mitts this morning. She loved the colors, so as soonas I finish this comment, I am going to knit her a pair. Thanks for the idea during our Holiday Season and for thru the year.
Gina said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:43 pm
Every Sunday my best friend and I go to a nursing home near our house and provide a church service. Since we go every week, we know the residents pretty well. Yesterday I reached and gently pressed one resident on her shoulder. She was so happy and said that felt “so good” , so I massaged her shoulders for a little while.
She enjoyed it so much. It was just a small thing, but it made us both happy.
Michelle said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:45 pm
RAK done to me… A woman at Kohl’s offered me her 15% off shopping pass ~ which I used and in turn passed on to someone else.
It is contagious!
Gina said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:53 pm
The receptionist at my old job wore a beautiful pin..a ballerina..very pretty, not gold or anything, but just beautiful. I admired it and she took it off and gave it to me! I was wearing it the other day at my new job with a shawl I knitted. A co-worker admired my shawl…so I took the pin off and gave her the shawl! She was thrilled!
aimee said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:53 pm
How funny that you would mention this today. I was at the grocery, putting the stuff in my trunk. Then I went across the way and offered to take a mom’s cart back for her–you know, she had a toddler and an infant after all. I had no more put the 2 carts together and turned around, and there was another person there and offered to take both carts back to the store for us! I said to him. “well there’s just niceness all around today” and he said “that’s how it always should be!” It made me smile all the way home. RAK by me, and to me all at the same time!
Terri said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:57 pm
Here are a couple of things that happened last weeek, so they do not count for a drawing, but may provide inspiration to someone.
#1Post Office. There is a long line at the counter and a gentleman who needs 2 stamps. He walks over to the machine only to learn that it will not take his $20 bill. He asks me for change. I give him my stamps. Happiness all around.
#2 Elderly Neighbors. A few days ago a dump truck pulled up in front of our neighbors driveway and dumped a load of wood. I immediately dipatched the kids to go stack it. It took the 4 of them less than 1/2 hour to stack a cord of wood. I can only imagine the relief our neighbors felt at not having to do it all themselves.
Sarah said,
November 26, 2007 @ 3:58 pm
On Saturday at the baggage claim, a gentleman accidentally picked up my suitcase and took it home with him. I did not realize this, so I stood in line and reported my suitcase missing… I was a bit cranky about it, but thankful that DH, baby and I made it home safe and sound. Once we got home, the phone rang and this man was so apologetic and sorry. He even drove WELL out of his way to drop off our bag before he went back down to the airport to look for his! He could have just dumped it back at the airport and I never would have known. I could not believe how kind he was and how he really tried to make his mistake right. I don’t really see that much these days!
RAK month is a great idea!! It will push me to get out of myself and focus on the needs of others!
Joannah said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:00 pm
Today I had the chance to do a lovely piece of “business as usual”. I teach at a college and received an email from a less-than-techno-savy father. His daughter is on a semester abroad program in a remote area, no email, etc. He is bravely attempting to register her for the spring semester and couldn’t get the the program to register her for one of my spring courses to work. I was able to assure him that I can sign her into the class, no problem. Done.
Marianne Y said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:05 pm
I love your Random Acts of Kindness them for December concept! Over the years, I have gone out of my way to help small children or the elderly, with many things, especially looking for things, reaching things, etc. It will be much harder for me to do now, that I am handicapped and basically homebound for awhile, with this fractured back that is not healing problem. (I hope to know more about that after my appt with the neurosurgeon at the Univ of Michigan down in Ann Arbor on Wed this week, finally!)
This summer, someone gave us a Random Act of Kindness when we made our latest trip to Michigan’s upper peninsula where my son goes to college, in late June. As we were crossing the Big Mac (nickname for the Mackinac Bridge, long suspension bridge connecting Michigan’s two peninsulas), the car in front of us paid the bridge toll (for our car, but not our boat that we were pulling). That was totally unexpected, and totally appreciated, for the thoughtfulness. We were stunned, in part because I had the correct change out for our car and our boat. We thought that the bridge toll operator made a mistake in calculating our bridge fee because I had the correct change out (for what it would have been). We talked for miles about who might have done that, and how cool that was!
aimee said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:09 pm
By the way, I just wanted to mention this too: It’s quite possible that your RAK at Starbucks inspired mr sportscar to do a RAK himself. That’s the beauty of it! A great RAK idea if someone lives in the city, is to feed someone’s parking meter if they need it.
Sarah in Ohio said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:09 pm
Sheri, you are seriosuly th enicest woman in the world, love the idea. Monday and Wed. my son has preschool so it’s a ritual that after we drop him off my daughter and I go through the drive thru, me for a coffee (peppermint white chocolate mocha, yum) and for her an organic vanilla milk. We only drink soymilk here (because too much regular milk makes my sons eczema flare up) so when we pull up to Starbucks my daughter, Anna, squeals, “Anna’s milk house!” Ok, just like to share that cute story. But this Wednesday I will definitely pay for the person behind me.
I’d be more than happy and excited to donate a skein of my yarn (www.perfectdayyarns.com) if you are interested
Two RAKS for one week, not a shabby start!
TMTTYRR said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:28 pm
Boy, people have done some nice things. I feel really insignificant by comparison.
I suppose I never think of the things I do as being acts of kindness, or perhaps not random. I don’t know.
But this is a really good idea! We should all be more kind to one another this time of year, when it’s so hard to be overbusy and grumpy and underrested!
Meg said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:28 pm
This is my favorite loopy contest ever! I think one of the easiest RAKs to do is just letting someone ahead in line – of course, they know who did it and it doesn’t cost a dime, but it can be so helpful. A couple months ago I ran out to get ibuprofen for my daughter who was running a fever – just had the one thing and wanted to get home quick. There was only one register open, and the lady ahead had a basket full but let me go first. I really appreciated it. Same thing when the kids have had enough of the store, etc. Sometimes you can tell when someone could really use a little extra kindness. Just today I donated some food to a drive they’re having at my school. I always try to give baby cereal or formula to those things since I know they are needed.
About the guy with the sports car, if he is well enough off to get his own coffee, maybe he’s also well enough off to do some RAKs of his own, and maybe you inspired him!
Tiffany said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:29 pm
I treated myself to a day at the movies this Saturday. When I got up to the ticket guy to tear the ticket and go in to the theatre, another family with two kids in tow got there at the same time as me on the other side of the line. The ticket guy reached toward me to tear my ticket, but I told him to go ahead and help the family first. I was by myself, and the few extra seconds didn’t matter to me. What I thought was really great about it was that the ticket guy smiled really big as he tore their tickets and then turned to me to say how nice that was and how glad he was to see someone do something nice and not be in such a rush that they have to be first.
Now to think about what I can do this upcoming week. I love the idea of random acts of kindness.
Samantha said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:30 pm
Well this actually happened this summer, but I went in to a gas station bathroom and noticed that in the handicap bathroom, there was a little table with a cloth on it (underneather was storage for toliet paper, etc). On the table there were some flowers and behind them were some pads, obivously left by the gas station for some poor lady who had forgot one that day to use. Well, I hate pads, so I took a tampon out of my purse and left it there. I don’t know, but I felt like I was helping some random woman….
Oh, and today I was in line for the bathroom, and I let the person behind me go.
Apparently all my acts of kindess have to do with a bathroom(???).
liz from CT said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:31 pm
I was a ‘victim’(Ha!) of two RAKs last week. First at my LYS, I was paying with a gift certificate & the total came to .81 cents more than I had and I had no cash or change on me. The shop owner told me to pay next time. That was so nice, I couldn’t believe it.
Then, the day before Thanksgiving, I was at the grocery store for the second time that day b/c I forgot to buy 1 thing(but it was a completely necessary thing so i had to go back) and a woman let me go in front of her in line. It was fantastic.
So this week, I’m all about paying it forward. I’ve got a store credit at Starbucks, perhaps I’ll pay for someone’s coffee tomorrow.
Danielle from SW Missouri said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:35 pm
When I worked as a nurse (last time was in 2005) I saw many RAKs, my personal favorite was when a co-worker(in a Nursing Home) seeing that one of the residents didnt have anybody visiting her during the holidays got permission to take the lady who had Alzheimers home with her not only for Thanksgiving but also for Christmas. After I left nursing I went to work for wal-mart and remembering the RAKs from my nursing carreer i started helpin those who needed it whether it was for a simple carryout or if needed a few dollars to help if they fell alittle short. My coworkers at wal-mart got together and donated 250 dollars for me and my family when I was diagnosed with a disabling spinal cord injury. When I attempted to thank them for their generosity they told me there was no need as most of them had seen me give money or carry out items when needed, and this was one way they could repay me for helping out Wal-Mart’s customers
Linda in Ohio said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:36 pm
Since my two large maple trees seem to blow all of their leaves into the old lady next doors yard, each year, I rake her yard instead of my own. (I don’t have the stamina to do two yards). I just finished doing it for the last time (#6) yesterday.
I am always so glad when this job is over, as I hate to rake leaves. WE are having the trees removed next year as we are getting too old to be doing this…just like our neighbor!!!
Gina said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:38 pm
Last December my then 6 year old daughter wore a Christmas sweater to the grocery store. The greeter at the door was also wearing a Christmas sweater. She noticed my daughter and complimented her. The next week my daughter asked to wear her sweater to the store. The greeter was also wearing her sweater. This went on all through December. The greeter learned our names and always made a point to ask about our week. The first week in January the greeter asked me to come to the store office. In the office she had her Christmas sweater in a dry cleaning bag. She wanted to give it to my daughter but first made my daughter promise that when she outgrew her sweater, she would pass it on to another little girl.
It will be awhile before my daughter grows into the sweater but its hanging at the back of her closet. We contacted the main office for the grocery store so that the greeter could be properly recognized for her outstanding customer service. The greeter went on to retire this past spring but my daughter never fails to make mention of her when we shop that store.
The sweater was too small this year so we packaged it up and sent it to a home for orphaned children in the Appalachian region.
Kristi ~ Ohio said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:38 pm
I love RAKs. I definitely try to practice this. However, someone did something nice for me that I can’t forget. My husband dropped me off at our LYS for a class…I had had surgery a few days before and couldn’t drive. After the class was over, the store closed, and my husband was running late picking me up. This couple that I had met the week before through the LYS stayed with me outside in the dark until my husband came for me. It was so thoughtful. As for me, when driving, I try to let someone pull in in front of me that is coming out of a gas station, side road, store, etc. I love the “pay for the person behind you” concept and will put it on my list of things to do! Thanks Sheri. Kristi
Crystal said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:40 pm
I love the idea of Random Acts of Kindness.
Each year I’m the treasurer for our work United Way fund drive, it’s kind of small, but I always buy the “silver” change from the events so that teller at the bank doesn’t have to deal with 10 lbs of change.
I got hit by a huge kindness today. We draw names for Christmas presents, I drew my Mother in Law, and was struggling with what to give to her. My Brother in Law found 2 great gifts for her and bought them, so all I have to do is reimburse him for them. It just too sweet, having one less gift to think about.
Wendy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:40 pm
Well, if the RAKs count for Black Friday, I’ve got one. Mom and I were in line at Kohl’s and the people in front of us had their arms full of gift stuff. In fact the guy kept dropping things and then dropping more when he bent down to pick up the previously dropped item. Mom and I had a buggy thing so I rearranged our gift stuff to make some extra room and offered part of our cart to the people in front of us. They were reluctant at first but then gave into it. Good thing too as we were in line for 50 mintues! They were very grateful indeed! As it turns out, we started talking and we apparently attended the same high school years ago. How cool!
Sharon said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:43 pm
Oh, these heart warming stories are making my tears flow!! Knitters have BIG hearts!
Thank you, Sheri for inspiring us. Last week for Thanksgiving I bought my Physical Therapist and his assistant pies for their dinners. They have helped me so much after my knee replacement. As I walk on the treadmill and am finally free of pain…I have these 2 guys to thank!
Wendy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:43 pm
Oh and another one… same shopping trip. After waiting in the check out line for forever, we finally reached the register and the woman there was just the most pleasant person I’ve ever had wait on me. It was already 12:30 and she’d been working since 4 am. Hard to believe that anyone working those hours on Black Friday could find a way to still be pleasant and cheerful. I made sure to tell her how pleasant our check out experience was and offered to pass the comment off to her manager. She almost cried and said that no one has ever given her a pat on the back for a job well done.
Shari said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:50 pm
My foster son is one and is special needs. People are often uncomfortable around him and will avoid making eye contact with us. So it always makes my day when people come up to us when we are out and say something nice. Wether it is complimenting his long eyelashes or admiring his outfit, it always brightens my day.
I always try to keep snacks in my car for the panhandlers at the street light intersections. I don’t usually give them money but I also don’t want them to go hungry. I sometimes have treats for their dogs too.
Aimee said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:58 pm
I do a lot of charity work, but that isn’t the point of this as that is all planned. I would however like to take the opportunity to share a RAK that was done for me. This time last year my family was going through a tough time. My step-father was very very ill. We were hoping he would make it to Christmas, but he wasn’t able to hang on. I spent my 30th birthday with him in the morning and then came back to Charlotte. Days later I was back there as he had taken a turn for the worse. It was a tough time. My loving online friends – very few of whom are knitters – got together and sent a box to me a few days after he passed. I opened a HUGE box FULL of yarn from people all over the WORLD! All sent to one person to collect and send on to me. Now, I love yarn, so it was the perfect gift for me, but more than that it reminded me that while he was gone (and honestly in a better place) and things looked so grim and terrible, that I was just the luckiest girl who had people who still loved her and wanted her to be happy. Which is the point, I think.
This same friend who coordinated all of this now has a terrible cancer horror in her family. In honor of her mother (who has a recurrance of ovarian cancer) who loves angels we are all making and sending and buying angel things to her so that she is reminded that she is loved no matter how hard things get.
Kym Hretz said,
November 26, 2007 @ 4:59 pm
I live in a town that has a “downtown” area with parking meters. I try to make sure I have extra change to plop into any expired meters as I walk by. A ticket for an expired meter is $10 dollars if you pay it within 24 hours but jumps to a ridiculous $25 if you pay it after the 24 hour period! Noone deserves that.
Barb said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:03 pm
I haven’t been RAK’d lately, but I will tell you a story about my helping a homeless man for a few months about 20 years ago.
I was working at FAO Schwartz in Boston when I was in college. I was living at home and used to bring my lunch and eat it in the public garden. One day the only bench was occupied by a homeless man and I sat next to him. I was eating my turkey sandwich while he watched. I was very hungry but I also knew that he was much more hungry. I gave him half of my sandwich, my apple and my cookies ( I had taken a couple of bites from my first half. He was so happy. The next day I made two sandwiches and brought two apples and lot more cookies and bought and extra soda thinking maybe he would be there. He was. I gave him his lunch and we sat and talked a little while we ate. This went on a few times a week for the summer into the fall. It got too cold to eat outside and I don’t know what happened to him. He was a Viet Nam veteran who was very nice. He had fallen on hard times. He didn’t complain about his life to me. He knew that the way I could help him was to feed him and listen to him for a little while a few times a week. I don’t know what happened to him, but I felt good giving him a little nourishment for a few months. Not a whole lot, but a lot for this 20 year old.
Dj said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:10 pm
I do this frequently when I put fuel in my car. With gas prices the way they are I try to pay for someone who can only afford $5.00 at a time. Gives them the money back to buy food or something else they may nee but not have the money for. Since hubby works for a restaurant we see these kinds of things all the time and we frequently return the favor.
I recently paid for someone’s milk because they were short about 80 cents.
Allison said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:11 pm
A couple of years ago, when I was a new mom and stressed out about work and babies and everything else, I was also cooking dinner for our local homeless shelter about once a month. On this particular time, the two people who were supposed to help me cook had bailed; the car had no gas in it; and both my kids were crying about not wanting to go for a car ride. As I struggled to load my car with kids and hot food, and struggled not to cry from stress, my neighbor pulled up and asked if she could help. I said, “No, no, I can do it – it’s just…” and then spent 5 minutes bending her ear. At the end, she said, “I’ll do it” and calmly loaded all the food out of my car and into hers. Now, it was about a 25 minutes drive to the shelter! I’ve moved away and lost touch with her, but that moment still sticks in my mind.
Jocelyn said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:15 pm
What a great “contest” for December! When I used to live in a city that had toll bridges, I pulled up one day to be told that someone had paid my toll already (as prices had recently doubled, this was a really nice treat). After that, I would occasionally do the same thing — it made me feel so good I figured I should pass it on. I have one more that happened to me today: I was having lunch with some work colleagues, and one of them told me that a former student of mine (he kept the student anonymous) had told him that all students should be required to take my class because he thought it was so good. I tell you, it absolutely made my day!
Nancy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:21 pm
RAK have always been a part of my family’s life. My mom never drove but we always had a way home from where ever, thanks to friends folks. Brownies are to do a good deed every day, and to have it count as a “good deed” it must be done without fanfare or sometimes with the person not knowing who did the deed. My husband and I donate blood and are designated as organ donors. We have done this for years, just because it seemed the thing to do. Six years ago my brother became quite ill very suddenly and we we were told he would need a heart transplant. After only 2 days on the list, he received an organ from someone who did the most gracious RAK of all. For this I give thanks every day and will forever be in debt for my personal miracle. I was always told that one did not repay a kindness but paid ahead for one that would be done for us. It will take a lifetime to pay ahead for this gift.
Orghlaith said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:36 pm
My DH (who is referred to as HIM) took his new sleeping bag to the truck stop (he is a trucker) to give to a homeless man. He didn’t make a fuss, just told me he was going to do it. That is why I married him. He just does these things. I have a whole list of similar acts. He is my hero. Quiet, self-effacing, kind. Oh, and sexy too.
Julie-Ann in West Indies said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:39 pm
We all go around doing random acts of kindness even when we aren’t aware of it, like it’s a habit to do that thing, but it’s a kindness to the person it’s done for. For example, today in the Supermarket with my sister, while we were talking, I noticed a guy coming out of, I think it was, the storeroom with a whole load of bags of stuff in his hand and two of them fell, so while still talking quite animatedly to my sister, I pick them up for him and barely noticed him say thanks. I’m used to doing that, it’s automatic for me, like if I’m in a clothing store (in the States) and I see stuff on the floor I take it up and rehang it.
Kathi in Fenton said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:39 pm
I was the recipient of an act of kindness today! Our trash is usually picked up on Thursday. since Thanksgiving was on Thursday my husband put the trash out on Friday – no pick up so he lugged it back out on Saturday – no pick up. This morning as I was pulling up the shades in the greenhouse the trash man drove up & he must have seen the look on my face – but he stopped & waved for me to bring out my trash & then came up & helped me carry out the last 2 bags!!!!! Now that’s what I call exceptional customer service!!!!!! But ya know what – that is just his normal behavior – he is always going beyond what you’d expect!!
Sandy Ziegler said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:39 pm
Through the grapevine, I heard of a family who could not afford a Thanksgiving meal. So, I purchased a 21 pound Butterball Bird, dressing mixes, cans of cranberries, a bag of potatoes, boxes of jellos, etc. etc. etc. and left it in a big box on their doorstep. They had EVERYTHING they needed to prepare a wonderful meal. They have four children and the father lost his job and the mother is suffering from breast cancer. I rang the doorbell and then got in my car and sped off. But, I did peek around the corner to make sure they answered the door and got the goodies.
Marsha in Colorado said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:41 pm
To me- After my knee replacement 2 yrs ago, friends came in and changed the sheets on my bed, straightened the house, and left flowers for me to find on my return from the hospital.
From me-We have many out of state tourists who buy groceries here, but don’t have the “value” card that allows them significant savings. I always let the person ahead of me use mine, if she doesn’t have one.
I always thank people in service jobs for working that day, especially on holidays.
RKAs are really great-we never know how far one will travel…..
Donna said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:47 pm
I’m going to brag on my daughter – 15, high school sophomore – She has started her own RAK for her youth group leader. Every month she gives her a little anonymous gift, some cards, a mug, bubble bath. My daughter found someone to help her get these things to her and who can sometimes pass back the reactions. It is so fun to see my little girl growing into a generous, thoughtful young woman.:)
Zuleika said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:48 pm
I always try to do some sort of random kindness on a daily basis. It gives you such a good feeling to do things without thought of reward. Recently I found a wallet on the ground and took it to the police station. I also said no thanks to the reward offered. Yesterday after dialysis my mother asked me to mend a hole in her crocheted slippers. While she slept, I made her a new pair and hung them on her door handle so she’d be surprised when she awoke.
I also give to the needy regularly.
sarah lou said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:51 pm
well, i hope i’m not spoiling the surprise, as i think it would have arrived to you all, today… but spurred on by your recent request for music suggestion, last week i had my top choice mailed to your loopy office!
does that count?
Dana said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:55 pm
Today after reading this, I made sure to let a few people merge in front of me while coming home in rush-hour traffic. I really hope that they return the kindness to someone else if they get a chance.
Christine said,
November 26, 2007 @ 5:58 pm
I’ve really enjoyed reading others’ comments. Teh RAK I usually do is if I find myself in a grocery store on my lunch break I try to pick up little treats for my coworkers to help the afternoon go by faster.
Erin in Minnesota said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:15 pm
I feel like this is so small compared to the other RAK’s out there, but I always hold doors for people, especially if they look like they’ve got full hands, but just in general. I’m usually not in so much of a hurry that I don’t have the additional 30 seconds to help out someone else and it nearly always makes me feel good if I can help anyone else out.
JRR said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:22 pm
Here in NYC, I buy a monthly MetroCard which costs a flat rate for unlimited rides, so long as they are 20 or so minutes apart. When I get off the train, I look to see if there is someone who needs to be swiped in. It costs me nothing but saves the other person $2.00, which is often more than the person can afford, or saves the other person time waiting for the next train they can’t find their card and would miss the train. It pays me back to know that I live in a city where people do nice things for others–and that I’m contributing to that!
Allison said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:22 pm
Whenever I see someone at a stoplight asking for help, I often stop and ask them their name, and introduce myself and my 5-year-old son. I help if I can, but I always tell them that there are people in the world who love them, that I am one of those people, and that my son and I will pray for them if that’s allright with them. It’s odd, but so often, the people I meet are moved, sometimes to tears, to have someone ask them their name.
I have been moved myself, sometimes to the point of jumping out of the car to give them a great big hug! My son always remembers them in his prayers, asking God to keep them safe and to make sure that they are healthy and that they have a place to sleep. It’s nothing, really, and yet it has really deepened our appreciation for the incredible gifts we’ve been given, and also our compassion for those who feel forgotten.
Karen B. said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:44 pm
There is one Random Act of Knitting kindness I’d like to acknowledge and that is from a woman named Angie M. in Indiana. I have a couple of physical problems that make knitting difficult at times. Knowing this, Angie insisted that she pick up where I left off and knit a beautiful Chevron scarf, with each stitch meant to represent her healing hope for me. She recently sent me the completed scarf, wrapped around specially selected chocolates. I can’t tell you what this means to me
)
I’ve only met Angie once but I can tell you that she is one in a million!
Amy Scott said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:51 pm
I have a great RAK story:
When my dh and I were dating, we had a weekend where we were both broke. We wanted to go out, so we hit my then boyfriend’s coin jar and pulled out enough for us to split a sundae at IHOP.
So here we are at IHOP enjoying our pocketchange sundae and having a great conversation, and it was time to pay. So we started counting our change (while giggling the whole way through). This 40ish gentleman came up to us and plopped a $ 20 bill on our table and said, “I had someone do this for me one time, and now I want to do it for you too.” He went on to tell us a story about how someone paid for his gas.
We were so shocked, and we were thankful for the RAK. I’ll never forget this and it always brings me back great memories.
Rachel said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:53 pm
My RAK of the week would be helping a person out at the store, she had dropped quite a few items; everyone breezed by her, I halted everyone around her and helped her pick up everything, she was so thank ful. as I was to at least help her!
Cheeky Red Head said,
November 26, 2007 @ 6:59 pm
A RAK that someone did for me was that a friend that I was still just getting to know sent me a wonderful skein of sock yarn she had dyed herself just because, she said, the colors reminded her of me. As for the RAK I do for someone else, I make it a regular habit to let folk go ahead of me in line at the super market. One time there was lady ahead of me in line that I heard say what a great sale the stoer had on chiken. Her little girl was sitting in the front of the cart holding a container with a single cup cake in it and it was one of the last things to be run up. When the total was more money than the lady had she said some thing had to go back. I could see the torn look on the ladies face while she considered putting back the cupcake and/or the chicken. I leaned over to the cashier and said I would pay whatever the amount was that she needed. The lady just looked at me like I was nuts, she just couldn’t believe I would do something like that for a complete stranger. I told her that the $4 or $5 that I was spending on her chicken was the best meal I paid for all week and that there was no way I was going to let her daughter not have her cupcake.
Topaz said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:01 pm
I have to share a lovely thing that my kids did several years ago– hopefully it will inspire someone else. The kids all had money set aside to buy Christmas gifts for each other. My neighbor had taken temporary custody of her niece and nephew and she came over almost in tears one day because she didn’t know how she could afford Christmas gifts for her family that now totaled 8. My lovely, wonderful, sweet kids heard me tell my (then) husband about my friend’s angst. They pooled their money together, come to me and asked if they could buy gifts for the nieghbors instead buying for themselves. My friend AND her husband actually cried when the kids came over with the wrapped presents.
Chrissy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:02 pm
I have knitted 6 stocking hats for charity this holiday season, and I’ll probably knit a few more, and maybe some mittens, too.
Phyllis said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:06 pm
I try to help people when I’m out shopping, getting things from shelves that are too high, picking up dropped items, opening doors, the usual courtesy things that so many have forgotten about.
I’m also taking a gift up to my spinning teacher later this week. She’s celebrating the first anniversary of her shop. (And yes, Sheri, it will resemble a certain pie plate.)
I was on the receiving end a few weeks ago. I helped an artist friend buy a new 24″ iMac and move files around so that he could pass his old 20″ to his wife. They surprised me with an iPod touch. This was over and above what I get paid to maintain their computer network.
Kim said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:08 pm
Today at Barnes & Noble I was looking around for nothing in particular and then saw a display asking people to buy a book for a child for Christmas. I think all children should have books to call their own. I went to the counter and picked a price range and got “Charlie age 5″ and bought the book that will be given to him. I hope he likes it!
Melissa said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:27 pm
What a wonderful idea!!
Can indie dyers that are not (yet) sold at TLE donate yarn for this? If so I’d LOVE to!!!
Ksigman said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:28 pm
I love the idea!! I teach at a middle school in a low socioeconomic area so I have lots of opportunities. I buy school supplies and clothing for my kids. In return, I get lots of little dawings, hugs, and bright smiles. So all you teachers out there—hug a kid or find something positive to say a student who needs to hear it! It may be the only place they are going to hear it,
LaLa said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:37 pm
I think this is a great idea. My principal got me pirate stuff while she was out holiday shopping last week. She told me she saw it and thought of me. That’s why I work for her, she’s always thinking about the staff and the students.
inky said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:38 pm
Oh, this is right up my alley – DH and I just *love* doing this kind of stuff!
When DH was unemployed the second time (shudder) we got a supermarket gift card in the mail “from your friends” and I was able to do Easter Baskets for the girls. I never forgot that feeling, and now that I’m on the giving end, it feels even better.
Krista said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:46 pm
We have this completely horribe intersection at our new grocery store (city planners where high when the designed the exit), and cars back up to the store front trying to get out. There were only a couple of cars behind me (I had the right-of-way, the cars in line did not). I just set the car in park and let almost a dozen cars get out of the parking lot. I know it doesnt count ’cause the guys in back of me were seriously ticked, but it takes me 30 seconds to get into the parking lot and 15 minutes to get out.
Julia said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:49 pm
I feel strange leaving more than one comment, so I’ll just include both of them in this one. I’m sure that probably messes up the drawing numbers, but I feel weird enough actually talking about random kindness, since I’m not terribly comfortable with personal recognition. Anyway, I’ll stop squirming and just spill.
Act 1: I bought a book for a friend of mine who recently broke up with his girlfriend. It’s the latest Discworld novel. We met in an online RPG where I played DEATH, a character from the book. Just a nice way to let him know that people are thinking of him. Also, no one can read a Discworld book and not laugh.
Act 2: I sold my spinning wheel recently and quoted $20 dollars for shipping. I discovered today that the shipping was going to be twice that, since I forgot to take into account box dimensions. She got the extra shipping free.
Emma said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:51 pm
My sister-in-law went out shopping Friday morning specifically to get a copy of Shrek 2. She told me later she didn’t get it because Target was out of the widescreen version. She was so tired and exhausted, and that was the only thing she was out looking for.
So later, when I went to a different store, I saw the widescreen edition, and bought it for her.
Nikki said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:51 pm
This wasn’t done for me but a friend of mine’s daughter and granddaughter. They were driving home for Thanksgiving and neded up being run off the road by a truck. Luckily they were both fine but a couple people stopped to make sure they were OK and wait with them until the police came and all.
Many years ago, I had a car that wasn’t entirely reliable. It stalled, at night, on a hill at a stop light in a weird intersection. I called my Mom and step-dad to come “rescue” me and they recommended getting out of the car in case it got hit, I wouldn’t be injured. A couple people slowed down to make sure I had help coming but one man stopped his car in a nearby parking lot, and walked over to where I was sitting to make sure that I was OK and to see if I needed any help. It turned out he lived near me, I saw him the next day and he asked how my car was
Katy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:58 pm
RAKs are most awesome! And a sure way to cheer both parties involved up.
Not sure if this qualifies, but, today, I paid for someone on my bus. She’s a regular rider (and knitter) who was in a rush to get back to work after being off for 4 days. Between trying to get her 4 year old out the door AND make the bus, the wallet got left behind. So, I paid…and made sure she had fare for the way home as well!
Cheeky Red Head said,
November 26, 2007 @ 7:59 pm
A certin someone who does a podcast that combines craft and liturature had mentioned that she needed some help with the cost of producing the cast. I didn’t have any extra money that week or the next but I did have some fiber that I could spin into yarn. I offered the yarn to that certin someone for a ramdom drawing of the listeners who donated to the podcast that month. Now that certin someone has become a friend and I think I got the better end of deal.
Tracy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:04 pm
This is a great thread! I’m going to have to grab a nice latte and spend more time reading all the entries later.
I love doing RAKs and probably really started after grad school. I was having a very difficult time then, including the death of one of my BILs (he was a fireman). Some very dear friends PAID for my plane ticket home (nearly 3,000 miles from family) and then gave me a check that they called “just because” – a true pass it forward offering to help me that year at Christmas. And I have really tried to honor that thoughtfulness as I have been more settled in MY life in helping others. There is a young man here at work who is just starting out with a young wife and new baby, and I like to pass them movie tickets or other gift certificates occasionally so they can just go have an evening out (because I know their very tight budget doesn’t allow for any of those little luxuries). Or my neighbor John, a retired Marine who probably couldn’t bake to save his soul, but “helps me out” me when I bake a cake or cookies or whatever and have “more than I can eat”
There are just so many things we can do (and yes! those ones that don’t cost any money!)
knitopia said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:05 pm
I recently helped a stranger. I saw her online complaint that her computer and iPod were no longer cooperating. I pointed her toward some instructions I thought would help and she was very grateful to have all her music back.
Deniasha said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:23 pm
Thanksgiving day I was at Hollywood video with a Rent One get one free no limit coupon. They only had one of my two DVD’s I wanted. So after I checked out, I approached a harried mother with at least 5 kids and a huge stack of kids DVDs, handed her the coupon and left before she could protest. My hope is that she got several hours of peace and quiet to enjoy for herself.
Tiffany said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:24 pm
Today I found one of those little keychain jump drives on the floor inside the vestibule in my building. It looks like it must’ve fallen off of somebody’s keyring cause there’s no lid on it. Now, I could have easily kept this jump drive (It’s got quite a large amount of storage, and I have to admit, I’ve been wanting one for a while) but I realized that somebody might be missing an important file or two and knowing how much it would suck if I were on the other side of this situation, I took it home, checked it out for something identifying, and made up a found poster using one of the photos I found on the drive. Hopefully it’ll get back to it’s owner soon!
melissaknits said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:35 pm
I will donate a book….as soon as I get my hot little hands on one!
Beth said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:39 pm
What a great idea Sheri! Tonight on my way home I offered to drop a co-worker at the train station so she wouldn’t have to wait on the bus. Then I found out she hasn’t been feeling too well so maybe I helped her get home a little faster and rest a little sooner. On the way out we saw our boss who was loaded down with bags so we helped her carry them to her car.
Laura said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:40 pm
I had hoped to take my coworker to lunch today because it was her birthday. Instead she was very kind and supportive and encouraged me to go home early to take care of our dog, Harley, who’s health has been declining all summer. She even agreed to cover my desk hours so that I could go home early. I am very grateful for her support. I was able to spend Harley’s last day at home with him, showing him how much he was loved and making sure he was comfortable.
Sheryl said,
November 26, 2007 @ 8:50 pm
I prepaid for some books at my kindergartener’s book fair for kids who couldn’t afford to buy one. It drives me crazy that they parade the kids through the library to see all the books only to have some children really disappointed because they cannot buy one. I left $20 and told them to let a child who couldn’t afford one select a free book as our holiday gift.
Tracy said,
November 26, 2007 @ 9:07 pm
How wonderful Sherri, the acts and encouraging others to do the same.
I hang out with a large group of parents in my area, we keep in touch through message boards and through lots of real life activities. As the cold weather sinks in, several families who, like ours, don’t have a lot of money have been looking for coats for growing kids. This week has turned into a flurry of coat swapping – I passed on a large one my older boys have outgrown, someone gave me one for my toddler. It’s so great to see everyone working together that way, helping and supporting each other. Community at its best!
Katie said,
November 26, 2007 @ 9:25 pm
About three years ago, we were struggling financially. I mentioned it to a friend of mine and a few days later, I found a card in the mail with $100 from her. When I told her I couldn’t accept the money, she asked me to please take it, and if it made me feel better, to pay it forward when I was in a position to do so.
Today I was able to finally pay it forward. I have a friend who is struggling financially. She’s been very upset about it. I sent her $100. Knowing that she was going to say that she couldn’t accept it, I asked her to accept it, because I was paying forward a kind act done for me, and that if she ever wanted to and found herself in the position to do so, to please pay it forward as well.
Sara said,
November 26, 2007 @ 9:26 pm
My sister’s mother- and father-in-law have always been wonderful to me. At the ages of 84 and 87 they are, for what seems the first time, noticeably less vigorous and I wanted to do something to let them know how much I appreciated them so I gave them both hand-knit scarves at Thanksgiving without saying why except that I had been thinking of them. Not exactly an RAK since it wasn’t random and I stayed up late the night before to finish one of the scarves, but an act of kindness, I hope, nonetheless.
And, in common with many of the people who commented, I frequently let people merge into the lane I’m in – not always popular with the drivers behind me on our very large, very congested urban highways – because I feel so good when someone does it for me. I definitely feel I’m paying it forward when I do that.
New Jersey Laura said,
November 26, 2007 @ 9:37 pm
First — you have a drive-thru Starbucks! Oh the great ideas! Now the random act of kindness: I am reserving a ticket for Rachael Ray for a friend with a sick mom just in case she can get away from the hospital and use it.
Michelle said,
November 26, 2007 @ 9:50 pm
This is a small one, but…
On Friday at work, there was almost no one there that day (not everyone can take off the day after Thanksgiving though) and the highest-ranking person sent everyone home at 2:30. Two people who were there live in the city and take the train in, and the earliest bus from the office to the train station is at 4:30. There was a 3:35 train downtown, so I left at 3:05 and took them to the train station. It was only 5 minutes out of my way as I was already going in that general direction that day, but it was huge for them since the “train people” often don’t get to leave early when everyone else does. It was no big deal for me, but they were still talking today about what a really nice gesture that was and it got their weekend started on a good note.
Debi said,
November 26, 2007 @ 10:13 pm
My RAK was this evening. I ordered my favorite Mexican Chicken Salad from Chicken Kitchen for dinner tonight. The delivery guy was new and not the sharpest DPN in the skein, you know?
The poor thing called me FIVE TIMES trying to find my place that is about a mile away.
He finally got to my door and when I asked for change of a $20 he “left it in the car”!!
He ran down to get my change and despite my urge to tear him a new one (you don’t mess with a hungry fluffy girl!!) I smiled and gave him a BIG tip – I figured he needed a little cheer!
Dynna said,
November 26, 2007 @ 10:19 pm
Many years ago, my family was the recipient of RAKs. At a particular difficult time in our life, we received a Christmas card with a $100 bill in it. That was anonymous as were the numerous gifts delivered for our 2 sons. I never forgot that and have been able to pass the $100 onto a couple other folks, anonymously. The many comments here have been inspiring to read and gives us more ideas of RAKs. Thank you, Sheri.
KT said,
November 26, 2007 @ 10:25 pm
The other day , right before I was leaving for Thanksgiving break, I passed one of the many homeless men who hang around the Metro station. I was in a really good mood and decided that, for once, I would stop thinking about doing something about it and actually do something about it. It sounds so stupid to say, but I got the guy a hotdog and a Coke. He laughed at me when I was apologetic ’cause I put ketchup and mustard on it but didn’t know what he liked. I don’t like to give money, but food is another story all together. I should stuff like that more often. I really like this month’s blog challenge.
Heather said,
November 26, 2007 @ 10:43 pm
BRILLIANT idea, Sheri! The world can always use more kindness. My RAK for the week was actually on Black Friday, at the height of the crazy shopping. I’d scored all the important items already, and was in a long line happily waiting to pay. There was a harried looking woman with one or two items trying to find the end of the line (waaaaay far behind us!), so I let her go ahead of me.
I probably annoyed somebody behind me, but that’s okay. She was very grateful, and I didn’t mind waiting the extra minute or two.
I do love reading RAK stories…it does the heart good, especially at such a stressful, brittle time of year. You rock, Sheri.
Laurie said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:02 pm
This happened to me last week…
I was in line at a local craft store all set to check out when I realized I forgot my 50% off coupon. The woman behind me gave me hers. She said,” Well I am only getting this one thing and you can save more than me.” How sweet!!! I then gave some one some change that they were short. I t just keeps going…
A family friend often pays the bill at resturant for a Mom siiting with her kids. It is just fun. We now pay some one’s bill and leave before they can find out who it is.
Kelli said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:06 pm
I had EAEO training tonight and had to knit something, so I made a 16 stitch sock ornament. I gave it to the instrutor and he was very excited to receive it. It’s his first Christmas in Indiana and the first ornament that he had been given from Indiana.
I had so much fun making it that I might make several more.
hopalong682003 said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:15 pm
This contest is seriously going to eat in to my knitting time because I have to read ALL the comments.
You guys are great!
To Me: I broke my foot years ago. One of my co-workers decided to pick me up for work every day (many miles from his house) and drive me home or to school. I’ll never forget that.
From Me: I regularly e-mail thank you letters to bosses of people that I work with or that have provided a service to me. It always helps them for reviews, bonuses, etc.
Deb B (knitiot) said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:24 pm
Last winter while driving to Maine late at night I came to a toll booth. I had my money ready and hung it out the window only to be told that the car in front of me had paid for my toll. That was a totally unexpected act of kindness. I have never forgotten it.
Well without knowing about this, I had an opportunity to do this for someone over the weekend while driving on the MA Pike. I paid for TWO cars behind me. It made MY day to do that and i wasn’t even the recipient!
I am up for the challenge. I will be sure to do something at least once per week all month.
Thanks for the challenge Sheri!
Deb B (knitiot) said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:26 pm
ok weird…I just went bck up and read your WHOLE post and just saw what your cup said about the tolls….freaky. see my post above!
Eli said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:33 pm
It feels small compared to everything else on this list but it was nice and not asked for. I got a new stereo installed in my car tonight, and I asked if they could make the i-pod cable go into the glove box. They said sure, but it would cost an extra $13. I didn’t care, this is my Christmas gift from Hubby so paying $13 for it is nothin’. Well when I went back to get my car and pay the extra, the nice guy said not to worry about it, it was nothing extra to do. That sure was nice of him!
Deb B (knitiot) said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:33 pm
I wanted to mention one more thing….
last year I raised money for a family who was struggling financilly. Because of the money I helped raise, they had a ncie Christmas.
This year, we had a bigger situation on our hands. One of my coworkers fell out of a tree and is paralyzed, out of work with no disability insurance. i work with incredible people…..we have about 30 people so far, planning a big fundraiser breakfast, bake sale, cookbook sale, “no-can” can drive (cash only), tea cup raffle and afternoon coffee/snacks event in our office building to raise money for him and his family. We plan to present him with a big check for whatever they need, a big gift card for groceries and a gift basket with boredom busters to help him get through his recovery period.
When you start something, it catches on. Be nice to comeone, and it will eventually find it’s way back to you. people ARE genuinely good. sometimes they just need to be reminded.
Kaylee said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:38 pm
I am very fortunate that I live in a community where I see RAK almost everyday – most recently I had a flat tire (and spare) while at the post office. While waiting for AAA not one, not two, but three different strangers pulled over on their way out of the parking lot and offered to help.
As for me, my Karma story is amusing – I pulled into a very full parking lot the other day – cursed the guy who had taken up two spaces – parked near him and laughed to myself as I realized he had left his lights on – then saw that in addition his door wasn’t properly closed – oh well – bad luck and a drained battery for him – wait a minute – as I realized what a small minded person I was – I turned off his lights and closed the door – thought about locking it but with his Karma his keys would have been in it!
Laura said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:49 pm
My most memorable RAK was one that I DIDN’T do, and should have. Traveling through Germany with my little (20 yo) brother a couple of years ago, we were approached by a young guy at the Berlin train station who took the time to ask us (in English!) for our subway tickets, as we were leaving the city. I had apparently become so jaded from the hustle-and-bustle life I had been living that I said no without thinking about it. My brother was shocked at how calloused I was to a perfect stranger. While I tried to make up for it by offering those same subway tickets to another young girl who asked us for money, I’ve never forgotten the lesson. All the same, these stories remind me that perhaps I should take action on this lesson more often!
James said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:50 pm
Yesterday at church I was talking to one of the altos in my choir. She’s having brain surgery Wednesday morning to have a tumor the size of a potato removed. She commented that she was concerned because they would have to shave her head, and she’s always cold anyway and it’s bound to be colder when you’re bald. I went home after church, dug through my stash to find a skien of Malabrigo that I adore and have been saving for lord only knows what, and spent the rainy afternoon knitting her a hat. Does knitting qualify as an act of kindness? I wonder, because I think of an act of kindness as a sacrifice and I think of knitting as an indulgence. Maybe they just cancel each other out.
Janice said,
November 26, 2007 @ 11:54 pm
What a great idea! I LOVE Random Acts of Kindness…and this is the perfect season to put them into practice!! It’s fun to read all about ways people have shown and been shown kindness. (If only the media would pick up on how powerful it is to tell these kinds of stories instead of what usually fills our papers and News hours!). Just the other day a good friend showed me a RAK. I received in the mail a beautiful book for no reason other than it had reminded her of me and so she bought it and sent it with a beautiful hand written note!
Diana T said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:02 am
I have a co-worker who bought me a little zipper case just because she knew I liked the little character on the front. She gave it to me at a time that I was really in need of something to make me smile.
Tina said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:48 am
When I met my hubby 14 years ago, he had just finished basic training and was returning from Christmas leave. My cousin, who introduced us, told me that he sat alone on Thanksgiving! No one invited him anywhere (she didn’t meet him yet)…so after that, my hubby invites any of the soldiers who don’t have family or can’t go home for financial reasons, to our house for Thanksgiving dinner and/or Christmas dinner. This year, my hubby is deployed and it’s getting cold in Iraq, so I am making hats. I just sent a package for hubby and secretly made his roommate a hat too. I’m going to make more and send them also.
Ruth said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:54 am
I’m not sure that this counts as kindness-maybe just courtesy. I was at UPS today and the door was really hard to open. I got inside and just got my package set down when I could hear someone struggling behind me. I rushed over to open the door, and there was a woman juggling two huge packages trying to get that knob turned.
I think I need to do more for others–I have the impression from the messages I read that that is a common theme here. I do believe in giving money to strangers who ask. I don’t question their need. If I have a dollar or two, I’ll offer it.
Scott said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:58 am
There is an older gentleman that I work with, and in conversing with him I learned that he lived not too far from where I do. I then learned the next week that he was taking a one to two hour bus ride, then walking for about four or five miles to get back home. Whenever he works the same shift as I do, I always give him a ride back home, it saves him up to three hours, takes me only five extra minutes, and always provides interesting converstation on the drive home.
Rebecca said,
November 27, 2007 @ 1:06 am
These are so fun to read! Much more so than Thucydides!
When I saw this entry I couldn’t remember anything that I’d done out of the ordinary smiling at people and stuff… but then I thought of this morning. One of my friends is perpetually harried and she’s one of the sweetest people I know, and she’d broken a glass right in a doorway but was already late to a meeting and had to rush off, so I picked it up for her after she’d gone. (Granted, she guessed and gave me some lovely chocolate afterward, but still…)
Theresa in Italy said,
November 27, 2007 @ 5:04 am
Sheri, what a wonderful idea!
I can’t think of any specific RAKs to report. I am good about letting people with fewer items than I have go ahead of me in the checkout line at the supermarket (and that always seems to astonish them, so I gather it’s not a common practice here).
Lois said,
November 27, 2007 @ 7:42 am
As part of my work, I get freebies that I like to pass along to others. I had a friend who was out of work for an extended period. I sent (anonymously) gift cards that I received through work. I also like to pay the toll for the person behind me. That’s a small thing but certainly one that brightens the day.
LizzieK8 said,
November 27, 2007 @ 7:51 am
A couple of winters ago, I used to drive my adult daughter to school every morning. We passed a crossing guard-an elderly man- at an elementary school that did Yoga poses when he wasn’t busy protecting the children.
He’d wave, smile, do a little dance, anything to get the harried motorists to smile.
One day I decided that he needed a bright scarf to keep his neck warm. I purchased a bright rainbow colorway and crocheted him a nice long scarf. We drove by one morning and just reached out the window to hand him the scarf, wishing him a nice day.
Seeing him continuing his quest to bring a smile into the lives of the early morning drives with a bright colored scarf around his neck brought a bit of warmth to all of us in the car.
tracey in mi said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:01 am
What a great idea—- and perfect timing!
The other day- I went to Walmart- an older gentleman was sitting outside the door- collecting donations for abused children. It was snowing. He had on a thin coat no gloves.
Before leaving the house- I had just finished up a pair of mittens- and had slipped them into my bag. I dropped some cash into the jar- and asked where his gloves were. “Don’t have any” was the response.
I grabbed the mittens- and handed them over. Told him they were new, I had knit them- and they were warm. I wish you could have seen his face;)
My goal is to always have a finished knit piece into my bag-(hats mitts etc) and give away as many as I can!
Warm Hands- warm heart;)
Nancy said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:38 am
Tracey, what a wonderful idea! I wish I had thought about that. I will certainly follow your lead on it tho.
Karin said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:01 am
While out shopping this weekend (which I hate to do) I let someone cut in front of me in line at each store I went to. I tried to pick those who were deserving but that was not always the case. Even so, everyone was appreciative.
tracey in mi said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:12 am
I would have never thought about it either— just kind of ” happened”
Janelle said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:23 am
An acquaintance who knew that I knit was planning a trip to NYC, and asked me about yarn shops there. I only knew what I had read online because I haven’t really been to the city (even though I live 4 hours away). She was shocked and insisted that I go. A conversation began. In the end, she cared for my 2 children and my friends’ 2 children – 4 kids ages 2-5 – for a whole weekend (Friday AND Saturday nights) and insisted that we have a long double date in NYC. I was shocked. I almost didn’t take her up on the offer. I didn’t feel like I knew her well enough to impose in this way. But she said “girl, offers like this don’t come along every day, don’t pass it up!” and I knew she was right. So we took a deep breath and did it. What a wonderful weekend.
Her only request was that we repay her some day by helping out another young mother. She said that she received lots of help when her son was young and it was a godsend. Sometimes you really need a break from parenting.
I still get teary when I think about my friend (we’ve become much closer since then!) and the wonderful gift she gave us. I can’t wait to spring a similar offer on another family when my boys are older.
Anniebananie said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:58 am
I was out on Black Friday (yup, I’m that nuts) at The Children’s Place Outlet. I had extra coupons, so I handed them out to the people around me. Heck, it was 20% off the total!
Liz said,
November 27, 2007 @ 10:23 am
Last week, I sent an email to the district manager for the daycare where my children go, to sing the praises of the current director at our center. She is truly amazing — we have been through five or six directors in the six years that we’ve been there, and she is really the first to make the center come together and feel like home.
Laura said,
November 27, 2007 @ 11:29 am
Sheri, what a great idea!
My roommate and I just this weekend put together a bag of food for the food bank. I am dropping it off on my way to work today – I don’t know if that counts as a RAK, but I think it does.
As a side note … I have to speak on behalf of my roommate’s amazing RAK. Her boyfriend broke her leg a couple weeks ago while on vacation in Florida with his grandma. My roomie, L, booked a flight within two days of the accident (despite her boyfriend’s protests not to spend that sort of money) and hightailed it down there. The boyfriend’s grandma wasn’t strong enough to help him in/out of places, help turn him in bed, that sort of thing. L was only going to stay for the weekend but changed her flight to stay through Thanksgiving, because he wasn’t able to travel back to his parents’. She helped him get changed, helped turn him every two hours, carried his leg when need be. That is a true RAK. =)
I received a great RAK on Thanksgiving. I was running a Turkey Trot 10K and was feeling down and out about my lack of running ability. I had decided I wouldn’t pay the $70 to register for a half-marathon I wanted to run in March – why bother, I’m in bad shape, that’s a lot of money, etc. When I got to the finish line, my friend had won a free entry to the same half-marathon in a raffle. She is moving to Australia and couldn’t be there if she wanted to … so she gave it to me!! It made me cry.
Deborah K said,
November 27, 2007 @ 11:31 am
Where I went to college (Mount Holyoke) we had a tradition of doing random acts of kindness for the freshman/sophomores – it was called elfing. Each junior/senior “adopted” an underclassman in their dorm and for the entire month showered them with random acts of kindness. These would include picking up their mail and delivering it to them, leaving small snacks, purchasing an extra bottle of their favorite shampoo/hair gel for them, etc. etc. At the end of the month – the identity of the secret benefactress was revealed. It led to many new and lasting friendships and guidance for new students who sorely needed it.
I’m inspired by many of those that I’ve read above, especially those involving the senior citizens. They so frequently just suffer on – being of a generation not wanting to request any help – “pull up your own bootstraps”. I am going to do a few deeds for those in my neighborhood….I need to figure out what would be most helpful…
katrina grace craig said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:03 pm
because the traffic where i live absolutely bites, i am all about the rush hour RAK. i let people in from sidestreets when the line of cars is so long there will never be an opening, same with letting people cross in front of me to make a turn; the best is when i get a two-fer, letting both happen at once! it is amazing how happy it makes people and it is so easy and courteous and at best slows my arrival time at my destination by less than a minute. this weekend alone, with the added shopping traffic, i reckon i made more than two dozen people smile.
jane mckeag said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:13 pm
This was over the top – last April my pregnant daughter lost her baby at 33 weeks. When I couldn’t get an airline seat or ticket to see her, the counter clerk gave me her free monthly pass and reserved a seat on a full flight for me.
Beth said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:45 pm
I’m thinking you’re going to be spending all your time reading blog comments……eek!
I’m always looking for opportunities for RAK; your post inspired me to look harder! Yesterday’s fulfilled opportunities were many, due to many, many errands on our list: multiple shopping carts brought in or put away, bag o’groceries for the local mission bought, letting others’ cars in front of ours, letting others go first in the stores, being *sure* to greet and thank each and every store clerk that served us.
Thanks for the reminder to be a blessing, Sheri! The Christmas season is much more of a blessing when we’re putting others first!!
Doris said,
November 27, 2007 @ 12:47 pm
I have one done for my husband a couple of years ago. He was driving in the snow in Northern Michigan, shortly after his father had passed away. He was feeling like something was wrong with his car’s steering, and this was a new Volvo that should have been doing great in the snow. Long story made much shorter, he was up there to bring his dad’s car back to Maryland for our son, whose car had just blown its engine 45 minutes after a professional oil change (coincidence…I think not). Anyway, when he got there, he found that the car was not in good enough shape to bring home. He went into town to get some groceries, and on the way back a pickup truck was flashing its light at him and flying up on his bumper. His first thoughts were that some jerk was trying to pass him in the snowstorm. So he pulled over to let him pass. Then the “jerk” pulled up next to him and my husband worried that the driver was also going to yell at him or try to start something (comes of living in Baltimore, I guess). Well, in actuality, it was a driver who had seen that my husband’s rear tire was not turning and was trying to help him. The driver and his wife waited while my husband called a tow truck and then drove him home, quite a few miles out of the way. The strangers have since become friends.
For my part, I just try to do things on a regular that I would appreciate having done for me. I hadn’t necessarily thought of them as random acts of kindness before, but as doing the things that make me feel like a decent person doing them…
Lori said,
November 27, 2007 @ 1:03 pm
I have a friend on the other coast who I buy tea for every once in a while. It’s a flavor she can’t really get anywere else but this one site, and it’s not trouble at all for me to do so.
The “Tea Brigade” is growing so that not all the work is on one person, and although she protests, she is also grateful for it.
Not really random (after the first purchase–that was spur-of-the-moment), but it is in the spirit.
I also live not too far from a large toll bridge, and before the advent of electronic payment here, I would give the toll booth person enough to cover myself and the car behind me whenever I had to cross the bridge.
susan-loopy elf said,
November 27, 2007 @ 1:18 pm
It is my day off, and there are sooo many good stories, I’m not getting anything done
Let’s see…my super nice boss bought me a Starbucks yesterday
When the bell ringers are out at our local grocery store, and my kids are with me, we buy a donut or some hot chicken strips for them.
Candice said,
November 27, 2007 @ 2:12 pm
I think I’m getting teary-eyed reading all these comments.!
Not sure how random this is, but I was playing around with some scrap wool a few days ago and crocheted up several take-out coffee cup cozies. I took them to my favorite coffee shop the next morning and gave them to the barristas that make my yummy coffee every day. The next day, one of them showed me a picture of her Chihuahua wearing the coffee sweater – it fit perfectly!
Chan said,
November 27, 2007 @ 2:49 pm
What a great contest! I go out of my way to let vehicles merge, since I have a couple of major bottle necks on my very short commute. It makes other drivers grumpy, but that’s okay.
Heather said,
November 27, 2007 @ 2:56 pm
I volunteered to organize our moms group trip to the puppet theater for the holiday show. One of my friends (who just had her 4th baby in 4 years) wanted to take her kids but wasn’t able to get the money for tickets to me b/c of new baby expenses. I bought her tickets. I’d been in a similar spot in the past and had a friend “treat” me and the kids to something fun so I told her to PIF.
Sharon said,
November 27, 2007 @ 3:00 pm
I took my two girls to a pizza arcade type place on Saturday….it is a place where you can get tickets after playing the games and then redeem the tickets for “fabulous” prizes…oh how my girls love going there….and they love getting tickets…we watched one little girl playing a game, but in the process she dropped a couple tokens on the ground…I picked them up and my girls and I went up to the little girl and gave her back the dropped tokens…..smile….good for my girls to see…..good for my heart to see the little girl burst into a wide grin at getting two more tokens!
kittenster said,
November 27, 2007 @ 3:24 pm
I cleaned out the car a few days ago so that we could help friends to the airport. While cleaning the car out I found 7$ and stuffed it in my pocket thinking I could pay for a drink later in the day on the way back.
As we were getting off the freeway that day there was a man standing on the side of the road with a sign “Please help”. Normally I don’t have cash at all and it just struck me this time. I dug in my pocket and handed the cash to my husband who gave the cash to the man. I hope my “pocket change” helped.
Michelle from Arizona said,
November 27, 2007 @ 3:43 pm
The RAK I am sharing was from the world’s best neighbor, Roger. He is like a second father to me and is always watching out for me and doing things to help a sometimes naive homeowner. I told him I am starting a compost project now and am collecting tree limbs etc. for the bin. One day a garden sized shredder turns up in my backyard that Roger had purchased at a yard sale and fixed up for me with a new wheel and plunger tool he made. How sweet! This is just one of many similar instances. What a kind-hearted person!
Dorothy said,
November 27, 2007 @ 3:54 pm
This happened many years ago – my husband had been laid off. We were really struggling to keep our children in the Christian School. When I went in to pay our tuition, I found that someone had paid it for us. It wasn’t until many years later that I found out who it was. I found out by accident and I didn’t thank him because I knew he would be embarassed. So, what I did was go in to the school and paid someone else’s tuition for a month.
Mindy said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:09 pm
I’m a firm fan of the RAK. I think i use it in life to the point that it just being nice now and I love it. Kidding with older ladies at a mamogram site really made my day on Monday. Lord knows its not fun to be at that dr and loosing up is always a good thing. I try to be friendly to the older ladies in stores and such if i can..seems to often they are forgotten….
Frances said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:10 pm
I let someone go in front of me in line at the very crowded post office yesterday during lunch time. I also brought dinner to a co-worker who just had a baby.
I also like to leave nice comments on people’s blogs. I feel that they put things out for us to look at and read and enjoy, so if I’m going to read a blog, I should leave a nice comment.
Marsha in Colorado said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:27 pm
I forgot to mention that I bought a turkey for the community Thanksgiving baskets last week.
I also let a woman in front of me in line at Wal-Mart today at noon.
I picked up trash in the street where someone had thrown out a giant styrofoam drink cup that had exploded into several pieces.
All the RAKs are so inspiring.
Juliet said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:32 pm
I hope I’m not too late for Monday’s contest, but the RAK I have been doing for a few weeks now, is helping out a co-worker who can’t drive. I offer to bring him somewhere for lunch and make gas station runs to pick up a snack almost every day. Also, because of his current living situation, I brought him a slice of homemade pumpkin pie, which he loved.
Thanks for insiring all of us to be kind. This is an awesome idea!
Virginia said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:35 pm
Once a month, I transport all the donated baked goods from our church to the local soup kitchen. Last week, I found out that one of the regular soup kitchen workers had had a heart attack – Yikes! His wife and daughter were caring for him, but they are both trying to keep their jobs as well. So, I cooked up a big batch of healthy and delicious marinara sauce and put it in containers. I dropped it off with some boxes of noodles so at least they will have a hot dinner that they really only have to warm up.
They sent me an e-mail yesterday asking for the recipe! It’s a healthy recipe, so even our sick friend can eat it as he recovers.
Yay! Not exactly anonymous, however, I did have to call them to drop it off. I’ll work on an anonymous one soon.
Thanks for doing this Sheri!
Virginia
Wendy in Cambridge said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:39 pm
So many people have done nice things for me that I couldn’t even begin to list them.
In turn, I always try to do something that will help someone out, whether it’s a good friend or a stranger. Even a small thing like holding a door or helping someone who’s trying to balance packages, kids, etc., I think is appreciated.
I don’t cook at all, so I eat in restaurants a LOT! When I receive really good service, I always ask for the manager as I’m leaving and compliment my server. I’ve been doing this for many years. The managers always approach me with trepidation–they must be so used to people complaining!–but, having worked in a service industry myself, I think it’s really important to recognize a job well done.
Hillis said,
November 27, 2007 @ 4:52 pm
What a great idea, I have decided to use all my scraps of sock yarn and knit the fingerless mitts. I am then going to donate them to the local homeless shelter. It is always better to give then receive.
Belinda Giliberti said,
November 27, 2007 @ 5:01 pm
My boss actually did something really nice for me. I told him that I was going to lunch with a former colleague of mine from the law firm that I worked at previously. I ended up at the same lunch spot as my boss, who was just picking up a sandwich to go. I introduced him to my friend and she and I sat down for lunch. My boss got his sandwich and left. When we had finished eating our lunch and were ready to pay the bill, the waitress came by and said that it was already covered! It was so nice of him to do that! He is already a nice boss, but there was no reason for him to do that! He just did it! He is too nice (and he is a lawyer! – no offense to any knitting lawyers out there).
Rachael said,
November 27, 2007 @ 5:34 pm
This is fun! I’m not sure if this counts b/c it’s not a specific RAK, but a broader one. I decided earlier today to donate a sheep to Heifer International (heifer.org) and I purchased it in honor of the online knitting community & posted a contest on my blog to get other knitters to donate. I got an unexpected bonus at work & I wanted to do something for somebody who was in need. I hope the generous spirit of my readers will help turn my single donation into more donations for such an amazing organization – and I really like the idea that I’m helping there be more wool in the world.
moirae said,
November 27, 2007 @ 6:12 pm
I bought someone a bottle of water last night at my knitting group, just for the heck of it.
It’s not exactly random, nor is it anonymous, but
I’m in the middle of working on a project for Afghans for Afghans. I’m collecting mitered squares that I will assemble into a blanket headed for Kabul. Anyone who is interested should drop by my blog or hunt up the Charity Miters group on Ravelry. I’m accepted striped, cascade 220, wool, stockinette miters. Anyone wanting to perform an RAK could send in a square!
Kate/Massachusetts said,
November 27, 2007 @ 6:31 pm
lol — I was two steps ahead of the meter maid today, putting in quarters for expired meters. He as not happy with me but I did not get arrested! Would you have posted bail for me if I told them that you sent me to do a ROAK?
Phoebe said,
November 27, 2007 @ 6:34 pm
Hope I’m not too late but my mom asked me at the last minute to knit her up EZ’ BSJ for a co-worker who was having a baby the day before we left vacation. (She’s a crocheter and had admired the one I knit up for my manicurist out of a Loopy Ewe yarn purchase). I went to my LYS for yarn before we left, and ended up using stash yarn for the last couple of rows as I ran out. I put all my planned vacation knitting on hold and actually completed it for her in record time.
christine schnabel said,
November 27, 2007 @ 7:56 pm
I have a friend who is in the military and went out to dinner with him when he came back. (He is since redeployed) This one couple came to our table and thanked him for serving and protecting our country. i thought that this was soooo swwet adn so did my friend. he was really moved by this. Well about an hour later when we asked our waitress for our bill, she told us that the bill had been taken care of. The couple that had stopped by our table ended up paying for our meal. I had never had this happen to me before but I was deeply appreciative of this and so was my friend.
Brenda said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:00 pm
Today as I was driving out of a shopping center I noticed something fly off of the roof of the car in front of me. As I pulled out I saw two cars pulled over picking stuff up off the ground. The woman who pulled out before me had left her purse on the top of her car and this is what I saw fly off. I raced to the traffic light ahead because I could see she was stopped at it waiting to make a left turn. I pulled up next to her, motioning her to roll her window down. At first she looked at me like I was crazy and then did roll it down. When I asked her if she had her purse she looked completely shocked, looked at the seat next to her and practically screamed “NO”. I told her what had happened and that she should pull in front of me and turn into another shopping center which would give her access to the area where her purse was. She did and I could see in my rearview mirror that she made it to the place where her purse was and people were handing over the contents. I know if this had happened to me and someone saw it I would want them to try to catch up to me and tell me. She had a young child in the backseat in a carseat and had probably put her purse on the roof of her car to put the child in the carseat and then forgot about it.
As I was talking to her people were honking their horns at us and one “gentleman” raced around us to make the light and gave us a “lovely” gesture to show what he thought of my kindness : )
Love the cup in the picture – now every time I stop at a stoplight I will think of the saying printed on it.
shadkitty said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:12 pm
I absolutely love this idea.
Right now I seem to be having a mental block though. The most recent thing I can think of is when we went to McDonald’s quickly before getting on the road for Thanksgiving. My brother, and all three of my children in tow, of course. Well, as we were standing in line, my mother calls to check on us, so I tell my brother to order for us (we had already talked about what everyone was getting). He’s not really used to ordering for anyone else, and made a mistake about what I wanted…as well as forgetting to purchase a drink for me. lol The girl who had taken our order walked over to check on us just as I realized what had happened (I blame my youngest’s irresistible blue eyes for luring her over), she immediately took care of it and gave me a soda free of charge. I know it doesn’t really seem like much, but I never had to get out of my seat, and when you are with three children under the age of five, it’s really helpful.
Just recently I purchased a skein of the new STR Raven Clan for someone I met on Ravelry. He has no real place to live and recently someone stole all of his belongings! Including a stole in progress! Thinking that that was the worst thing I’d ever heard, I immediately offered him some yarn. Then realized that I could either not part with what I had, or it just wasn’t good enough. So I bought some yarn, and am sending it out tomorrow.
Andrea said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:14 pm
A random act of kindness was done for me yesterday – I was saying how cute I thought a knitting pattern was – and someone bought it for me and emailed it to me!!! I was so excited and thankful
)
suzanne said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:31 pm
I gave blood today. Though I do it regularly, it is an effort. And I HATE needles. I am always totally terrified of the finger prick and the needle in the vein. But after that, no problem.
Plus, every donation saves three lives!
Lisa Thrasher said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:34 pm
I wanted to tell you about a wonderful act of kindness that was bestowed on my family for Thanksgiving. My DH had surgery to remove a cancerous tumor in October and he has had multiple complications and is still hospitalized. My coworkers had Thanksgiving diner catered for my children and me so we wouldn’t have to worry about cooking! Their generosity completely humbled all of us!
suzanne said,
November 27, 2007 @ 8:34 pm
I finished putting together the library’s Xmas donation today–we sponsor a child, buy all of their Xmas gifts and then put together a food care package. This is the second year I have headed the effort, but everyone pitches in to help. And really, who doesn’t like buying toys for kids? and clothes?
Our kid this year asked for Chapter books. What is more dear to a librarian’s heart than buying BOOKS!
Cathy said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:30 pm
One done for me: Last summer on my way to work I hit a deer. A little freaked out I called my bf and he suggested I drive to a car repair place a mile or so down the road that is on my way to work and so I did. When I pulled up and went into the shop the man behind the counter could see that I was upset and immediately had someone take my car around back to make sure it was still safe to drive. Once they did that they even pulled out the water hose and well….cleaned things up a bit… and they would not take any money from me…and oh yeah, this was all at 5:45 in the morning! Needless to say it is where I get most of my work done now.
I was also inspired to do a little one today: After the morning coffee rush at work I washed out and cleaned up the office coffee/tea mess…which had not been cleaned throughly in a couple of months!
Minnie said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:35 pm
i’m a charity crafter. since most of the charities i donate to are around the country (and the world!) it’s pretty random, and pretty anonymous.
does that count , lol?
Therese said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:37 pm
I ride the bus to work and last week, realized as it pulled up that I had forgotten my wallet, which had my bus pass, cash and ATM card. The guy behind me in line not only paid my fare, but he loaned me lunch money! Wow! Major RAOK! While we both regularly ride the same bus to work, I didn’t know him and had never even spoken to him before.
Anne said,
November 27, 2007 @ 9:38 pm
Recent RAK done for me — a blogging friend sent me a lovely package of bath scrub and lip balm because she knew from reading my blog that I was in the middle of a serious run of crummy events. I have loved reading what other Loopy fans have done as their RAKs … and they’ve given me some great ideas for the future. I brought a pot of chicken soup to my new neighbors when they all had pneumonia, and often express my caring for others by baking for them, and I used a book credit to send a copy of a favorite book to the child of another blogging acquaintance. Feeding loved ones and sharing books is a tradition in my family and my RAKs seem to take one of these forms or the other more often than not. What a great idea this is, Sheri. I wonder how long it will take you to read the posts!
Kaidy said,
November 28, 2007 @ 1:23 am
Well it’s after midnight now, so yesterday I just did a RAK that I do fairly frequently. I helped the person ahead of me in line at Sam’s Club take the stuff off the bottom of her cart and put it on the check out belt. She was there with a loaded cart, a daughter who looked to be about six and a baby who was in his car seat in the cart. I remember how it used to be shopping with a baby (mine is 22 now) and how much I appreciated it when someone helped me. I think people are surprised though and don’t know what to think. I am enjoying reading all of the comments.
Karen in Toledo said,
November 28, 2007 @ 8:30 am
Every week at knit night at our LYS, we each put in a dollar to cover the cost of beverages (water, soda, coffee) and put our names into a drawing for a door prize. It’s usually something good donated by the shop owners – a book, yarn and a pattern, etc. I’ve won more than once, so I kick in my dollar and I put someone else’s name on the slip of paper – someone who hasn’t won, someone having a bad day, or someone new to the group.
Genny said,
November 28, 2007 @ 9:09 am
I was doing some Christmas shopping in the centre of London a little while ago, and the nicest thing happened to me. I was trying to find a nice gift for a friend who is expecting her first baby, and so asked the shop assistant in the baby and pharmacy section of the store for some advice. She made a few suggestions, and then directed me up to the gift section of the store. About 5 minutes later, she came running up behind me, gifts in hand – on an incredibly busy Saturday, she’d taken the time out to help me find the perfect Christmas present for a friend. It really touched me.
Something that I always do is tell people when they’ve left their bags open. I’ve had things stolen from a backpack before, and living in a big city, you really don’t want to walk around inviting people into your bag. It always makes people smile!
Rebecca said,
November 28, 2007 @ 10:08 am
I LIKE this idea Sherri! Only, I’m not too sure my husband would like the idea of me buying a coffee for a guy in a sports car…LOL You are just too funny! I guess if we are going to do a random act of kindness we can’t be too selective about the recipient………….
Joanne said,
November 28, 2007 @ 12:43 pm
I love this concept…and feel it should be done all year not just for Christmas. People should give to others no matter when the season. Today I decorated a paper mitten(had to keep with the knitting thingy:) ) and I wrote on it…Ho, Ho, Ho, here’s something for a cuppa tea or joe…and I enclosed $3 for a cup of coffee for a co-worker, a teacher, who has a hard time with his class. I plan on doing it for others…a secret pick-me-up…and wwe all need that….just thee giving part makes me feel good, too. Thanks for sharing everyone! Happy Holidays to all of you!
MaryAnn said,
November 28, 2007 @ 1:10 pm
Since my DH and I were unable to have kids,we started our marriage with pets-all kinds. Then,various crummy issues hit me-like arthritis,spine probs,etc.-boo-who-
so we couldn’t have as many pets. Our local Humane society used to put down the
animals that were not adopted after a (what I thought was ) a pretty short time. So,
I made a deal with them. I find sponsors,pet food ( Thank God not the tainted stuff!)’
foster homes,people who can’t have pets but will pay for all up keep in the shelter,and my DH and i pay for all the spaying and neutering,goody bags for each family and investigations into homes which are adopting. This is not strict stuff,but gentle help for new and old adoptee families. We send them coupons after and have keep in touch. No more euthanasia (except for animals deathly ill and in pain) !
And adoptions are way up. BTW I have two shelter adopted cats..
Marti Johnson said,
November 28, 2007 @ 2:39 pm
This isn’t my RAK, but my husband shared this one with me. He’s an armed security guard working nights, so he often sees a side of life most of us never see. In our city of Sacramento, there is a large homeless population, and we are forever hearing about “dealing with the plight (or problem) of the homeless”. In this case, my husband noticed two shabbily-dressed homeless men picking up stuff all over a gas station/mini-mart area, and finally asked what they were doing. They informed him it was their “job”. So, he checked inside with the owner to be sure they weren’t stealing something, and the owner replied that, yes, that was their job. Every day they made sure that the parking lot was policed for trash, picking up anything thrown on the ground, cleaned up any spills of liquid, and kept “other bums” from hanging around the property. In return, the owner provided each man with two large hamburgers or sub-sandwiches per day, plus one large can of Red Bull, plus they also had a little “hootch” around the back of the store that was protected from wind & rain where they could sleep safely and dry. I was impressed that here was a business owner who helped two totally unskilled, nearly illiterate men with a job they could do, one solid meal a day, plus shelter, and most especially, their dignity. This cost the owner very little, and the two men were very proud of their ability to survive in a big city without having to move to a government shelter where they felt threatened. Its not much by most people’s standards, but for these two men, its their world.
graygirl said,
November 28, 2007 @ 3:04 pm
I’ve been involved with our charity knit nights at our LYS. Last month we decided to participate in the latest afghans for Afghans campaign. They needed to fill 80 boxes with sweaters and vests for 7 to 14 year olds affected by the war. Our goal was to fill one box, 35 sweaters. We actually donated almost 3 times that….as a result they had 81 boxes to send….shipment just hit Afghanistan in the last couple of weeks. Is the best feeling do be able to do this for someone who really needs it, even though I will never meet them. Makes me warm inside!
michelle said,
November 28, 2007 @ 4:35 pm
I’m a toll payer, that’s about the only random thing I do. Actually, maybe it’s the NY/MA thing to do because I also have it happen to me quite often. But it is fun and I love how it just spreads.
I do have a RAOK tale though. Many years ago, when my now 13 yr old was a wee one still in a sling we were on our way to WalMart when the car just stopped. I pulled over checked things out the best I could and then figured I would just go ahead and walk the few blocks we had left, and from there I would call the hubby and such. Got the kids out of the car and we took off. Well wouldn’t you know, the wind really started to pick up – I mean really pick up, and I was attempting to walk against it with a baby in her sling and a three year old. This elderly couple pulled over to offer us a ride. I of course said no thank you I was only going to Walmart and we would be just fine. After a few moments they finally insisted, and since they did not look like the we are going to kill you and eat your babies type, I finally loaded myself and the kids in.
They drove us the few short blocks and then let us out in the parking lot when Missy finally made a little noise. They had no clue that I was carrying two kids with me, Missy was pretty well hidden in that sling. Anyway they coo a few moments at the baby and then give me $50.00. I told them we were fine – it was just that the car broke down and that I did not need any money, I mean I was on my way shoppping. We talk a few more moments and I learn that they are here (from FL) because they just buried a grandchild about the same age as Missy. I felt so bad for them. They insist I take the money again to get the kids something special from them for the holidays (it was near Christmas) well after their story I sort of felt obligated for whatever reason. Peter and Mary have now been given gifts to my children for years. We send cards and letters to each other and have been keeping in touch ever since. From that ROAK many years ago a friendship was born.
Karen said,
November 28, 2007 @ 4:40 pm
throughout the year I will volunteer at various places, my most favorite a kitchen that prepares and delivers healthy meals to those who are unable to cook for themselves who have AIDS, Cancer and other diseases that is located in the West Village. Also, rather than spend money on holiday gifts, we have opted to purchase gifts for those in need.
Jennifer said,
November 28, 2007 @ 5:06 pm
I Raveler “Paid it Forward” to me by sending me her STR leftovers. So today I sent a very busy Ravelry Mod for the ISO Destash group some yarn from my stash that she liked. I like this! Can’t wait to have another chance to PIF.
Jo Anne said,
November 28, 2007 @ 11:58 pm
I hope this counts as a random act of kindness……while sitting in the 3rd row of the airplane…I noticed a passenger, who boarded the plane after me, attempt to quickly store his bulging briefcase in one of the overhead bins As he lifted his arms….I noticed a price tag hanging from the sleeve under his armpit. I was unable to get his attention….but made sure I followed him with my eyes toward the rear of the plane. I asked a flight attendant to let this passenger know about the tag…but then suddenly heard laughter from the front of plane as this attendant shared this bit of info w/ the other attendants. Once I disembarked…I waited on the side for this passenger to walk by and quickly whispered in his ear about his price tag dangling from his armpit! Hurrah….! The passenger thanked me and said it would have been quite embarrassing for him to work through the entire day with the price tag hanging!
Sue said,
November 29, 2007 @ 12:42 am
My RAK was inspired by a window decal “The other half of my Heart is in Iraq.” While waiting in a drive-thru lane, I noticed the car in front of me had a lot of Marines bumper stickers plus the window decal. I could see the driver’s face in her side mirror, and she looked like she was having a terrible day. When it was my turn to order, I told the cashier (through the order box) that I wanted to pay for the car in front of me. A few seconds later she tried to pay but the cashier explained what I had done. She then GOT OUT OF HER CAR and came toward me, looking very confused. I explained that I had read her decal was appreciative of the sacrifice her loved one (and she) were making, and wanted to say thanks in a small way. She started crying and said that her husband has just been deployed again that week and she couldn’t thank me enough. It was the best $4 I’ve ever spent.
lovin’ this RAK thing…
DataGoddess said,
November 29, 2007 @ 11:03 am
This one isn’t one I’ve done or received, but a friend posted her mom’s account of a RAOK and I felt the need to share it with y’all.
http://indyellen.livejournal.com/239597.html
Risa said,
November 29, 2007 @ 1:26 pm
I am a true believer of RAK. This is something that I try to do once a week. I normally get my coffee from 7-11. They are on my way to work and the coffee is great!! I normally pay for the person’s coffee behind me. And now, my husband also does it. It makes me feel really good to do something like that for someone. I think I enjoy their reaction more than anything and my hope is they will do it for someone else.
Another thing that I do all the time is hold the elevator. Most mornings people are in a rush for the elevator…why not wait for them. Then you can say good morning and have a nice day also.
Life is already hard enough, why not do something for someone else. It not only puts a smile on the receivers face, it put a smile on your face also.
Sherry said,
November 29, 2007 @ 3:02 pm
Each year I “adopt” a family or child through various agencies for the holidays. This year I’m going to buy presents for girls at The Home for Little Wanderers in Boston http://www.thehome.org/site/PageServer?pagename=events_big_wishes_wishlists. It’s really nice to read a bit about the kids & see their wish list. One of the kids I picked is even a knitter!
I started doing this randon/anonymous gifting about 8 years ago. Although I don’t love to shop, I do love to buy gifts I don’t have a large family & my friends tend to keep gift giving to a minimum. So, “adopting” kids to give gifts to is perfect. Plus, I love the idea that I do not expect anything in return, except the feeling that I hopefully made the holidays better for those who are currently down on their luck.
D. said,
November 29, 2007 @ 9:51 pm
My random act of kindness is very painless for me. I just let people who are walking i.e. crossing the road in the parking lot to get to the store or students walking across roads to get to campus to walk first. I’m in my car with heat….I figure they’re cold, I’m not–go ahead and walk.
Amazingly enough this doesn’t get reciprocated enough when I’m doing the walking, but I figure a make a few people happy.
Wierdlings said,
November 29, 2007 @ 11:51 pm
I was given a RAK 15 years ago by a boy I knew in High School. Having graduated and on my way to visit a college girl friend who lived across town, I had to drive by our local airport. Traffic is always very hectic and people fly through there all the time trying to get dropped off or picked up. Anyhow, having an older car given to me by my mother, it always had electrical problems and would cut out when it got too over heated. Living in FL, its always hot.
So there I am several yards from the intersection, when my car dies in a very dark part of the street. I turn on my flashers, but the battery is dying and the flashers are slowly fading. So I go to stand behind my car, yeah I know it was very stupid and dangerous to stand behind my car, to wave people over so they would not run into of the car. When someone pulls in behind me. Getting out of his car is Robert, the boy from HS and says to me, “Ma’am you need to turn your flashers on so you don’t get hit.” I take one look at him and say, “Robert, is that you?” He then recognizes me and helps me push my car through the intersection and off the road. He then takes me to a local pay phone so that I could call my girl friend and her husband to let them know what has happened. I thanked Robert and he went on his way.
Fifteen years later, this past Spring, who winds up sitting next to me during our 20th HS reunion? Yep, it was Robert. I once again thanked him for his RAK and was able to share with his wife how her husband had been my hero for that night. My own husband thanked him for taking care of me that day. He didn’t even remember, but I did. Robert was just that sort of guy.
~W
Jennifer said,
November 30, 2007 @ 11:59 am
Just had to share this wonderful RAK done for me, that made my morning…
Every morning, I fix myself a Carnation Instant Breakfast to drink in the car on the way to work. However, this morning, I had no more mix, so decided I’d just stop & treat myself to a Coolatta from Dunkin Donuts. I LOVE them so much, but don’t get them too often. I pulled in behind a man that was ordering 4 dozen donuts, and a coffee. I thought, How wonderful of him to be taking donuts in to work, or wherever he was going. When I pulled up to the speaker, a young man said, “Just a minute, please”. His “a minute” turned into 6 minutes, and I got more and more frustrated, and wanted to drive away, but also wanted to complain, so that’s what kept me in line. Finally, a girl came back on, I placed my order for my Medium French Vanilla Coolatta, and pulled up to the window. She handed it to me, and said “This one’s on us. I’m so sorry that you had to wait so long, so please take this for free. I want you to have a good day.” She melted all of my anger & frustration, and I was reminded of this blog. Even though this wasn’t random or anonymous, it made my morning, and I really appreciated her. So, I’m going to send in a letter of thanks for her.
I have done several in the past, but have never had one bestowed upon me. Now I know how good it really feels when someone you don’t know treats you with kindness. RAK’s are so very important. I can’t wait to do some more. Thank you for this topic!!! I’ve really enjoyed reading everyone’s comments!
Martha DC said,
November 30, 2007 @ 1:48 pm
Sheri
I am so envious. YOU HAVE A DRIVE THRU STARBUCKS!!!!
In the DC metro area we have to get our of our cars and walk in to the store.
I can’t think of a drive thru in the area that I could do the pay for the person behind me trick.
Have a great Christmas.
Charmaine said,
December 3, 2007 @ 1:57 am
I was praying about what kind of RAK I could do. I work at a Assisted living facility. The card playing group needed a card shuffler as it is hard for them to shuffle their cards..so that was it…I went to K-mart & bought them a card shuffler with battery included.(haha) They were tickled to death..now they are starting a poker night..they are a wonderful group…it was a joy to do this for them…have a great week!!
Ann said,
December 3, 2007 @ 11:43 am
I surprised someone at work with some delicious Christmas cookies. He didn’t know who left them for him. It was a lot of fun listening to him keep asking people who left the cookies at his desk!
Laurie in MA said,
December 3, 2007 @ 12:39 pm
I decided to pay for a woman’s breakfast the other day. She was an older woman sitting alone. When I told the waitress what my intentions were she was confused. I told her to let the woman know that she was all set and that a holiday elf took care of it for her. I left before she did. I ran into my car and drove away. I smiled all day.
Joanne Edwards said,
December 3, 2007 @ 12:40 pm
Happy Holidays to all. I am really getting into my Random Acts of Kindness. I have been leaving presents for my co workers who have been having hard days…I have given a teacher, who I knew needed a lift a scarf that I made, another some hand cream, another some shea butter, another some skin care cream, and today I gave the poor remedial reading teacher, who just started in our building and has no idea what’s going on, a small photo frame. Then I gave the third grade teacher a cross-stitch tote kit because she loves to cross stitch. I wrote a note on a big paper mitten that they are special, and said it was from Merry Mitten. SO far no one has any idea who Merry Mitten is and I am having a ball watching them wonder and talk about it all. I am having so much fun! I have started a pair of mittens for another teacher for next week. This is a great idea1 I plan to continue it all year! We all can use the pick-me-up!. Sheri, thanks for the GREAT IDEA!. Lots of love to all, Joanne
Alissa said,
December 5, 2007 @ 3:00 pm
This week i compled my 100th baby hat. I set a goal at the beginning of the year to do this in order to donate them to the hospital where I had my son and I finished the last one. I began this project as a beginning knitter who (as a process knitter) just loves to put loops over loops. I’m over 100 now (I think I did 3 more this week after 100). I’ll put up my pics on Ravelry when I figure out how to work flickr.
Cheers!
Alissa
Lisa said,
December 6, 2007 @ 8:21 am
This was a couple of months ago, but I thought it worth while to post since it made me feel very good.
I had reserved a Zipcar for a business trip and while using it I noticed there was a wallet in the glove box. In the Zipcar world, if you find something in a car that isn’t yours you are supposed to put it in the glove box for the person who lost it to find. Well, someone had obviously lost something very important (still contained everything from credit cards and their drivers license to cash).
So that evening when I got home I looked on the zipcar website to see if anyone had posted looking for it. I had just recently lost a pair of (very expensive) sun glasses and knew the feeling of loosing something. On the website, the owner had posted a cry for help as she knew where she had left it. I called the phone number that she posted and told her I found her wallet. While my zipcar reservation still worked, I got her wallet out of the glove box in case someone else needed the car.
She met me after she got off work. I returned her wallet and she was shocked and elated to find everything still intact. As a thank you she brought me a piece of cake (she works in a bakery). It made me feel even better when she said “Yah know, I think people in this world are a lot nicer then we give them credit for”.
Whenever possible I try to “do onto others”. If I come across a situation where I know how much it would suck to be on the other end, I try to help or rectify it as much as possible. Even though I had nothing to do with creating the situation in the first place.
Happy Holidays!
denise/deBRAT said,
December 6, 2007 @ 11:36 am
okay, so today’s RAK or Happy Day event is because we got a brand spanking new Panera Bread 1 mile from my house. Said Panera Bread had a coupon in the paper yesterday that I clipped “just in case” I wanted to use it or could give it to someone else lives near me. I ahve been up til midnight tuesday night and 2:30 AM wed/thurs night/morning sewing on a t-shirt quilt. this morning with only 2 1/2 hours sleep in me I was exhausted. I did not even make my lunch as I took a long VERY hot shower to help my aching muscles AND to wake up
As I’m getting ready to hit the “line at the light” I remember the coupon and that i did not pack a lunch. I swing into Panera. As I go through the door I get handed a ticket. I use the coupon and get three bagels free for buying three bagels, get a small container of veggie cream cheese and they handed me a Panera Bread shiny red travel mug! AND I can fill it for free every day until Christmas
the lady next to me did not want hers and gave it to me. So now i have one for me AND one for dh who is out of town on business. Don’t know if he will stop daily for free coffee but *I* will.
I brought the bagels into work and left them in the accouting office near the computer lab I work in. later my gf calls to catch up with me and turns out she LOVES Panera Bread and has on her Christmas list a travel mug… because then hot chocolate is cheaper than in the styro cup. Guess who is getting the mug?
I have a full belly, the bagels and crm ch went quickly, I get to have free coffee until Christmas, my girl friend can have reduced cost hot chocolates.
And all of that for a whopping $3.82! shoot I still have money left in this week’s discretionary income!
and the bonus is, it was nearly sunrise and as I’m driving into the parking lot there, I do a double take, I see distant mountains? I live in Florida, highest elevation is top of an on ramp! I had the camera with me and snapped a couple of sunrise pictures that look like I am anywhere but flat plains of florida. That also warmed my heart.
Wonder what tomorrow will bring for an “opportunity”.
Julia said,
December 6, 2007 @ 12:38 pm
Yesterday a biker passed me by on the road. The wind gushed strongly and the biker’s hat took off and landed almost next to me. I picked it up, walked a few steps towards the biker and gave him his hat. It was really nothing and I would not even remember it, but the biker was so grateful that he did not need to turn his bike around and hike back, that the whole thing stayed with me and makes me smile every time I think about it.
Kay Meadors said,
December 6, 2007 @ 12:44 pm
I want to put this in for a friend, Marion LoPrinzi at http://www.mbldesigns.com/index.html . I delivered some of my yarn stash for her to make 11 ear-flap hats for a missionary in Peru to give as presents to children. Anyone who can run a farm, quilt, spin, knit and crochet and still find time at this busy season to make 11 hats for a good cause is my hero.
Lynda said,
December 6, 2007 @ 1:35 pm
THAT is an amazing idea! I am going to copy your idea for January!…Imitation being the sincerest form of flattery!
We all need a boost then too…maybe we can start an RAK ring!
amiknits said,
December 6, 2007 @ 2:27 pm
I have been the recipient of so many RAKs, I cant count them. Most recently, I was laid off from work, and, even though my company is giving me a good severance package and I tell people this, a number of my colleagues have been paying for lunches and sharing kind words. Makes me want to lose my job more often!
On the giving side, I love picking angels from the Salvation Army angel tree that are close in age to my kids so we can go out together to pick gifts. Hopefully they learn something about sharing with others from this activity.
denise/deBRAT said,
December 6, 2007 @ 3:41 pm
Well I thought of another one. this one I do weekly. at the beginning of the semester a student happened to be talking to me and she mentioned taht the only problem with her tuesday night class was it did not let out early enough for her to watch House. So I have been taping House each week for her and then she views them during her lunch breaks at work on a vcr they have there. now THAT one does not cost anything as I’m using the tapes i used to tape Simply Quilts and Sewing with Nancy so many years ago. And she brings them back when watched and i just tape over them. she calls me her House angel. Oh and I do “bones” too becuase the first week when i taped i was going out so i taped both programs to get it to work and i found out she loves that show too
peaceful heart and restful mind wished for you all,
denise/deBRAT
Deb said,
December 6, 2007 @ 4:05 pm
I have a freind who told me about someone she knows who has learned to crochet and has been chroceting blankets like crazy to occupy herself. After completing said blankets she has been giving them away to whomever needs them. My friend also told me that this person is down to only a few skeins of yarn GASP! and her funds are very limited, well I determined that is definately not okay and I have a big stash of yarn that has her name on it; especially since I have a large stash of fiber where I can spin my own. Anyway my friend left with 3 large trash bags of yarn and has told me I made one lady very happy. What a great feeling, especially the fact that I cleaned out some stash to make room for more LOL!
Deb B
Janice in GA said,
December 6, 2007 @ 9:29 pm
Today I had to get a crochet hook at JoAnns. The registers were pretty backed up, and shopping carts were piling up by the door, so I took a few minutes and organized them and put them back in their stalls in the store. Saved a busy retail person a few minutes work, and made it easier for customers coming in to get carts!
Tinker said,
December 7, 2007 @ 1:19 pm
I love RAK. My RAK is putting coins in meters. There’s nothing worse than getting a ticket because you’re a minute late. Altho’ again, another difficult one since in many places, they have the ticket machine that you have to pay for and put on your dash. (those rascally cities!)
Mel said,
December 8, 2007 @ 12:33 am
This is one that has stayed with me for years…. It may not seem like much, but it was MONUMENTAL to me.
I am not very close to one side of my family. I don’t let them know much about me and I don’t visit them, unless I am going with my sister. Several years ago, I had just broken up with my partner and was having a REALLY hard time with just living. I went from being a stay at home mom with my son to only seeing him half the week and it was devistating to me. Well, my sister got me to go to that side of my family’s house for Christmas with her on Christmas day and there was a large package for me under the tree.
Someone in my family…to this day, I still don’t know who…bought me a new TiVo because I had lost my other one in the divorce. I just started bawling and had to leave the room. A cousin came into the kitchen, where I was wiping my eyes and hugged me and said, “We all know how hard things have been for you lately and one of us wanted to give you something to brighten your day. We know it isn’t much, but we all do love you.”
I will never forget that amazing kindness.
Jo Anne said,
December 8, 2007 @ 1:46 am
I just love RAK. Your contest is “making me” go out of my way to do nice things. And…it’s just………… because………….
Yesterday…while driving home…I passed a house in the neighborhood and noticed that the owner’s car lights were on…I tried to peer through my window (it’s been pouring rain here in Hawaii) to see if anyone was sitting in the car….I couldn’t see anyone, so when I got home, I called the owners of the house and left them a message. (the owner was in the shower and called to thank me a few minutes later)…and then this morning…while driving to work, I noticed another car w/ it’s lights on. I assumed the car belong to someone working in a nearby retail store…I saw the owner of the store outside his shop, so I slowed my car down, rolled down my window (it’s still raining) and yelled that his employee’s car lights were on! He yelled out from across the street a big thank you…and gave me a huge huge smile!
Robin C. said,
December 10, 2007 @ 10:01 pm
I recently took coffee and donuts for all of the teachers at a local elementary school. These teachers (as are most!) are so dedicatd to helping the kids, and their families, and I wanted to show them how much they are appreciated. (I don’t have children attending this school, but have heard some wonderfuls stories from many of the boys on my husbands soccer team attend that school.)
Julianne Bredestege said,
December 11, 2007 @ 1:02 am
I have always been a huge supporter of RAK. I have two that thought were biggies. Once a cabbie just dropped off this woman in front of our house because he couldn’t find the address she needed ( last Christmas) She was headed to a party in our ‘hood and the area is all cut up with canyons so it is very hard to navigate. She asked if she could use our phone, but I asked where she needed to go. My best friend had lived on that corner years ago, so I drove her myself. We still write to each other today. She is so nice.
I was going to donate my crib to charity or sell it at a garage sale, I was having parent teacher conferences last week ( as a student teacher) and I noticed one of my students has an older sister with a little baby and I wrote her a note asking if she needed the crib instead, she is picking it up this week!
I also try to always help the kids at school, write thank you notes to people, and always smile. It goes a long way! Merry Xmas!!! Juliblue
Anita said,
December 12, 2007 @ 10:12 pm
Recently I had surgery, and I was so surprised by the outpouring of kindness. Dinner was brought to my family. My favorite coffee and goodies were delivered and two friends brought lots of yummy treats for me and my family. These were amazing kindnesses for my family and myself while I was recovering.
Cheryl said,
December 13, 2007 @ 8:50 am
I happen to be one of those folks who likes to put extra change in the meters, especially if I notice someone is waiting for my spot.
While my other RAK isn’t so anonymous, I am still glad I can do it. I have a dear friend, whom I met through SP10, who as it turns out lives 2 blocks from me. I invited her to join my knitting meetup group. She has really bad knees and has great difficulty getting about. So I made it my thing to get her to knitting meetings so she could get out and about and socialize more, as well as, do exactly what she enjoys…knitting with others.
Victoria said,
December 13, 2007 @ 5:42 pm
I’m in upstate NY, and we get snow. I try and shovel sidewalk of the next door neighbor. He’s got a bad back, and often there’s just not enough snow for him to get the snow blower going. And really – it takes 5 extra minutes to shovel his sidewalk.
And then there’s community knitting, but we all do that, don’t we?
Hannah said,
December 13, 2007 @ 9:41 pm
There’s a homeless man who sits outside of a local bookstore (in D.C.), to whom I often give whatever’s in my pocket. Sometimes more. He doesn’t have to do this, since it’s none of our business, but he always reassures people who give him money that he doesn’t drink, do drugs, or smoke. I think he has kidney disease, but I’m not sure. About two weeks ago, I came out of the store and there he was, in the bitterest cold of the season, without socks. It broke my heart.
When I got home, I immediately cast on a scarf for him (I don’t know his shoe size) and resolved to buy a package of socks, too. But he seemed to disappear (hopefully he is someplace warm). So I packed my scarf in my bag and took it with me, determined to give it away. And there, in front of the same bookstore, sat a man, “Tony,” who said he would give the scarf to the guy I’d knitted it for…It was pouring rain and very cold. I told Tony to keep the scarf for himself, not to give it away, but he wanted to pass it along to its intended recipient.
In talking with him, Tony told me about his kids, including one with spina bifida, who all live with different members of their family. He, himself, had a stroke and cannot work, and is waiting for Social Security to pay him disability—a long, long process.
When I heard about his kids, I urged him to give it to one of them if he wouldn’t keep it himself. Suddenly his face lit up and he said “I just realized…that scarf is knitted in my daughter’s favorite color!” He said she’d be so excited to get a handmade scarf, and tucked it under his soaking wet jacket (it was in a ziploc bag).
I gave him some money for a sandwich and bought him a hot chocolate before heading into the store to browse. My heart was warmed…I’d knitted the scarf for someone else, but it seemed to have found the perfect owner, one who would love the color and feel the love knitted into it, like it was always meant to be that way.
That day I came home and cast on another scarf. Who knows who this one will someday belong to!
Cynthia, Canadian Guild of Knitters said,
December 14, 2007 @ 3:03 pm
Hi,
This doesn’t really qualify for an entry to the contest, but Canadian Guild of Knitters has what we call Random Acts of Knitting. They come in many forms: When Katrina hit the Gulf States, we sent yarn and needles to a woman’s shelter in Mississippi, as I recall; when we have books that we have reviewed that are surplus to our needs, we send them out in random draws to our members; we try to get some charity knitting done throughout the year; and of course, we’re try to help with knitting questions that are e-mailed to us.
The concept for Random Acts of Knitting stemmed from Random Acts of Kindness, so I thought, since this is a knitting blog, you wouldn’t mind if I shared.
Yours in knitting,
Cynthia
Lisa Gifford said,
December 15, 2007 @ 10:02 pm
My husband and I do this quite often actually, and I’m now trying to devise ways to pay for other things for people in other places. I bought a 25.00 Walmart gift card today so that I have it on hand if ever I’m at Walmart and notice someone elderly or a flustered mom or anyone that just looks like they could use a little sunshine in thier day. My plan is just to give it to the cashier and tell them to use it to help pay for whatever that person has in their cart that day. Yesterday my husband thinks he had the neatest experience at the McDonalds Drive thru, he paid for the persons behind him which ended up being a bit pricey, we have 4 children and he was getting lunch for himself and them and the other persons bill came to about 25.00 OUCH but God will reward us that 10 fold. The really neat thing though, is my husband said he thinks she then paid for the person behind her because he saw her hand over her credit card anyways. How awesome is that!!! Now I’d best get back to what I was doing that brought me here in the first place. I’m going to have some business cards made up that say “You’ve been blessed with a Random Act of Kindness, Pass it On!” and I was hoping to find a short bible verse to put on it as well. Off I go, glad to see others are out there bringing smiles to people one at a time! Keep it up!
Robin said,
December 16, 2007 @ 2:35 pm
As my husband and I were going out to clear ours and some neighbors drive-ways of snow, our neighbors were coming out to do ours and some other neighbors – so we did it together. We have a snow-blower and he has an ATV w/blade so many driveways and sidewalks were cleared on our little street. Good neighbors are the best.
aunt gerry said,
December 16, 2007 @ 11:16 pm
I made a knitted hat for a young man at the Ronald McDonald House. He is from a warmer climate and does not have a warm hat. It is snowing and cold here and he has to walk back and forth to the hospital severald times each day. He was very surprised when I gave it to him.
tonya said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:13 pm
As you know by the email you received, recently a young man had all his yarn stolen by a rotten room mate who didnt even knit. When I read about it, I had to try to help out!!!
I went through my stash, and packed up a large box (the shipping was part of the RAK as well-I really stuffed that box!!!heeheehee) of yarn and as the young man was also without full sets of DPNs, I made him a “sock box” (a wooden box to keep all your dpns in order as well as other notions) in his fave color and filled it to brimming with dpns, guage rulers, bobbins, markers, ect. I even insured the box, so if it gets lost he can have a yarn spree instead!!! It felt so good to give to others, and I think it did me as much good as I’m hoping it will do for him!!! As the final touch, I made sure the the box would get to him by this Weds–this way he will have a big box of yarn love to open up for christmas!!!heeheehee Now I’m as anxious as a kid, wishing I could see his face when he opens it!!!
Julianne Bredestege said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:51 pm
I am so lucky, I just got to do a ‘knitting RAK”. What’s that you may ask? Well, I just left a crazy middle school where I subbed today, and I am just beat down. I stopped off at Joann to get a set of sewing needles to finish off my son’s gloves. In line, as I am rushing in, I hear a younger woman saying ” I thought someone that worked here would knit!” I almost went on by, but turned and helped instead. I am so glad someone appreciated my teaching today. lol. anyway, turns out she had all these scarfs at home, and couldn’t figure out how to cast off. poor thing. She pulled out a long, large gauge needle set with a stranded scarf on it. I pulled out the stitches she needed to fix and stood and showed her over and over how the stitch went. And told her how to finish.
Then I told her about knittinghelp.com and what a tool it has been for me. otherwise, i was driving out to mom’s house for tutorials myself! I had another lady in the knitting aisle wondering aloud to her daughter about the mismatched colors for the kiddie needles. I figure it is to say to the little learners, ‘on the blue needle, or, on the red needle’. instead of left and right needles. So, small yes, but I helped out two more people be further into our world and better for it. I also told them about our local knitting circles ( that I haven’t even gotten to yet!! Maybe, I’ll see them there:) Juliblue
PS.I was also rewarded with my purchase from you waiting for me when I got home- thanks, loopy ewe!!!
Pollianicus said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:30 pm
Reading these comments has been wonderful and humbling. I’ve been close to tears through a couple of them – and still have a ton to read.
It made me think about how often I feel sorry for myself when there are many, many people less fortunate than I.
It inspired me to do something for a very good friend of mine. She has listened to me when I have needed to talk about my problems despite having many of her own. For the last few weeks she and her children have had bug after bug after bug. Now some of the older kids are getting better while she and the baby are still pretty sick. I have just ordered for her a game/play set that I think will give the older kids a lot of pleasure and hopefully give her a break while she gets better.
As for me – RAK – there have been many over the years… The holidaying policeman who let me use his mobile when I locked my baby in the car, the woman who held my screaming baby when I couldn’t see for my own tears, the drawing pads and crayons sent by a friend when I was sick to occupy my children – I;m sure there have been many, many more.
Thank you so much for making me think about others and not just myself.
tonya said,
December 21, 2007 @ 7:22 pm
OK, I had one today that left me feeling like a super hero!!! Long line, unhappy people, and a young mom in front of me with 2 screaming toddlers. We finally get to the cashier and moms coupons were expired. Mom was scraping change out of her purse while enduring nasty comments, and a sarcastic cashier. She was very close to tears and I could see her mentally trying to figure out which thing to leave behind. I handed over the small bill she was lacking and she was shocked and thrilled. Me? I was walking on air for the rest of the day!!!
Nanette said,
December 28, 2007 @ 12:32 am
After I park at the grocery store I check to see if anyone close is loading their groceries into their car and I wait and take the cart back to the store. Such a little thing but people seem to appreciate not having to walk the cart back.