December 17, 2007
Monday RAKs – is it a stretch? & Spring Fling!
We did get 8″ of snow this weekend! It was so pretty falling on Saturday. Knitting Daughter and WH were working, so College Guy and I went shopping in the snow. Still not done with Christmas shopping, but I’m getting closer. I also spent some time spinning and knitting. These Noro socks are really fun to knit. In fact, I was having so much fun watching for the next colorway to emerge that I probably made the cuff of these socks too long.
Oh well. I am knitting these on size 0′s and getting 9 st. to the inch. I got 8 st. to the inch on 1′s, but it felt like the knit material was a little too loose. I like it done on the 0′s, better. This is color S185. We have lots in stock and more due in any day, so you ought to be in good shape for getting it here as soon as we get it put up for you! (Added later: Noro is up – go see!)
These RAKs have been so interesting to read. I find that I’m frequently saying, “Oh my gosh.” As in, “That’s a great idea!” or “What an amazing and giving person she/he is.” or “I need to be doing that, too.” And I have loved all of your blog comments, but also all of your emails as well. It has alao been fun to help many of you do some yarn-y type things anonymously.
I had one email last week and she wanted me to share this with you. I do agree with her that giving sacrificially is a really nice thing to do and kind of the “next step up” in RAKs. Read and see what I mean:
“Hi Sheri- have been thoroughly enjoying the RAK challenge on your blog- you’ve inspired me to sacrificial giving- and I’d like to put out a challenge to others- to do the same… RAKs can be big or small…. but what’s really changing me in practicing this– is by making them sacrificial… not just giving out of abundance- but giving as a sacrifice.
Recently a knitter on ravelry had his entire stash raided and stolen…. (long story). I knew I’d be sending out yarn.
First, I looked through my stash to see what I could spare— then I saw my gorgeous skein of Wollmeise. Wollmeise has to be a healing balm in any situation- don’t ya think? (Of course I bought it from The Loopy Ewe) I already pkged it up- It’s shipping to him in the morning.
I know- I know it’s just yarn- but I cannot tell you how good it feels to know he’ll be delighted- (oh man- I hope so) and that this little sacrifice might bring a little Christmas cheer into his life.) I’d love to anonymously challenge others to step up their RAKS to something that is a bit of a sacrifice…. and see how wonderful that feels!”
I know that many of you have already been doing RAKs that stretched you. Remember that giving sacrificially doesn’t have to involve money – it might also mean sacrificing some of your TIME to help someone else out. It’s a whole different level of feeling great about helping others, isn’t it? Keep up the great work! You all just inspire the heck out of me. Leave your comments today on the RAKs that you’ve worked on this past week. Again, on Wednesday, I’ll use the random number generator to pick a winner of this week’s Loopy Loot gift package. I know that’s not why you do RAKs, but it’s meant to encourage you to share your RAKs and ideas with all of us so that we can do them, too!
I’ve been doing some spinning, too. Not too much, because of the volume of knitting that needs to be done. But here is my latest and I love this colorway. I have a spinning area set up in the basement (actually, the very first Loopy Room space – I’ll have to photo it for you.) I’m hoping to do more spinning over the holidays, as I have a long way to go in order to get good! But I’m working on it. Are there any St. Louis spinners out there? I’m thinking of doing a monthly evening “Spin In” here at Loopy Central.
We’re ready for preliminary signups for Loopy’s Spring Fling Knitting Retreat! We’re leaving them open until Friday morning. We’ll get back to you by Friday of this week to confirm your spot. (Why not just take the first 60 signups? I didn’t want you to have to stay glued to the website and battle for a spot!) Your deposit isn’t due until January 15th, and we’ll send you a bill for that. Go check it out. We have Wendy and Cookie coming to teach classes, and lots more fun things planned. We can’t wait to have you here!
Sheri WebGuyisprintingpostage/addresslabelsforyourorderstoday.Nicetohavehimhere!











Elizabeth said,
December 17, 2007 @ 3:38 pm
Last Friday, I gave a change to a woman so that she could feed the parking meter and still get her daughter to a ballet class on time. I was in DC where many of the local businesses do not provide change for parking meters…not that there were any businesses within a 100 meter radius of that fairly residential street.
sarah lou said,
December 17, 2007 @ 3:41 pm
i know this might not seem like a big deal or a big sacrifice to many, but here’s what i did this morning…
i took a bag of holiday peppermint flavored millstone coffee (which i love and hoard as far past the holiday season as i can possibly make it last) and brought it to work to share with my co-workers. everyone loves it and it feels good to share the cheer and holiday spirit that it seems to evoke.
if i can get my hands on another couple bags, i think i’ll bring another in.
Shelby said,
December 17, 2007 @ 3:41 pm
We have an angel tree at work, which allows us to give presents to a local family who otherwise would not have any presents. This year, I chose an 8 month old girl, and her tag said to get a shirt in size 2t. Of course I went way overboard and got her a few outfits and a toy on top of the 2t shirt.
I also bought coffee for friends the other day. They didn’t expect me to, and were quite surprised when I paid the bill. But it was fun to see their faces when I told them it was taken care of.
Angie said,
December 17, 2007 @ 3:47 pm
I don’t think I did any RAKs last weekl. But I exhibited a huge amount of patience while waiting in the “blizzard is coming” grocery crowd. OMG, the people and lines were crazy!! Since I’ve been carless, I haven’t been in the public much this last couple of weeks. I rubbed DH’s head because he has inhaled some nasty fumes at work. He’s OK but was feeling out of sorts.
That handspun looks awfully purty! The colors seem to blaze right through the computer screen.
And I read that Cookie is coming to the Sping Fling! I just love her patterns and sense of design.
MaryEllen said,
December 17, 2007 @ 3:54 pm
Having been a student for many years (too many to admit) I couldn’t always afford to give money to charity. Now that I have a “real” job, I’m giving to the local food panty where I live and the Ronald McDonald House in my hometown. I’ve been reminded so many times this season that I’m in a better situation, and I’m happy to be able to give some of that good fortune back.
Amy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 3:56 pm
Thanks for sharing that inspiring story re: RAK… I’ve had a hectic day at work and reading that and later, others RAKs bring peace and joy to my heart… : )
And, your Noro sock looks great! So does your latest spinning photo – great job!!
I signed up for the Loopy Retreat – it looks so wonderful! I need something fun to look foward to in the spring!
My RAK for the week was donating to a children’s fund that our office building is collecting for…not an original idea, but knowing that the children will be cared for and thought of during the holidays season always makes me feel good… : )
Melissa Featherly said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:03 pm
My Rak… or rather my family’s rak for the month is collecting canned goods and cereals for a local shelter. I am really working hard to instill in my children that helping others is very i mportant.
Your Noro sock is looking fabulous. I can’t wait to buy some.
Melissa
Amy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:06 pm
I am taking on work this week that is not exactly mine, to help out… It is good to help, but it is not always the most motivating work, so I feel like it is an act of kindness.
Liz said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:08 pm
I paid for two of my coffees, but only took one — so that the next person who ordered the same (grande plain coffee at Starbucks) would get it for free.
I shoveled and snow-blew our 85-year-old neighbor’s driveway.
I shoveled and snow-blew our other neighbor’s driveway.
I did both of these twice, because the plow came through and un-did the good I did.
In the midst of a five-hour commute that usually takes 20 minutes (yes, it took me 15 times as long as usual to get home), I got out of my car and pushed another woman (in her car) out of a snowbank — and actually managed to motivate others sitting in traffic around me to join in and do the same.
In the midst of that same commute, I got out of my car and cleared off the windshields of the cars around me.
I think that’s all. I really appreciate this opportunity to look back over the week and remind myself that, even though I frequently feel very selfishly caught up in my own life and insanity, I actually manage to do a pretty OK job of keeping other people in mind, too.
Devin said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:10 pm
I was reading a friend’s blog- she mentioned how much she loved ginger- and was reminising about a chocolate candy bar with ginger that her mother had bought her from a trip to Jamaca when she was in High School. I remembered that the Target by my house carried a candy bar with ginger. I got her one, and a squekie tennis ball for her dog, and put them in the mail with a card. She recieved them today, and although she’s not the biggest fan of dark chocolate (I knew she didn’t and apoligized in the card)- she LOVED it. It made me feel so good to know that I had brough a good moment in her day- a good Chocolate moment
Terry said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:13 pm
I left change in the soda machine, some little one will be delighted, maybe not mom tho,LOL, I always dim my lights when I am stopped for a train, and I have noticed that others do it also when they see me do it. (I go to work in the dark and get home in the dark).
Ali said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:19 pm
I would LOVE a monthly spin in! You do get a few odd looks when you’re out spinning with a spindle in public..
Tammy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:20 pm
Hi Sheri – I did find myself engaging in a RAK last week. I did some extra driving to help out an overwhelmed friend get her child to a park event. (Although I followed it up by forgetting to pick up another friend’s son for basketball practice so I’m not sure if that erases the RAK.)
Shari said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:20 pm
I tried to buy lunch for a street person at a local restaurant the other day. He was drinking a coffee and had his sign with him so I knew he was one of our local street people. It was really hard for me but I went over and asked if I could buy him some lunch. He replied no thank you, that he just needed money for his rent. I couldn’t help him with cash (had none, just debit card) but I felt really weird afterward. But then there was a notice in our local paper that the food bank didn’t have enough sponsers to do christmas for needy families. So we signed up to provide some toys and christmas dinner to a family that can use a little bit of extra help this time of year. I am really looking forward to doing their shopping this week!
Gina said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:20 pm
I’m so glad you got snow. We really didn’t need/want any due to the ice storm earlier in the week, so was glad we only got about 1 inch.
Looking back, this past week was such a chaos…my contribution was more moral than anything, encouraging all my friends (and customers at my lys) through this mess, offering them something warm to drink and listening to their specific situations.
liz said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:20 pm
I’m in charge of our church Christmas ornament drive that raises money for our pre-school. We had our last ornament pickup on Sunday.
I had a number of ornaments that were not picked up, so I called everyone to let them know where their ornaments would be available to pick up at their convenience. The RAK part was hand delivering some of the ornaments to people I knew would not be able to pick them up before Christmas. I’ve been getting delighted calls all day.
Wendy in Cambridge said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:26 pm
We’ve had 19 inches of snow this past week–it’s not even winter yet! The other day I was walking home from the grocery store and saw a woman struggling with her shopping basket (the piles ofsnow along the curbs are huge). I took her basket and gave her my hand to help her across. She was surprised but very grateful.
In a very busy Target (pre-storm and full of shoppers), the cashier was pleasant and unflappable,and defiitely worthy of a mention to the manager!
I love reading the RAKs. Since I live in the city, we don’t have drive-through anythings–not even the banks have drive-throughs–and I don’t drink coffee, so I’m never at Starbuck’s. I’ve tried to be more courteous at the grocery store, though!
Sara said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:28 pm
Wow…I had never thought about the RAK’s in terms of giving up some of my own yarn. Pay for someone else’s yarn I can imagine but I can’t even imagine what yarn I would give up out of my own stash. Kudos to the anonymous stash sacrificer
My RAK last week was yesterday. I baked 4 loaves of pumpkin bread. One for the neighbors across the street and next door and the other two loaves I brought into work. I think there is a half of one slice left. I think they enjoyed it
liz said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:29 pm
My other RAK was not maiming the man who decided to jump the entire nine-person line in the grocery store. He just sailed on up, apparently not realizing that we were standing in line waiting for the checker. The line was Not Pleased. I was next and I merely smiled and told him that the end of the line was the other way. He actually blinked and said, “Oh, I wondered what you guys were standing around for.” Hence, the level of restraint necessary to not maim him is actually a RAK.
Sigh.
Linda in Ohio said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:30 pm
I participated in a club Christmas Family drive. I shopped for 4 children and a father .I bought clothes for them. It was such I hoot. I have never bought the sizes that i looked for that day…it was a challenge and fun!
Meg said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:34 pm
We got snow this weekend and took the kids sledding. There was a van stuck in the snow in the parking lot as we were leaving, and my husband got out to help push – after they got unstuck and on their way, we were next to get stuck, and someone else helped push us. I hope this wasn’t the start of a chain of people getting stuck and getting pushed! My husband also helped the neighbor’s shovel their driveway, then later that night they brought over some cookies. so nice! so, my husband’s been out there helping…I also had a chance for a RAK when a man accidentally knocked over a display of jars in the grocery store, I stopped and helped him pick them up.
Frances said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:38 pm
Your spinning looks great! I love the colorways.
The loopy retreat sounds like so much fun, but I won’t be able to go this year, as I’m saving up for a house.
Lori said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:38 pm
My workplace is having our Christmas party this week and we always do Secret Santa exchanges. I suggested to my boss that we do our part for the community and instead of buying something for our co-workers, we bring food and toys for the local food bank. She agreed and it was posted a flyer right away. A lot of people were miffed at me! I can’t believe it! I’m taking heat for trying to be charitable? Would they rather have a somewhat useless gift from someone they may not know very well or give the gift of a few meals to someone who is less fortunate? Well, I’ve bought a big bag of groceries to bring in and hopefully the RAK fever will set in!
tracey in mi said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:45 pm
OK- this doesn’t TECHNICALLY count for me- but for my family- we’ve been dumped with 12 inches of snow here- in Michigan… and my guys shoveled the neighbors- and then drove the blower over to my inlaws and cleared their walks;)
Personally- I heard about a crisis pregnancy center in our area looking for donations of baby goods. I’ve been holding onto my baby stuff. We can’t have any more children… but— you know this kind of makes it “official” (like it wasn’t already!- I’m absolutely, the queen of denial)
I cried a bit when I packed it all up…. but holding onto it for nostalgia when someone else NEEDS it.. just seems selfish…I kept the most precious memory packed things- but rest will be blessing mom’s in need for Christmas:) That feels great.
(besides- if God ever chooses to give us an opportunity to have another little one..(adoption… or miracle) …I trust He’ll remember to make sure we have what we need;) He always has.
Bonnie H said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:46 pm
I posted my RAK already, but I guess it was on Friday’s blog entry. So I will copy what I entered here:
RAK – Last week I received a ham at work from my boss’s insurance agent. It is a beautiful Maple Glazed/Honey Coated Ham. Unfortunately, we do not care for really sweet ham. DH sliced it on our electric slicer, I repackaged it in smaller portions using one of those vacuum sealer machines and we have given it to an elderly couple who lives near us. They have one meal a day delivered during the week so we thought this would be a nice supplement to their meals.
Amanda said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:49 pm
My friend was kind enough to invite me over for his parent’s early Christmas celebration. His mother cooked for almost 12 hours trying to get ready for the 23 guests that were scheduled to arrive for the feast. After everyone enjoyed their dinner I slipped into the kitchen and washed all of the dishes and tidied almost everything up before she caught me. She was thrilled that she wouldn’t have to spend two hours cleaning up after her guests after everyone left.
Deb J said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:49 pm
Here in the nation’s 2nd worst city for traffic, Seattle, I practiced RAK all day yesterday by letting cars in front me who were trying to enter the moving traffic lanes! In some cases, if there was a stop ahead or traffic was moving slow and it was apparent the line-up from a parking lot was long, I’d let 2 cars in! Yes, doesn’t seem like much but when folks are mired in mall Christmas traffic, I saw it brought a lot of smiles–perhaps not to the folks behind me but I figured it was a small thing. I also remembered to be pleasant to every single clerk who checked me out!!! And to thank you and told them to have a restful evening–Practicing a life filled with RAK is something we should all do, 365!
Tigger's Mom said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:49 pm
Love the hand spun. Great colors! And the sock is very cool!
The wee man in the snow looks like he wants to go to the Spring Fling to thaw out.
My husband and I went to a local nursery that is a tourist spot as much as a place to buy beautiful plants, pots, gifts and decorative items (Roger’s Gardens – don’t miss it if you are in SoCal!). As expected, the place was crowded with more lookers than buyers. We filled two carts and got in line. Up walks up a woman and her young son who is wearing his basketball uniform and no jacket. They have one thing so we let them go in front of us and start talking with the kid. He just lost his first game by two points and was cold and disappointed. My husband gave him a pep talk about sports, while the clerk is having trouble with the register. The woman kept apologizing and we kept reassuring her that it was no problem. Eventually it all works out and her transaction is completed. The clerk thanked us for our patience. He also told us that most people don’t buy plants at this time of year( we had “several” ahem). He was so happy to see plants and to have patient customers that he gave us 50% off an expensive plant! A RAK with instant feedback!
I also turned in an earring I found on the floor of a store, thanked a man who had been in the military for 20 years, opened doors., put carts in the parking lot cart keepers and let in cars.
Lisa said,
December 17, 2007 @ 4:57 pm
We’ve had some temp workers at my job in the past few weeks. I’ve been trying to be super nice to them, because temps often get treated so badly!
Elise said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:00 pm
The handspun looks lovely and you got snow! All we got was rain.
So this past week I donated my yearly coat to our local coat drive. And this morning while walking from the gym to work I helped a woman save a 20 dollar bill that was going to blow away. It was very windy and she dropped her money at the bagel cart. I saw the 20 dollar bill go flying and stepped on it as soon as it hit the ground so it wouldn’t fly into the street. Then I picked it up and handed it to her, she was pretty grateful, losing a 20 is not a good thing. This was actually good for me as I didn’t think about how cold I was for at least one full minute. Brrrrr……..
Monica said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:04 pm
We finally got some snow too. It was bitter cold here this morning but is supposed to warm up through the week. Maybe the snow will stay a few days anyway.
Your sock looks wonderful
My Rak: I am knitting some of the fingerless mitts for my daughter to gift. She is giving them to her friends for Christmas and has waited a bit too long to start them. So I am helping her out with this even though I still have a great deal of my own Christmas knitting to do. Also donating food to the Love Chapel it is a food bank here and still knitting hats for the Giving Tree at my daughter’s school.
Kristin said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:08 pm
I think your spinning looks great! You learned quickly, i think you’re already good! Course I’m no expert, but…
Kim said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:09 pm
My RAK involves a neighbor who had a baby last week. Adorable little boy, weighing just over 5 pounds. He won’t keep his little hands under the blanket but likes them by his face and was scratching himself. I whipped out some baby yarn and knit him a pair of soft fingerless mitties to cover his hands. His hats are way too big for him yet so I have a hat on the needles and that will be tonight’s knitting.
Nancy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:10 pm
Hi Sheri,
Thanks so much for adding a little incentive for the RAKs! I’m really enjoying reading everyone’s entries, and have been getting some good ideas.
Here’s mine: I’m part of a co-op that buys meat wholesale for our dogs (on the BARF diet) and our monthly pickup is limited to a one hour window on a specific day (this Wed). I’m lucky to have a very flexible work schedule and volunteered to pick up a few cases for someone who has to work. I know that missing the pickup is a huge pain in the behind and am happy to help out… and luckily at this time of the year having about 300 lbs of frozen chicken sitting in my vehicle all day is not an issue
Bev in SC said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:20 pm
We have a neighbor who has 3 pit bulls chained in his backyard and they are neglected terribly at times. We often go over and feed and water them because he’s gone for days on end. The weather hasn’t been bad until this weekend, but we couldn’t stand the thought of them being in 19 degree wind-chill temps with no shelter. So, we bought a crate for the youngest dog and repaired the other 2 crates that they had knocked over, or couldn’t reach and we filled all 3 crates with pine straw so they could burrow into it to keep warm. And we fed and watered them. My husband was so ticked off about this ongoing situation that he had called this guy in the middle of the night but we didn’t get a return call until yesterday. Turns out, he’s in Missouri with the power company trying to restore power to the storm victims and the person he had asked to feed the dogs hadn’t… probably because he was out of food and she couldn’t afford to buy any… but maybe just because she “forgot.” We have 2 dogs and 8 cats ourselves, and cannot bear to see animals cold or hungry, so these dogs are our “ongoing RAK” for as long as they need us!
Loribird said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:21 pm
I’ve been home most of the week, and RAKs to my family are more a matter of survival during snowstorms…
But I did let the two people behind me at the grocery checkout go ahead (I had many things, they had few). I’ll be looking for more opportunities this week!
Sharon said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:26 pm
Last week at work there was a meeting about the health insurance change (again) and they were giving out tootbrushes as freebies. My department has about 15 people so they gave me a ziploc bag of them. When I took them back to the department, I said ‘I have your insurance packets and a freebie toothbrush, or we can donat the toothbrushes to the homeless shelter.’ Everyone agreed, so after work I stopped at the shelter with them. I guess that’s a ‘we’ RAK, not an “I” RAK.
I would SOOOOO love to go to the Loopy retreat. But I won’t be able to this coming year. Maybe next time.
Kelli said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:30 pm
My RAKs were small.
Letting someone merge early, letting someone cross the street even though I had the right of way, bringing cookies to work (Choc. Mint Moose, of course), and I too sent some yarn to the poor man who had his stash stolen. Funny huh?
Christine said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:33 pm
Even since you brought up the challenge, I’ve been looking for ways to just doing something nice for someone else! I surprised myself last week… someone on ravelry was looking for an out-of-print Knitscene to make the Central Park Hoodie. I said I saw one at my LYS. She asked if I can give her the contact info and or if I’d pick it up for her and she’ll trade yarn for it. I picked it up for her and told her I’m sending it to her as her Christmas gift. Before you brought up the challenge, I don’t know if I would ever have done such a thing. You should be proud of yourself of the difference you have made in so many people’s lives in the last few weeks – for the people who RAKed, and who have received.
sara l said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:33 pm
I had a RAK very close to home this week. In anticipation of the first storm(of two) to hit the northeast this week. I gifted my mailman a bag of lindt chocolates, on a day he had to slip around in a pretty good storm( commuters in the area made national news because quick trips turned into 5 hour feats of endurance).
I was not sure i could keep a cup of hot chocolate warm on the porch for his arrival, so i thought the bag of lindt’s might do the trick.
I received a handwritten thank you MAILED to me the next day. I thought that was very cute!
Charmaine said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:38 pm
Today was out going to the grocery store when I noticed a “little lady” trying to get her husband’s attention to open the trunk so she could put the groceries in. Well they were probably in their 80′s & he didn’t hear her. So I said I’ll help you put them in your trunk. He slowly got out with the key to open the trunk & I put their groceries in. They were both so cute!! It’s just raining here but snowing up the mountain. Get your shopping done & have fun with your family. Merry Christmas!
Miranda said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:43 pm
My RAK was a little foolish and/or dangerous for me to do in retrospect. I was pulling out of my driveway this morning and was flagged down by a guy who had been walking down my street. He asked for me to give him a ride to the end of our street(which meets a major street) so he could catch a bus to the doctor’s. It was unsafe of me to agree to it, being an unarmed tiny female and all. But he was sick, it was freezing/snowy, and it’s about a 1/2 mile to his destination. I couldn’t say no!
Lois said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:43 pm
A friend recently had foot surgery and was on crutches. I helped her with getting packages out of her car and a couple of other things that she needed to do. Again, not so random, but acts of kindness nonetheless.
Dawn said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:48 pm
I am subbing in a lower socioeconomic school. Twice a month they have this program called Pickles and Popcorn and they sell them for 50 cents. There were 4 kids who were having a particularly rough time outside of school (family issues) and never get to participate for financial reasons. So, I anonymously contacted their teachers and paid for them to have a special treat. Totally made my day!
Joan Callaway said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:51 pm
Since I’m somewhat “married” to my chair these days, RAK’s are somewhat difficult to come by, but I think I have two things that may qualify:
1. Gave a knitting lesson Friday to the mother of one of my students. Her husband has recently been retired from a military career, so they are new to our community. I think it was the company as much as the sock knitting lesson that she needed and wanted. I count it as a RAK because I really needed that three hours for my own Christmas knitting.
2. Spent an hour a week for the past three weeks, reading Jay McGraw’s book, Life Strategies for Teens with a 9th grade boy, who’s really struggling with adolescence.
Again…it was just time…and perhaps a bit of wisdom that has come through raising five teens of my own.
I’m finishing up my Christmas gift socks…almost regretting doing the diagonal ribbing pattern as it seems to be taking forever on the last sock!!! But it’s a beautiful yarn, so guess that’s the redeeming value. And, of course, purchased at The Loopy Ewe.
Joan
Barb said,
December 17, 2007 @ 5:56 pm
My RAK gave me a sore back and arms and….. I shovelled, picked and cleared my elderly neighbor’s icy driveway and walkway yesterday and this afternoon.. My husband was doing ours and I was doing hers. I felt good. She was so happy. I made cookies today to bring to her tomorrow.
Mary said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:04 pm
My husband is working long hard hours on getting his charity website off the ground, on top of his regular 40 hour week and all that he does to be a great dad and husband. Needless to say, he’s been a bit stressed, so I cleaned his home office and organized his desk for him as a surprise. He was so happy, after he saw it he had a smile on his face for the rest of the evening!
Janelle said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:11 pm
I sent some boxes of tea to coworkers (anonymously) as a pick-me-up.
Sheri, I love the Noro sock! Thanks for showing it. It’s the first one I’ve seen online (and I’ve been looking). I wonder how much it will bloom after soaking? Hmmmm…
Kristi said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:11 pm
On Saturday (in between storms) the kids and I headed to the library. The entire lot and side street is metered, so I always make sure to have change. Right before I drove off, I fed my meter to the max, along with the couple in front and behind me. No one should have to rush out of the library!
Yesterday while shoveling out my car from the latest snow, one of the neighbors that live up the street came down and snowblowed the side of my vehicle out. Yay for neighbors!
Barbara said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:27 pm
I love your handspun yarn. The colors are beautiful. The only thing I was able
to do this week was check on a neighbor who had surgery and wasn’t doing well.
Since, I’m ill myself, there is not a lot I can do for her. I just check to make sure
she is o.k. and if she needs help, I will get it for her. I wish I could go to the
retreat. My daughter-in-law is bringing most of the food for Christmas and I am
going to knit her a pair of socks. Is that a RAK?
Barbara said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:30 pm
I forgot to tell you and I didn’t read the other blogs, but they had a story on t.v.
about people buying food for the next person in line at a drive-thru. It was on the
national news and they thought it was wonderful. Good ideas spread fast and far.
Phyllis said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:32 pm
I was on the receiving end today. Stopped to put gas in the car as it was getting dangerously close to empty, and try as I might, I couldn’t get the gas cap off. Somehow, when I filled it the last time, the tether on the cap got caught in the threading, and it did not want to budge. The gentleman filling his pickup on the opposite side of the pump volunteered to do it, and he couldn’t budge it. He finally dug into the tool bag in his truck and found a wrench small enough to get into things, but big enough to give him leverage. After a couple of minutes, he freed the gas cap and went on his way while I filled up. Needless to say, I put the cap back carefully. Whoever he was, I thank him mightily. Yes, I could have made it home or to the dealership on the gas in the car, but it was super nice of him to help out.
Heather said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:36 pm
I sent an anonymous RAK box to a knitter on a message board I belong to…she’s having a really rough time of it this Christmas, and I think she could use some cheer.
Sheri, I am SO envious of the Spring Fling! I can’t afford the time or the money this year, but I’m hoping it becomes an annual event so that I can attend sometime in the future. You’d better take SO many pictures for us!!
Anon. said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:46 pm
Your Noro socks and handspun look great! I look forward to buying some of the Noro after Christmas (and hopefully a spindle…)
It’s a nice after a day of keyboarding/geometry/human geography/art/french/pe/english/biology!
I’ve been wondering… do you have insane amounts of Christmas knitting to do? I barely have enough time after school to make a lot of progress on Christmas gifts; I have no idea how you would be able to. I need to churn out 2 pairs of socks by the 22nd, but hey, I love it
phoebe said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:49 pm
I love the e-mail that you shared…I have to say that my husband did some sacrificial sharing today. My mom went back into the hospital after having chest pain and being released on Saturday, and he went tonight to bring my dad to the house who can’t stay by himself. He left without dinner and giving up a night out to watch Monday night football. I stayed with him Friday night but I’m the daughter and not the son-in-law.
One of my employees this week was under stress from another department (lots of demanding folks) and I just left him one of his favorite treats on his desk…a large rice krispie treat without letting him know it was from me. And I left some tea bags and honey sticks at a co-workers desk who was under the weather…anonymously again.
Love the Noro!
KT said,
December 17, 2007 @ 6:52 pm
Okay, my RAK of the week was pretty big and is costing me as we speak. My roommate, who’s an econ major, is taking a class called Advanced Readings in the Middle East and she has a massive paper due on Wednesday. The problem is that she doesn’t really do the ME political thing. I, as a Middle Eastern Studies major, do. So, yesterday, instead of working on my own major paper due tomorrow, I spent about three hours editing her paper (all freaking 25 pages of it!!!) and discussing it with her to hammer out her points exactly, etc. I really should’ve been doing my own work, but she needed it and her paper’s in great shape now. Anyways, that was my RAK and I’m going to get back to writing my own paper now.
jessica said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:02 pm
I signed up for the spring fling! I’m so excited! Even if there isn’t room at the hotel can I still come? I have friends that live 5 minutes away!
Future RAK – this will be complete as soon as I find a place to go – We have several “put together yourself” christmas trees that we have acquired over the past 5 years – yes, I think we bought one just about every year for the past 5 – So I’m planning on donating each to a family that needs/ wants a christmas tree. Just not sure where to take them… I’m afraid if I go to the salvation army or good will, it will end up in the store, which is what I do NOT want to happen. Any suggestions?
Megan said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:19 pm
Hi Sheri!
I’m loving your RAK theme for the month. I have been concentrating on the little RAKs that can easily be made habitual as just something I do all the time (i.e. don’t cost money – those are great, but not as easy to make habit).
I live in New England, and we all know that us New Englanders are not exactly known for being considerate drivers. We are all in such a hurry around here that no one ever seems to let other cars turn in front of them or stop for someone to back out of a driveway or cross a street. So I have been making sure I let as many cars and people go before me as I can when I’m on the road now.
I also have to tell you about the most wonderful RAK, but it was done for me and not by me. We have just had 2 10″ snowstorms in a week here and while I was shoveling after the first one a plow guy stopped at the end of my driveway and asked if he could help me! He cleared the whole 6 car driveway in 10 minutes for me! They wouldn’t take money or even a cup of coffee for payment! I was completely overwhelmed by the thoughtfulness.
Merry Christmas!
Nicole said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:20 pm
I’ve been having a tougher time thinking of RAKs this week, since I’m at home right now and don’t see anyone other than family unless I go to town or they visit (and although I do kind things for my family, I don’t consider them random). I have donated to a toy drive, held doors for several people while my dad and I were in town, and paid some library fines (anonymously) for the lady who was ahead of me in line.
Hillis said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:23 pm
My RAK is very simple this week, every time I go to the grocery store or Wal-Mart, I let the person behind me in line ahead of me…It seems to make everyone soooooooo happy and it is sooooo easy to do.
Krystofer said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:27 pm
So yea…
I’m the boy that had his stash stolen…
Wollmiese…i think i wet myself!
Tracy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:29 pm
Oh….on the RAK front, I got Starbucks coffee for the office (or rather, some ground coffee for the office pot). And…I hit my local bookstore and bought some books for a school program they help sponsor.
So Sheri, are you giving the elves some time off? I always hated working retail and having to work at all on the day before or after Christmas – it made it so hard to enjoy Christmas day and feel relaxed. I hope that most of us would be understanding about yarn deliveries being…well…like the OTHER online sellers which should give y’all some time off next week (or take the whole week!).
Joannah said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:33 pm
Between the end of the semester busy-ness and the big snow we got this weekend, I haven’t been out all that much this week except to work. I did go to the grocery store on Saturday and let everyone who was just buying a couple of things go ahead of me. It doesn’t seem like much when I read about some of the things other folks have done. Still, shopping on a Saturday before a big storm, I hope being able to check out a little sooner gave those people some much needed time.
Sara said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:34 pm
My family was very poor growing up. We lived in Maine (I still do) and it can get very cold. I remember running out of oil during the middle of the winter and not having the money to buy any. A neighbor knew of our situation and came and filled it up. I never forgot that.
I just found out that a dear friend,s husband is being laid off from wook at the end of the week. He works in construction and there is no work. They are already struggling on what he makes and have never beeen able to put much aside for a rainy day fund. Today I put $100 into an envelope and sent it to them. They are proud and I don’t want them to know where it came from so that they can’t return it. I just mentioned in a note that when they are back on their feet, they can help someone else that is in need.
Valerie said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:42 pm
Your spinning is gorgeous—you must be a natural. Are you going to knit it into something? And the striping on the Noro socks is striking, too. I love watching how the stripes come out, and when you wear something made with Noro everyone is so impressed at how you can knit stripes like that! They think it takes great skill. Ha, only we knitters know the truth.
Your RAK’s are really making me look around for more opportunities to help out others, too. This week I helped an elderly lady load up heavy things into her shopping buggy at the grocery store, and helped another woman carry her purchases around the store since she had too many to handle. Nothing big or sacrificial, but it seemed to make them feel cared for. We also did more shovelling for the neighbours, since we, too, got heaps of snow on the weekend.
Amy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:44 pm
I did a RAK! While waiting in a long line at the post office, there was a woman behind me with a lot of packages and some very antsy little kids. So I showed her where she could set the packages (there’s a counter she hadn’t noticed) and let her go ahead of me, even though I didn’t have much mail. She was so appreciative that I felt kind of guilty–it wasn’t that big a deal, there were still lots of people in front of her, but I remember what it’s like to have little kids in long lines!
Julie S. said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:46 pm
My RAK: Someone on Ravelry contacted me to buy some yarn on my Trade/Sell page, but when I noticed the little birthday cake icon on her profile pic, I realized it was her birthday on that very day, so I sent the yarn to her for free as a RAK.
Ariel said,
December 17, 2007 @ 7:59 pm
I was leaving class, walking to my car in the snow, and I saw a classmate start walking to catch the bus. We don’t know each other well, but I know she lives near me, and rides the same bus I usually do when I don’t drive. It is the longest ride ever! So I asked her if she wanted a ride home, and she was so surprised and thrilled! I think that counts as an RAK!
Jan said,
December 17, 2007 @ 8:09 pm
My RAK tonight was letting someone into traffic. I also took in the 3 puzzles for the 3 families our office is helping, and the RAK for that is that I added wrapping paper and ribbon for the ladies who will wrap the toys and gifts.
I also gave my blood to the Red Cross, but was sorely disappointed that they won’t use it because they couldn’t get the test tubes filled.
This RAK thing must be working, as people are being much more courteous lately — it’s hard to let someone in; they want to let YOU go!
Your Noro sock and your spinning are both looking good, Sheri!
Glyn said,
December 17, 2007 @ 8:18 pm
My RAK was the other day, when I went to a place near work to get a smoothie (a common occurence =)), and decided to get one for a co-worker to surprise her. She does get them occasionally and the previous week, she’d even asked me to get hers for her (we don’t go outside much unless we have to right now!). So, this time, I remembered what kind she’d asked for before, and brought it to her.
Now, go back to the time she asked me to get it for her. The normal smoothie maker was out sick, so the replacement was there (and they always put the extras who’ve never worked the department in to fill in!), and not sure what all to do. On top of this, there was a nasty stomach virus going around (I’d already had it and it was going through my family at the time).
Back to my RAK…I brought her the drink I thought she’d want (since she’d requested it the week before), and she look genuinely scared to take it! THEN I remembered that the week before when I’d gotten her one, she’d been sick the rest of the day and had to go home really late because she was afraid to leave the building for her long drive home. We still don’t know what made her sick (the drink or the virus), but she found someone else to share this new one with. We all had a laugh about the fact that I was the worst “surprise-giver” ever!
Kristi ~ Ohio said,
December 17, 2007 @ 8:20 pm
My RAK….a co-worker was feeling ill and couldn’t get his dollar bills to go through the vending machine. I went back to my desk and got a few dollars and they went through and I treated him to the soda. He was very surprised and thankful. Hoping he also felt better. I love how the striping is coming on your sock. I must put Noro on my list. Have a great day! Kristi
Kelley said,
December 17, 2007 @ 8:30 pm
I turned an unexpected bonus to me into a RAK. I purchased a soda from a vending machine while shopping & the machince also dispensed a juice. I happen to be allergic to this particular juice so I took it with me but gave it to a homeless man when I stopped at a traffic light. ( I never have any cash- only plastic) He was very appreciative, drank the juice immediately and returned the empty bottle saying he didn’t want to litter would I please dispose of it for him. What a nice guy.
Jill said,
December 17, 2007 @ 8:47 pm
My RAK is kind of simple – but it put a smile on the face of the lady I helped and myself. My son and I were walking out of the local Wal-Mart this evening when I noticed the rattling of a cart behind us. Without looking at whomever it was pushing that cart, I just held the door open for them. It was a lady with a full cart. I have two small kids and I know what it’s like trying to maneuver through single doors – even when they are automatic – with a cart or stroller. I’m sure no choir sang or blinking lights of fame flashed, just our smiles at one another. And in that crazy, busy, after-5-o’clock shopping rush that was a nice thing to see on someone’s face.
Ksigman said,
December 17, 2007 @ 8:57 pm
I tutor kids after school voluntarily and today–it paid off for me and one of my students! He passed a benchmark test for the first time in two years. Everyone else had told me I was wasting my time with him–but he did it. He in turn, is helping me with another challenging student. I also bought some gifts for our angel tree at school and I had some of my ‘tough’ kids donate them.
Donna said,
December 17, 2007 @ 9:01 pm
At my job, the staff is asked to serve on various committees, which seem to have no end date in the position. I should preface this by saying that the director is somewhat of a tyrant. Anyway, she serves on a committee where she alone rules above the other two servants, um, I mean staff members. Anyway, I did a stint on this committee and resigned despite her protests. Another person took my place and she has been wanting out of that Exercise in Frustration. At staff meeting last week, I sacrificially volunteered to relieve her.
Teresa (NC) said,
December 17, 2007 @ 9:09 pm
I was in Old Navy this weekend trying to do some Christmas shopping for my DDs. While there, an older lady, started asking me questions about the items, sizes, colors, etc. She then tells me she is trying to buy a gift for her granddaughter but doesn’t really know about sizes, etc. I ended up spending 40 minutes going around the store helping her pick out several things for her daughter after hopefully determining her size. She was so pleased and thanked me over and over again.
Also, last Friday when I went to the post office to ship some packages, of course the line was immense, well, a mother with 2 smaller children came in to mail a package and was behind me. The children started getting antsy so I told her she could go ahead of me. She didn’t want to at first, but I insisted and she was very appreciative. I remember when my girls were little, its hard for them to wait so long in lines.
Merry Soon to be Christmas whether we are ready or not!
Deb B (knitiot) said,
December 17, 2007 @ 9:11 pm
We got about 12″ with the first storm on Thursday and then another 3 or so with the second one yesterday (maybe more who knows – the snow banks are so high you can’t see the traffic coming from either direction when pulling out form a road)
My RAK this week was insired by another. I was in the Christmas Tree shop. I meant to run in and buy a couple stocking stuffers but then you see allof this stuff you just can’t pass up…..soon I was walking through the store wiht one of those stupid little baskets that you carry in your hand. A kin woman saw me and said, “let’s trade, i am getting ready to leave and you look like you could use my cart”. She only had a few things. I was tempted to ask if she was a knitter who happened to be involved in this RAK challenge LOL. So when I was done shopping, I did the same thing and also let quite a few people cut in front of me in the long line because they had less stuff. It made my Christmas Shopping that much more enjoyable -even more than the fact I had 7 hours without any kids or my hubby. LOL
Nancy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 9:14 pm
By using my employee ID I allowed a co-worker into the building when he had forgotten his. He would have had to walk around the entire building in the horrible weather this weekend, to enter in a door that does not have the key card entry. Not alot, but greatly appreciated.
Maartje said,
December 17, 2007 @ 9:18 pm
We adopted a kitty from a kill-shelter this morning….does that count? We’re providing a forever home to a sweet little thing.
Also, I cleaned the house before my DH got home, so he wouldn’t have to help me. He is already at work before 7am (he’s a teacher and a coach) and doesn’t get home until after 6pm….long hours and that doesn’t even count the extra time he puts in on the weekends.
amy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 9:59 pm
don’t know if this counts or not, but here goes … My husband and I moved into the house I grew up in over the summer. Our neighbors on the left are fabulous, and last week I helped my neighbor (the wife) finish raking her lawn so the leaves were up before the big storm came.
I also baked for the neighbors on both sides — the wife on the right had a run-in or two with my mom (who is normally VERY easygoing) and has actively ignored me since I got here in late June. So despite the fact that she has made it a point to ignore me for six months, I’m embracing the holiday spirit and treating both neighbors equally!
I also took the leftovers of a different batch of brownies to work two Sundays ago … shared with the parking lot attendants and security guards who had been working for hours in the cold rain.
jaya said,
December 17, 2007 @ 10:15 pm
This past week, I spent two hours proofreading a friend’s thesis. Two hours that I could have spent working on my own work, but that I gave up willingly. I also paid the bridge toll for several cars behind me, which sort of confused the toll collector, but…
I also did several loads of laundry and the dishes for my husband so that he wouldn’t have to. He returned the favor by unburying my car twice. I think I had best cast on a pair of socks for him pronto!
Helen said,
December 17, 2007 @ 10:19 pm
My children’s school has mandatory volunteer hours. A whopping ten hours for the whole school year. There are many people that go over and beyond because otherwise many things would not get done. I regularly help out with the Kiss and Go drop off at the school because I have to be there to drop off my kids on the way to work. Luckily we live close enough to walk. This morning when I got to school I noticed that the three paved paths from the street were not shoveled out from this weekends snowfall. I went into the school, grabbed the shovel and dug out those paths so that kids did not have to walk through the street to get to the one path that had been shoveled out. For some reason all the paths cannot seem to ever get shoveled.
I figured it worked to my benefit because I didn’t get chance to work out last week although I was wearing work clothes!
By the way, I finished my ten hours back in September.
The Naked Greyhound said,
December 17, 2007 @ 10:30 pm
I don’t remember doing any really good RAKs this week but I did have a really good one done on me! (remember last week I was complaining about not receiving any RAKs?)
Sorry that this was long winded! I had to share, I’m ready to cry for joy!
Anywho, my parents came to my condo for my graduation on Sat. and of course the place was a MESS, since I’ve been busy finishing schoolwork and such. Normally my Dad just complains to me about how messy everything is, then goes and watches TV, and complains the whole time, making me feel even worse. This time he just started washing the dishes. I was stunned! He never offers to really help with the housework, maybe repairs, but never cleaning. He cleaned a whole sinkful of dirty dishes that have been sitting there since Thanksgiving! (OK that really tells how disgusting I am doesn’t it? :-S ) But seriously, it was so unexpected and unlike him, that it was the best present I could ever had! It made me feel better about spending long nights at the university library and the hard work I put in to obtain my degree.
Lori said,
December 17, 2007 @ 10:43 pm
Hm. I had one last Tuesday that I remember saying to myself “I have to remember this for Sheri’s contest!” And I’ve forgotten what it was.
I have been smiling at people, and making more eye contact than my usual shy self. That seems to brighten people’s day, and costs me a little bravery.
Oh! I’ve been parking further out at stores and leaving the closer parking spaces open. I can walk, can use the exercise, and I hope the Parking Karma will build and come in handy for me sometime when I need it.
Vanessa said,
December 17, 2007 @ 10:50 pm
I shared my lunch today with one of my students who’d said she was hungry and had nothing to eat.
shadkitty said,
December 17, 2007 @ 10:53 pm
Oh squee!! It’s neat to see that my friend (same guy I sent STR to), is getting Wollmeise-y love!!!! Knitters are so generous! I’m so glad to see all these wonderful RAKs.
I’m not sure if this counts, because it wasn’t me, but I like to think that (since she is my daughter) it is in part me.
After leaving the fabric store on Sunday afternoon, I was buckling in my youngest son while my older two waited patiently on the sidewalk in front of the store. When I turned to spot check them (as any good mommy does), I saw my daughter (4 yo) open the door for a woman with a bundle of fabric and a baby in her arms. It just made me light up, how sweet and courteous of her! That she would think to do something like that made me very proud also.
Sherry said,
December 17, 2007 @ 11:08 pm
I have an elderly neighbor … Al. He’s the niceset man & has always done many RAK. Now he’s 87 & not able to do as much as he used to. He is one of the most appreciative people I’ve ever met. He actually likes the Meals on Wheels lunches that he gets. It’s probably because “he doesn’t have to cook it” (his words). The past 2 Sundays I’ve made a big pot of soup. I gave half the soup to him & kept half for myself. Just seeing Al smile is worth my cooking.
LaLa said,
December 17, 2007 @ 11:09 pm
I bought some bag of Hershey Kisses in a variety of flavors (although the cherry is my favorite) and put some in each of the teacher’s mailboxes at my school. With midterms starting tomorrow, they need the extra bit of chocolate.
Sherry said,
December 17, 2007 @ 11:24 pm
Forgot to say, your spinning looks great. When I saw the picture, I said what yarn is that? I wanted to buy it. The colors are beautiful. Who knows maybe you’ll be selling your own yarn line soon.
Susan L said,
December 17, 2007 @ 11:37 pm
This past week, I sent an anonymous TLE gift certificate [with Sheri's assistance - thanks, Sheri
] to a woman in a Ravelry group that I’m in, who’s family is quite financially challenged, & who’d been having a spectacularly rotten day.
Also, I could tell pretty quickly that a hat that I’d cast on last week was going to be too small for its intended recipient (a woman who used to clean our offices who’s undergoing chemo for stage 4 stomach cancer), but I finished it & donated it to charity, then cast on a larger hat for the woman.
I also made some extra coffee every day for the past week at work, to share with the woman in the office next to mine. (I have my own coffeemaker. Our offices don’t have any community kitchen areas or coffeemakers, so if you don’t have your own coffeemaker, you wind up making lots of trips over to Starbucks.)
Kathy said,
December 17, 2007 @ 11:49 pm
I had just finished putting my groceries onto the conveyor belt, when I noticed the woman behind me. She was elderly, small and petite, but very nicely dressed. She was using one of those electric carts that have a grocery basket attached. I was exhausted, just having had back surgery 5 weeks before, but I just had to do it. I placed the divider after my groceries and emptied her basket. She, had at most a dozen items, one of those was a bag of salad mix. The bag was pretty sorry looking and I told her, but it was reduced and she said she might get one salad from it. She also said I did not have to empty her basket but I thought, if nothing more, it would make me feel better. Is that not the reason one helps others. At best, it helps you more than anything else, at least I feel that way.
Andi said,
December 18, 2007 @ 12:21 am
I was in a line at a store the other day and looked out the window and saw an older couple in the parking lot. The woman was pushing her husband in a wheelchair and he was holding his cane. As I was leaving the store I saw her helping him out of the wheelchair, he must of thought he would be ok with the cane inside the store. As he was trying to get out of the chair his legs just went out from under him and he was on the ground. His wife was trying to help him but couldn’t get him off the floor herself. I went over to see if I could help and it actually took myself and two other people to get him back in his wheelchair. The couple seemed very grateful that we helped them.
Chrissy said,
December 18, 2007 @ 12:32 am
I seem to be the queen of handing out coupons. I was in line at Bath & Body Works and I had a coupon for $10 off a $30 purchase. I gave the coupon to a young man (probably about 17) in line and said Merry Christmas.
Tan said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:03 am
Are you still collecting RAKs? I doorbell ditched my neighbor with a skein of Somoko. She saw me knitting on it and wanted to know what it was, so I got her one.
Liz said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:16 am
Let’s just say that this week’s RAK is for me to know and you to find out.
Elaine said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:17 am
Oh, wow, I haven’t checked in here for several weeks… money’s been really tight here, and gifts for others come before treating myself to more yarn. I’ve been knitting like mad, but as usual, my ‘want to’ makes are more than I will finish in time! I didn’t know about the RAK thing, but I’ve been doing it anyway! Must be something going around with us pointy-sticks people?
There is an elderly retired lady next door, who has a computer for email and learning to surf the internet; I have fixed it twice this week, and installed her printer… now if she’d just learn to NEVER open odd email. I am potting up some new house plants for her, and made a baby blanket for her new granddaughter.
There’s a little girl who is the granddaughter of some other neighbors (we live in a very mixed age community!), and I am teaching her to knit (she’s 9 and has some learning disabilities, but REALLY wants to learn)… her family has been having hard times, and her daddy just got a decent job right before Thanksgiving. I let her go “shopping” in my yarn stash, and she picked out yarn for a new scarf for daddy, and I got out some needles and we are working hard. I admit I am being sneaky and adding a few rows here and there when she isn’t here, to help it along… else it won’t get finished, and her daddy has to wait in the cold for the bus to work… he NEEDS this! And she will be so proud! I hope it really helps her to concentrate on her schoolwork, as well as gives her a love of knitting. She is a very determined little girl.
Also like some of you, we bought a big bag of groceries to donate to a family for a good Christmas dinner. And this weekend, we decided the two of us didn’t need to have a turkey ourselves, so the one we have in the freezer right now will be going to the local food bank to grace someone else’s dining table. We’ll be great with a roast chicken, and if I make stuffing and we have cranberries, what’s the difference?
I wish I could do more; I don’t get out much, as I have fibromyalgia pretty seriously, but I hope to do more. I think this is going to be a particularly hard winter for a lot of folks, so we all need to do what we can to help each other through it. I’m horrified to hear about the fellow who had the stash stolen; how awful is that? If someone could point me in the right direction, I’m sure I can find a skein or two to send his way… Happy Holidays to all of you! I’ll try to check in again later this week.
Dorothy said,
December 18, 2007 @ 2:16 am
I guess I don’t think of any giving as really sacrifices. I have been knitting socks continually and every yarn I have I absolutely love……………and I have given all but 4 pairs away. I have given as what I call “Happy Day Gifts”. Alot of these have gone to folks running animal charities, or waiting hospital visits, lost a spouse and first Christmas alone. Some touch my life personally but a lot just touch me by their kindness. The greatest gift I receive is their utter surprise at receiving a hand made gift just for them! It warms my heart when they tell me how wonderful their feet feel!! I have had the best time just sending out my socks.
debbie said,
December 18, 2007 @ 3:51 am
i love the yarn you’ve spun – seems you’ve progressed nicely! i ordered some noro today and can’t wait to knit up a pair of socks….
Topaz said,
December 18, 2007 @ 6:07 am
I was walking into a building behind a woman who was taking her two toddlers into the daycare center. They were both slipping and sliding on the ice and sobbing. her one hand was full of bags. I know my scrubs make me more trustworthy to strangers, so I asked if she needed some help. She slumped with relief and said “Yes, please!” I held the little girls hand to help her across the icy patches and into the front door while consoling her (even taking out a kleenex after we got inside to wipe her little nose). The smile the little one gave me was worth it!
Kristin said,
December 18, 2007 @ 8:06 am
Our family buys gifts each year for the local HS families program, called “Angel Tree.” We don’t know who we are buying for, only suggestions for gifts/sizes on the paper. It’s really fun to do, and my DD’s helped to pick out the gifts wrap them this weekend. I hope they are learning the valuable lesson of giving to others at Christmas time.
New Jersey Laura said,
December 18, 2007 @ 8:50 am
Cuffs are never too long, especially in the snow!
RAK kudos to the PTO ladies in my town: last Thursday I sent out an e-mail about the need for 27 remaining giving tree gifts for the needy, by 9 am next morning every gift was accounted for. Amazing!!!! It makes me smile again just thinking about the swift and kind response from these lovely people of all faiths.
melissaknits said,
December 18, 2007 @ 9:03 am
You should have a 2-at-a-Time Socks workshop at that spring fling (she said, panting at the thought of a retreat)
Katrina said,
December 18, 2007 @ 10:02 am
My RAK this week was a sacrifice for me! I came to visit some relatives and had some socks for gifts that I had knit. Well, I totally forgot that my husband’s cousin was visiting also. When the others opened their socks, she just loved them! And since I hadn’t made her any, I gave her the ones that I had knit for myself (that I finished that day). The socks were made with some beautiful yarntini! And the worst part of it was that I forgot to take a picture of the finished pair!
Erin in Minnesota said,
December 18, 2007 @ 10:17 am
I’m a bit late on my RAK’s, but I have been continuing to hold doors for people (especially as the weather’s gotten colder) and this week my big RAK (well, it’s not really random but..) came to fruition
I chaired up the food for finals committee for my dorm this semester and I’ve spent about 14 hours during finals week making sure that there is a snack and a relaxed atmosphere for my fellow students during our relaxed hour in the dorm every night (9-10 pm). My crown jewel was the Sunday night F.F.F. where I baked about 30 dozen Christmas cookies (all day long).
Tiffany said,
December 18, 2007 @ 10:55 am
I didn’t do anything to big. But there was a lady on ravelry that wanted some of my yarn I had for sale and then realized she didn’t have the money because of some stuff that had happened this month so I offered to send it to her for free.
tracey in mi said,
December 18, 2007 @ 11:12 am
*giggle* honestly—- saw that comments were at 99…just wanted to push you over 100
bonus rak..(not for contest- too late and don’t care but wanted to share;) .got a first time haircut with my son’s stylist…(she’s cut him before but not me….) Decided to way over tip her…just cause;) it was fun to see her face…;)
Next up- I have to go get my nails done before this weekend..(AFTER the house cleaning is done) .. I decided to implement the starbucks thing there- will pay for mine- and the next fill to come in the door;)
Anniebananie said,
December 18, 2007 @ 11:58 am
RAK? I was in SuperWalmart on Sunday, all by myself. I had a cart full of groceries. As ususal, there were 4 lanes out of 30 open. A woman and her husband came up in line behind me with only a few things in their cart. I told them to go ahead of me. She seemed pretty astonished. I simply said that I had a cart full and she didn’t. She said “bless you”. That was the nicest thing she could say to me.
Suellen said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:12 pm
RAK? Our church collects store bought hats and mittens for distibution to the local neighborhood center. Instead of buying this year, I knit 6 hats, one scarf, and mittens in wool from my stash. I also gave a hat to another child from the congregation to put on the tree because she forgot to get something. I love the mitten tree every year, but I didn’t realize how much more I would love placing handknit items on the branches!
Jocelyn said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:17 pm
My act isn’t random, rather it took some planning. At Thanksgiving I stopped buying yarn.
See?
http://flickr.com/photos/verbs/1501292004/
Instead I saved the money to pamper a single Mom and her two girls, who have been in Canada for only a few weeks.
Last Saturday I delivered the goodies, including a nice, warm winter jacket for each of them. It was great fun, and I’ll do it next year.
Diane said,
December 18, 2007 @ 1:36 pm
I was having a party at my house Sunday nite for my Soccer Mom’s and a few older sisters from the team……We had a bad storm and had to cancel……One of the sisters made treats for the college boys soccer team for finals week and had planned to deliver them to my son who was coming home for the weekend……….she was so concerned of how she was going to deliver them…..So, I picked her up Monday Nite and drove her up to the school so she could deliver them in person…..Thelma & Louise Nite…….and you should see what she made for them…….
PS: I am so bummed I can’t fly out for the Retreat……I finish up tax season on the 15th of April and have already planned a get away that week….darn…I know everyone is cheering YEAH…one spot not taken…
Have a good one…Blogless Diane
TMTTYRR said,
December 18, 2007 @ 3:22 pm
I can’t remember my RAK. I had one this week, and I remember thinking, “Oh, that’s good, I can post that one!” Can I remember what I did? No.
I did lots of things that people might consider RAKs, but I don’t because they’re just things I do anyway. I held doors for several people, told a lady she’d dropped her smoke-ring scarf, helped BFF Liz get some of her Christmas shopping done because she’s been working insane hours, took my mom (a.k.a. my 79-year-old-3-year-old) Christmas shopping twice, and basically rode herd on the third graders who sing in the church choir with us (I win by default since I sit next to them). :p
And has anyone else noticed that people are always really shocked when you hold the door for them? It’s amazing. :S
I did have a great RAK that came TO me, though. Actually, it’s on-going for the past several years, since my dad died. There are several neighbors who clear off my walk and driveway after snow storms. I’m never sure which one does it, but there are several who take turns. I don’t think they coordinate, either, I think it’s just whoever gets to it. Since it’s just me and my mom and we don’t own a snow blower, it’s very very nice of them. I told Mama that we need to have a coffee and dessert party for them all once the weather gets nice. But that doesn’t count because it won’t happen until April.
Hariamrit said,
December 18, 2007 @ 3:57 pm
We did a gift exchange at the Vet Clinic where I help when they are in need of extra hands. There is a woman who works there who tends to be depressed around holidays. She always makes nice compliments about my knitting. I did not draw her name but I made an alpaca hat for her. It may not seem like much but her getting a special present meant a lot to her and to me.
Plus the supermarket we buy from always have bags of groceries for the food bank. No matter what we buy we buy a bag of those groceries. I love that the supermarket does that and it is a reminder every time I shop to remember those less fortunate than me.
Happy Holidays to all.
Joanne Edwards said,
December 18, 2007 @ 4:16 pm
Happy Holidays Everyone! Wow, the count down is really critical now. I am half way into getting all of the food. I do Christmas Eve with the 7 different kinds of fish, peirogies, and the extra plate for Jesus coming at the door in the form of a poor person in need….and I also do Christmas Day….nothing like it! No Rest For The Wicked, is there??? I did do my RAKS, but not as many as I usually do. This week I taught three people knit…we started with a simple scarf…I thought it was simple, they did not, and I repeated said directions a gazillion times…oh well, I can’t wait to see these scarves. I gave a headband to the neighbor who looked cold and was shovelling her drive. I gave $ twice to the Salvation Army lady, and promised to give my next pair of mittens to Sally, an older woman with severe pain in her hands who still manages to drive the “special needs” kids to school….I am nearly done with the mittens…a few more rows and I can give them to her tomorrow. I made them with 1 stitch purple, 1 stitch periwinkle blue…warm and solid ones…special ones, just for her. I have not stitched for me in ages. I am LONGING to use the absolutely gorgeous, to die for Handmaiden silk yarn from Loopy, but there’s still too many other mittens to be made….Ashley needs a pair. And so I am off to finish Sally’s mitten and start another pair for Ashley. The stash gets smaller….my husband actually told me that he had a new storage area for me…the yarn could be used as extra insulation in the garage. Gads! Though we did not have power for 10 hours Sun. into Mon. and I needed wool then…lots of it! Actually built a fire in the fireplace, and had candles going…an adventure. Take care and Christmas blessings to all. Joanne
tracey in mi said,
December 18, 2007 @ 4:18 pm
Jessica- the knitter with christmas trees to spare;) –
I love Freecycle-(it’s where I heard about the crisis pregnancy center I donated to this week) Just go to freecycle.org- type in your zip code- & sign up for a yahoo group in your area then post a message to the group saying the trees are available….I usually use “porch pick up” so I don’t even have to cart it anywhere!
in mi–
Julia said,
December 18, 2007 @ 4:26 pm
Speaking of sacrifical giving…
I decided several months ago to throw a surprise party for the Lovely Roommate. Most of his friends live out of town, in different states and sometimes across the country, and he usually starts to miss them around his birthday.
My original plan was to announce party plans, offer to pay for hotel rooms, transportation and food for any of the guests that could come, and we’d have ourselves a party.
Unfortuantely, as the deadline gets closer (February), it’s become apparent that many of his friends still won’t be able to make it because of the cost of airfare. I made the decision this weekend to raid the back-up funds, which likely would have been used for the Sping Fling, to offer to help with airfare to get several people into town for the party.
In other news, this won’t be the last shipment of Yarntini cashmere and cashermere/silk goodness we’ll be seeing, right?
JRR said,
December 18, 2007 @ 5:56 pm
Well, the man subsisting on saltines and jelly in the subway station didn’t want the more-nutritious cashews I offered this afternoon, so maybe that didn’t count. During my long lunch break from jury duty yesterday I ran to see my friend as she finished her doctoral defense and bought her lunch, just so she’d know I was thinking of her and how great she is. Since I knew I’d be busy with jury duty, I suggested to another friend that she watch our friend’s daughter during the defense so that her husband didn’t have to take leave without pay, and we were happy to offer our un-random acts of kindness!
Lacey said,
December 18, 2007 @ 6:29 pm
I allowed some lady who looked like she was in a great big hurry get in front of me today. I was in a hurry too, but she looked like she was going to go postal. When I let her in front of me, she stopped, smiled, and moved around me to check out.
Holiday Stress obviously needs an outlet.
Rosemary C said,
December 18, 2007 @ 6:57 pm
I do lots of charity knitting:hats for premmies, scarves for the military and hundreds of scarves for our golf team’s various charity tournaments and Breast Cancer Tournament. I am Captain of our golf club this year and last week at our Holiday party I was surprised with a major (and un-random) act of kindness. I was presented with a 40 ft. hand knitted scarf. Small scarves were knitted by many of the women in the club; many of them non knitters or just beginners, and then put together into this LONG scarf. One gal said she didn’t know how to bind off, so she just slipped the stitches off the needles and sent it to the person who was putting the whole thing together. Attached to the scarf, which was rolled up and then unfurled across the room, were poems, messages and even a haiku:
“Rosemary knits scarves
While golfing at Coyote
Now my neck is warm”
They also gave me a $200 gift certificate to my LYS. I was so moved and blown away.
Marianne Y said,
December 18, 2007 @ 7:22 pm
I have been giving a lot of moral support to a couple of parents who have younger kids who go to the same college that my son does, (that is 450 miles from my home). It started out with answering questions and giving them tips and hints on various things, including what to bring to college, what computers to consider getting, activities they might get into, courses they might want to sign up for, earlier rather than later, etc. We grew into somewhat personal friends, through the wonders of email. Last spring, the dad of the girl was fit to be tied, when his daughter ran into huge problems with Calculus 2 and Physics, both of which were prerequisites for courses in her major, so I coached him through it, as best I could, but she is a headstrong girl, so she would not drop the courses while she could…And then she was accused of cheating, with her team in an engineering course, which she didn’t. I coached him on how to approach it, letting his daughter take the lead in the contacts, but coaching them on where to go, what to say, etc. It took all summer, but eventually, she and all of her team members but 2 were cleared of cheating. She got tutoring over the summer, and she is doing better this semester. I am big into computers, and my son is a computer systems science major, so there was a beginning, with her father, and he knew the mom of the boy.
In the case of the mom of the boy, we grew to find that we have a lot in common, both our kids (although our kids have never met), but families. This lady lost her father last week. She has been caring for him for 9 years, but he died in a hospice. But I had coached her, on what I would do, if it might be near the end, so she would not regret it later, since I knew what I had done when my parents died. She was about to come unglued, so just sending her frequent, supportive messages, etc, has helped a lot. Her son did not get to come home for the service for her dad, which was very sad, but it had to do with the timing of finals (this week), and her brother-in-law’s getting home from Iraq for the funeral service. It is an especially difficult time, because her mom died on Dec 26, 10 years ago. Since she lives 100-plus miles away, and I am pretty much homebound because of my broken back, I could not go down to help her. In fact, none of the 3 of us have ever met face to face, but we have all three been good friends for 2 years now. We have found that email works very well for friendship.
And, if virtual support does not count for RAK, would the acts of my youngest son perhaps count? He has been snow blowing and/or shoveling the driveways of two elderly neighbors, without being asked, and in some cases, without being paid. One is a handicapped, elderly lady. The other is an elderly couple with back problems, whose snow blower gave out, just before our big storm this weekend, that dumped 8.5″ of snow on us. My son had fixed the bottom of his driveway the storm before without being asked, too. And, getting the bottom of the driveways, after the snow plows finally decide to come through (we call it “plowed in”), is a major task, requiring a lot of physical effort.
Terri said,
December 18, 2007 @ 7:53 pm
Your spinning results are BEAUTIFUL!!! I am no longer in mid-slide… I am in full slide mode as I have ordered my wheel. It should be delivered somtime this week. Was your roving from Copper Pot Woolies?
Dr. Jackie said,
December 18, 2007 @ 8:43 pm
How about a monthly “knit-in” at Loopy Central? Just askin….
Dr. Jackie said,
December 18, 2007 @ 8:43 pm
Oh BTW…I just finished my first “felted” project!
Helen said,
December 18, 2007 @ 8:55 pm
My co-worker’s best friend has fallen on tough times financially because a broken foot has kept her out of work for too long. Every year at Christmas our employer gives us each a $25 gift certificate to a local grocery store. I asked my co-worker to please give my gift card to her friend without telling her who sent it. Funny thing, the gal I work with planned to pass along her gift certificate as well! RAK X 2.
Any chance you’ll open up those classes by Wendy and Cookie to us locals who can’t make the entire knitting retreat?
Deb J said,
December 18, 2007 @ 9:16 pm
As I read so many of these amazing, self-less RAKs, two things are apparent: knitters are inherently kind, generous souls and even the smallest act is worthy and seems to generate others. It’s really a conscious way of living. The unexpected smile given to someone, the “thank you” tendered, caring for others. Wow–what a movement we could all start! Thanks to all of you for being so amazing!
Bobbi said,
December 18, 2007 @ 9:56 pm
With all of the snow this past week, my family has been busy shovelling snow for some of the elderly folks in the older parts of town.
Betty H said,
December 18, 2007 @ 11:14 pm
I sponsored two people who are in the war in Iraq under the “Sponsor Any Airman” program – the action involved sending two packages full of goodies that are on the wish list of needed items by the troops. We picked a Colonel (because he has the most people under him to share with) and a Sergeant (who has the most peers to share with). Some but not all the items included the following: Pocket games of checkers, parchesi, Uno cards, Qtips, suntan lotion, baby powder, mouthwash, Wet Ones, salt and pepper shakers, fruit snacks, Starbucks coffee, Tazo tea, Nerds, Grunts, Nestle Crunch, Werther’s, batteries, hand sanitizer, chapstick, crystal lite drink mix, pretzel snack mix, mardi gras necklaces, Cranium games, Junior mints. I’m sorry but I did not include any yarn and needles from Loopy Ewe. It’s a great program and you can contribute at any time. We included a letter from each member of the family to the person and letters for the people they will share with.
Dawn said,
December 19, 2007 @ 7:35 am
You MUST go to my blog and see what our knitting group, The Rockstars, pulled off as a random act of CHRISTMAS kindnes last night.
It will blow your mind!
Janice said,
December 19, 2007 @ 9:09 am
I cannot wait for the Spring Fling!! Yeah! I LOVED seeing your newly spun skien!! I’m making progress….
I don’t know if my RAK will count this week… but I ate the rest of the cookies on the plate so that no one else would be tempted to! We all have wedding clothes to fit into next week so you can see the sacrifice I made in doing this!!!
In all seriousness, I LOVE reading all the posts and the amazing things that everyone is doing. Too bad our newpapers aren’t full of such stories… what a different world this would be!
Laurie said,
December 19, 2007 @ 10:03 am
I am participating in a RAK with my knitting group. A while back, we had a a little get-together at our LYS and shared ornament patterns (free ones!). We all decided to make tiny sweaters to hang on a little tree at the LYS. It costs $1 to put a sweater on the tree, and if you want to purchase one, it is $5. All the money collected will go to our local homeless mission before Christmas. I continue to be aware of those around me who may need a little hand as we go about our daily activities, and I am making a point to drop a little change in the SA pots when I see one and thank those bell ringers for the job they are doing to help out the less fortunate!
Sherry said,
December 19, 2007 @ 10:58 am
I work at a high school and several of the students don’t have any money for lunch or any food at home for that matter. I’ve been paying for them to get lunches, especially during finals week.
I’ve also let who knows how many people ahead of me in lines at the store. My kids are beginning to think I’ve lost it. But that is OK. I am a little weird.
Barbara said,
December 19, 2007 @ 11:17 am
My RAK …..I took some ” Christmas Goodies” to the Loopyewe elves this week.
Terri said,
December 19, 2007 @ 11:44 am
I am completely smitten with your ornament holding statue. Where did you get him?
Karen said,
December 19, 2007 @ 11:51 am
RAKs also apply to hearth and home. My husband and I generally have our own set of tasks that we take care of; his is yardwork and fixing things around the house, and I do meals, laundry, and such. Last week we had a huge wind storm with gusts up to 45 mph that blew leaves all over our yard. The various plants at the front of our house were totally covered, and you couldn’t see the lawn either. As we were projected to get a sleet, ice, freezing rain, snow, and then rain storm Saturday night (and my husband works on Saturdays) I decided to rake our huge yard and get the leaves into the woods before the storm hit. (I don’t know how to operate the leaf blower, so manual labor it was.) After that, I moved a considerable amount of wood that had been split over to the woodshed, and then brought wood indoors so we would have a cozy fire going when he got home. My husband had had one of those exhausting days at work, so these were things he could take off his “to do” list. I think I made him a happy man, and that made me happy as well.
Melissa said,
December 19, 2007 @ 12:35 pm
My RAK this week had to do with a co worker. He was laughing about how long he would be in line at the Toys R Us in Time Square. I told him that he should order from Amazon and avoid the lines at all. He said he didn’t have time to wait for it and didn’t want to pay for expedited shipping. I get free 2day shipping through amazon, so I had him go into my account to do his shopping and not have to do the horrible human crush of Time Square.
Mo said,
December 19, 2007 @ 1:42 pm
I talked about finding a wheat free recipe for a co-worker in a previous comment. Did you know they make gluten free what already, so if you find that you don’t have to put all different ingredients together!
So I made a basic coffee cake with cinnamon streudel topping and brought it to our staff meeting. My co-worker was so pleased that she could finally share a treat that everyone else had! Plus *everyone* said it was the best cake they ever had. I was nervous it would turn out poorly since I had never used that flour, and simply subbed it in a wheat flour recipe.
So tomorrow I have to print out the recipe and share it with 5 people.
Mission accomplished!
Mo said,
December 19, 2007 @ 1:43 pm
er, that “gluten free what” really should be gluten free flour, oopsie. Got interrupted as I posted.
Sara O' said,
December 19, 2007 @ 1:44 pm
this so nice, to read about all the wonderful things ppl are doing for each other! doesn’t it give you hope? i know it does for me. : )
let’s see…. this week (actually saturday – the day it snowed!) I passed by that close parking spot at Wal-Mart so the person behind me could snatch it up. i mean, Wal-Mart on a Saturday is bad enough… add in the snow… chaos. i figured i could use the exercise anyway. : )
and while i love anonymous RAKs, I have to say that personal ones are dear to me as they keep my husband and I a little more loving and thankful for each other. my poor hubby works his little tail off for our large family and he needs any break he can get. so i did the trash this week for him. one less thing to worry his troubled mind.
graygirl said,
December 19, 2007 @ 1:46 pm
Not sure if this counts but I paid my daughter’s cell phone bill. She is 23 and pregnant and I just couldn’t stand her being without a phone. I’m very steadfast about my kids being on their own….I can’t stand seeing parents cripple their adult children by paying for everything and doing everything for them. They never learn how to do things for themselves….anyway…….she now has a phone. And I am still on my campaign to be a courteous driver!!!! Does this count?
BTW…..you are such a yarn “pusher” LOL….I just purchased some Noro sock yarn……such yummy colors!!!!!
Sara O' said,
December 19, 2007 @ 2:40 pm
i love reading about these RAKs. I’m getting great ideas! This Saturday, when it snowed, I passed up a close parking spot at Wal-Mart for the person behind me. Wal-Mart is chaos on Saturdays… add in the snow…. yikes!
moirae said,
December 20, 2007 @ 1:40 pm
RAK
There is probably only truly random act here. It is a long story so here goes.
My boss on Monday morning asked me if I wanted to be the lunch speaker at Kiwanis the next day. No pressure. He would have understood if I didn’t want to do it on such short notice.
I said yes. I hate public speaking, but there’s only one way to get better at it.
While there I heard about the Kiwanis Holiday Food Drive. They raised 17,000 lbs from a community of 8-9000 people. Nice huh? My boss promised to write a press release and send it to his media contacts. In the car, I asked if he wanted me to do it. After checking that it was okay with me, he agreed.
So I wrote the press release.
I volunteered my husband to go help sort the food yesterday for two hours. I went for about half an hour and stayed for another ten minutes interviewing the Holiday Food Drive Coordinator.
So we did random community service in the middle of the week
. I’m not going to log that half hour either, although it’s still a small gesture. I DID get my husband to go though. I guilted him into it.
Cathy said,
December 20, 2007 @ 2:58 pm
My RAK this week involved my being a temporary and unpaid postal employee.
I went to the post office nearest my work to mail something Global Express Guaranteed, but (after waiting in a long line) I found out they didn’t have the forms and wouldn’t for several days. I had to mail this item (a birthday gift) so I went to another post office (with another line) about 6 blocks away. I picked up a bunch of the GEG forms and went by the 1st post office the next day to drop them off. The employees there (who are always very friendly) were shocked that someone would think to bring them forms!
Hopefully I saved some people from having to walk to another post office and wait in line twice.
danielle said,
December 21, 2007 @ 10:17 am
I missed the original post…. What’s an RAK?
Rose said,
December 23, 2007 @ 6:12 am
For my RAK, I sent a pair of baby socks knit in Koolade dyed yarn and a hat to Mossy Cottage Knits for a woman whose husband died. She’s expecting a baby soon. It seemed so tough to be without your mate at Christmas with a baby on the way. You should see all the beautiful things sent in.
Karen said,
December 23, 2007 @ 10:03 am
It isn’t much, but when I’m in the checkout line, I look to see if there is someone behind me with only a couple items, and I let them go first. They act like it is a big surprise, but I have been in long lines when I only needed a couple items. It is hardly any wait at all.
Grace Brunelle said,
December 23, 2007 @ 4:24 pm
Dear Sheri,
We a Rak Christmas every year! For instance, last year we gave christmas to a family at my brother in law’s school, we got together to wrap gifts and have cookies and cocoa the week before christmas. Then on Christmas day, Instead of presents last year for all my siblings, we decorated ordinary EMPTY white soup bowls with really pretty cellophane and a bow on top.We put a note inside each bowl telling them about how their gift fed a child for 3 months with soup! Everyone LOVED IT.
We gave funds to www. LifeToday.org They have both mission feeding where they feed and care for over 400,000 children each month in countries from Sudan to Mozambique. These kids don’t have anything, and Life Today goes to places where NO one else will go. In fact the mix they make to feed the kids has the highest vitamin and mineral and protein etc content , it is so Excellent that Unicef has come to see their recipe! It is like a porridge. The kids who eat from LIFE are so poor they would travel like even 20 miles and use dirty tin cans for dishes . Well, for only $1 added to your donation, Life will give each kid an orange bowl that can be used for this hot porridge and the child keeps the bowl and keeps coming to be fed as long as needed. They also clothe the kids and give them medical attention.
I know there are a lot of needs in the world but with Life, they are PROVEN to give all the funds to the kids. They also have a Missions water program, so next year we will give CUPS decorated so kids can get a CLEAN cup of water. Thousands of babies and children die from disease from Water borne illnesses.
We just felt that we are so blessed to have hot water, clean water, food and homes and warmth that we wanted to help.
This year we are giving out of our surplus, and our whole family is doing one of those Yankee Trader games, We limited it to only $5 ao we can give to the poor.
The year before we gave notes on giving a goat, or chicken or formulae from different Samaritans Purse programs.
Every year since my daughter was a teen, we started to give our christmas meal funds to the poor and eat soup instead. It became a fun and relaxed tradition. We have now done this for many years, as she is 27 and it really brings the family together, as we eat soup we watch “It’s A Wonderful Life” or “The Littlest Angel”
So that is how we RAK Christmas!! I hope this gives you an idea for YOUR family for RAK Christmas
Our family celebrates Christmas on Christmas Eve Day so I am posting early.
May each of you find the True meaning of the season this year.
Please enter me too, Sheri, in the contest.
blessings, grace in VT
Grace Brunelle said,
December 23, 2007 @ 4:29 pm
Dear Sheri,
We a Rak Christmas every year! For instance, last year we gave christmas to a family at my brother in law’s school, they lost their home and everything, even clothing etc in a house fire. So, our family all purchased what they needed for clothing and toys and we got together to wrap gifts and have cookies and cocoa the week before christmas.
Then for my gift to my siblings families on Christmas day, Instead of presents last year for all my siblings, we decorated ordinary EMPTY white soup bowls with really pretty cellophane and a bow on top.We put a note inside each bowl telling them about how their gift fed a child for 3 months with soup! Everyone LOVED IT.
We gave funds to www. LifeToday.org They have both mission feeding where they feed and care for over 400,000 children each month in countries from Sudan to Mozambique. These kids don’t have anything, and Life Today goes to places where NO one else will go. In fact the mix they make to feed the kids has the highest vitamin and mineral and protein etc content , it is so Excellent that Unicef has come to see their recipe! It is like a porridge. The kids who eat from LIFE are so poor they would travel like even 20 miles and use dirty tin cans for dishes . Well, for only $1 added to your donation, Life will give each kid an orange bowl that can be used for this hot porridge and the child keeps the bowl and keeps coming to be fed as long as needed. They also clothe the kids and give them medical attention.
I know there are a lot of needs in the world but with Life, they are PROVEN to give all the funds to the kids. They also have a Missions water program, so next year we will give CUPS decorated so kids can get a CLEAN cup of water. Thousands of babies and children die from disease from Water borne illnesses.
We just felt that we are so blessed to have hot water, clean water, food and homes and warmth that we wanted to help.
This year we are giving out of our surplus, and our whole family is doing one of those Yankee Trader games, We limited it to only $5 ao we can give to the poor.
The year before we gave notes on giving a goat, or chicken or formulae from different Samaritans Purse programs.
Every year since my daughter was a teen, we started to give our christmas meal funds to the poor and eat soup instead. It became a fun and relaxed tradition. We have now done this for many years, as she is 27 and it really brings the family together, as we eat soup we watch “It’s A Wonderful Life” or “The Littlest Angel”
So that is how we RAK Christmas!! I hope this gives you an idea for YOUR family for RAK Christmas
Our family celebrates Christmas on Christmas Eve Day so I am posting early.
May each of you find the True meaning of the season this year.
Please enter me too, Sheri, in the contest.
blessings, grace in VT
Carolyn said,
December 24, 2007 @ 3:46 pm
My random acts of kindness this month? I baked dozens of cookies for a friend’s church. They have a living nativity and last year had over 40,000 visitors, to whom they provide free cookies. My friend told me about it so I offered to help bake. It was good to give back! I also made a flannel quilt for a friend who is going through a rough time and is keeping his heat low to save money. It will also be a great snuggle blanket for his children who are here for Christmas after a very painful, devastating divorce. There were others…making cookies for my elderly neighbors who aren’t able to do it themselves this year, letting the lady with the little kids have the close parking spot, etc. I don’t care of I win the contest, I’ve gotten more out of doing little RAKs this year than I ever would have imagined. But it would be NICE to win!
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Have a blessed Christmas,
Carolyn
BethC said,
December 24, 2007 @ 4:42 pm
I live in the DC area and traffic here is outrageous. I have been making a concerted effort to let people in and have been giving up the close parking spaces. May not seem like a lot, but I sure get a lot of smiles!
Holly of HollYarns said,
January 31, 2008 @ 10:39 pm
I end up with a lot of lotions/facial products (that I don’t use) from silly, wasteful trips to the drugstore. I don’t end up using them because my face is pretty much just okay with cetaphil cleanser and lotion or cream–anything else irritates it. I guess I just get sold on all the promises that the beauty products “promise”!