December 5, 2008
Random Acts of Kindness, Week One
Time for reporting in! Remember our December challenge/contest – you do a random act of kindness during the week and then you share it with us via your comment on today’s blog. I know it feels weird to report something that you did out of the kindness of your heart and not for any “glory”. But I can’t tell you how many people emailed me last year to say they were “so motivated by the comments on the RAKS, that they went out and did xyz as a random act for someone else.” The purpose of sharing them here is to 1) encourage others to go out and do likewise, 2) to give others new ideas to try, and 3) to get your name in the drawing for the weekly prize. (Ok, #1 & 2 are the main reasons.) I’m looking forward to reading about your week. We’ll do the drawing on Monday for this week’s winner. (If you didn’t commit an act bless someone with a random act yet, you still have time. You can leave comments up until the time I write Monday’s blog and draw the winning name.) And remember – we’re doing these each week in December, so I hope you’ll be ready to share another one on next Friday’s blog.
Today’s recipe is my favorite sandwich. I have tried different variations of this recipe, and this one, with the combination of toasting the bread and baking the sandwiches, is definitely the best. Enjoy!
Monte Cristo Sandwich (not a diet version, but ohhh, so good)
4 large eggs
1/4 cup heavy cream
2 tsp. sugar
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. dry mustard
1/8 tsp. cayenne pepper
6 Tbl. Dijon mustard
8 slices white sandwich bread, slightly toasted
8 slices provolone or swiss cheese
4 slices cheddar cheese
8 thin slices deli ham
8 thin slices deli turkey
Raspberry Jam
Vegetable Oil
Powdered Sugar
Heat oven to 450 degrees. Whisk eggs, cream, sugar, salt, dry mustard and cayenne in a shallow dish. Stir jam and Dijon mustard together in another small bowl. Spread 2 tsp. of the jam mixture on 1 side of each slice of toast. Layer on top of 1 slice of toast:
1 slice swiss/provolone
2 slices ham, 1 slice cheddar
2 slices turkey
1 slice swiss/provolone
and then top with another piece of toast, jam to the inside. Make sure that the meat and cheese are trimmed to fit inside the bread. Press down lightly to make it all stick together.
Pour 3-5 Tbl. oil into a rimmed baking sheet and preheat in the oven for about 5 min. (Just until it starts smoking lightly.) While it is heating, dip each sandwich into the egg mixture, making sure it is covered with egg on the top, bottom, and all 4 sides. Set on a plate until the baking sheet is ready. Transfer the sandwiches to the hot baking sheet when ready, and bake until golden brown on both sides (about 4-5 minutes per side.) Sprinkle each sandwich with powdered sugar and serve immediately with extra strawberry jam.
Sheri ImadethoseoverThanksgiving&nowIwanttomakethemagain











Lisa said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:34 am
I can’t believe that I am the first to post here. My RAK is unusual: I knit a stocking for a nephew that I may never meet. We are estranged from my brother-in-law’s family because he has done extremely hurtful things to my husband, including trying to break up our marriage. His wife had a baby boy in early November. At first, I thought that I wouldn’t knit anything: I’ve graced their older kids with plenty of hand knits and not gotten any thanks. But then I realized that I shouldn’t punish the baby for his parents’ behavior. So I am sending off a stocking to a darling baby and focusing on sending good thoughts to two adults who truly hate me.
Kristina said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:48 am
My RAK is nothing original. Yesterday it was pretty cold (for Colorado) by the time 5 pm came around, and I was brushing off my car from the snow and ice we had received earlier that day, and I also brushed off my co-workers car so all they had to do was climb in and leave, as compared to brush it off in the freezing cold and wind and snow. I want to do this more often.
Karen in Toledo said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:49 am
This time of year it’s really getting cold. I make sure to tip the workers working the window at Starbucks very generously, even if I only get one coffee… many people don’t tip at all. On Monday the car in front of me ordered 8 drinks and didn’t tip. I ordered on black coffee and left a large tip in the jar. The girl who handed me my coffee asked me if I intended to leave that much money, she was so surprised!
I did the same thing Thanksgiving morning, when I stopped there for coffee. Unlike me, some people had to work that day. I was driving to my mom’s for a family dinner. They deserved an extra big tip.
Kimberly Bradley said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:51 am
I volunteer at a local social crisis center on Wednesdays. This week two women came in with particularly difficult situations. I bought some Christmas gifts for them and their families and am going to drop them off anonymously.
Susan L ("knitsnknishes") said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:54 am
I wasn’t sure I’d have any RAK to post for this week, but then an opportunity presented itself this morning at Starbucks… I had just paid for my order & was about to turn away from the register, when the man behind me placed his order, and then asked if he could pay with a $100 bill. They told him he could, but that his change would be almost all $5′s and $1′s. I took out my Starbucks card, gave it to the young woman, & told her to cover his order with it. He had one $1 bill, which he tried to give me, but I wouldn’t take it. Turns out he just moved here, so he got a nice start to living here, too!
Gwen said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:59 am
I paid for the latte for the person behind me in the Starbuck’s line. I thought about going somewhere else, but Starbuck’s takes your order BEFORE you pay for it. It doesn’t work quite as well at a smaller shop.
Elizabeth Durand said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:59 am
I do this year round anyway, but I guess it counts — I always hold the door when I see someone with a kid in a stroller, or someone who walks with a cane. Trying to pull a heavy door toward you while wrestling with those things can be hard. They’re always so surprised! I believe it slows me down by a whole 20 seconds most times.
Maggie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:00 am
This wasn’t something that took much from me, but it made my RAK-ee incredibly happy, so I guess it counts. A girl ahead of me in line at the coffeeshop was short some change. She was going to pass on the muffin, but I insisted on giving her the change she needed. She was really happy, it made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
Jeanne said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:09 am
I am a high school teacher and this time of year is especialy hard for me because I see so many teenages go without, but put on a tough face about it. Anyway, I bought project supplies for one of my students who I know wouldn’t be able to get them. It doesn’t seem like much, or something I should report, because I do this all the time, but I guess it’s an RAK. I just view it as being a responsible human…it takes a village to raise our children.
Michelle said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:13 am
First, the sandwich looks great! I might try that one. This week, I let a lady with a very unhappy child get in front of me in a grocery store line. I did not have much, and she had a lot, but I’ve been there/ done that with the un-unhappy kid and even a few minutes can help.
Kim said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:14 am
I knit baby socks out of left over sock yarn using Miriam Felton’s Infant to Toddler Sized Sock Pattern and my husband and I give them away to random pregnant women or parents with newborns. Last week my Hubby noticed that our waitress at Pizza Hut was expecting so I reached in my goKnit bag (that I got from you) and pulled out my last completed pair. He gave them to her and she was so overwhelmed that she teared up and gave us both hugs.
We’ve probably given away a couple dozen pair (the leftovers are long gone and now I buy yarn specifically for baby socks) since I started about a year and a half ago. They are my portable project and are always in my purse ready to knit or give.
Kjirsten said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:15 am
I was at the pet store buying dog food, and I bought a bunch of toys ( the kind that my dog loves) to donate to the local humane society. I feel so bad for all of those dogs without homes, so at least they will have a stuffed animal or toy to keep them company…
Carrie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:17 am
This week, a bunch of new hires came out of training at my workplace. A couple sit near to me and were having trouble with some of the programs and how to use them, so I sat down and wrote out “cheat sheets” for them to follow whenever they had to use said program. It wasn’t something I had to do, because we are all given training books and directions, but when I had started it was something that I wish someone would have put together for me.
Kathryn in Minnesota said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:25 am
Reading other people’s comments reminds me that I commit more random acts of kindness than I think I do. Last year I was the poop report RAK person — I try to keep the local schoolyard free of dog poop, and expanded that work to the educational nature preserve nearby as well. We have two dogs, and while it’s no fun to clean up after them, it’s also not fair to others to leave those leftovers behind. So I pick up after my canine sweethearts, and also pick up after those not fortunate enough to have a responsible human on the other end of the leash. Yes, I’m still picking up “bonus” poops. But the big RAK this week was one I didn’t think was a RAK until today. I teach at an institution of higher education. While on my way to my office, I hear a very strange and disturbing noise coming from the next hallway. I had plenty of work to do, so temporarily thought about ignoring it and going about my business, but something in me pushed me to leave my work and address the noise. One of the school’s students was wrapped up in a ball, hiding under a cabinet, sobbing uncontrollably. I sat with him, got a colleague to call the school’s counseling center, and waited with him until help arrived a half hour later (our counselors were on lunch break — don’t get me started about how one apparently can’t have a mental health crisis at this school between noon and 1 PM). It took nearly that long to find out the student’s name, and to find out what happened. He had broken up with his girlfriend over the weekend, and had just received the news on his cell phone that she had committed suicide. Kind of puts everything else in perspective. We were able to reach his brother, and eventually one of the school’s counselors showed up. I don’t pretend that I did anything to make this student’s holiday season any better, but I’m glad I didn’t go about my work as usual. Too many times in my life I’ve been the person to walk on by — my best self is better than that, and I want (I guess this is an early New Year’s resolution) to be the person who stops out of kindness, who lives as her best self, and not her worst, every day.
Dottie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:31 am
A lady from my church is going through a messy divorce, moving from an ultra-ritzy neighborhood to a small apartment with her young children. I coudn’t participate in the effort to help her pack the moving van, so I bought a Panera gift card and dropped it off. Even though we go to the same church, we don’t know each other personally. Hopefully she can have a relaxing dinner or enjoy a bit of quiet time with a coffee.
Marie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:35 am
My RAK was I took off half a day and went to the hospital and sat while a friend was having eye surgery and took her home and sat with her for a couple of hours to make sure she was progressing as expected. We had a blast chatting after she felt more like herself while I didn’t think it was much of anything, she evidently does because she’s called to thank me several times. As you said it feels funny writing this down for something I would have just done anyway.
Tammy said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:35 am
We had movie gift certificates that were going to expire, and we weren’t going to have the time to use them all up, so when we went to the theater on Tuesday night to use 2 of them, we treated some other folks to a movie. It didn’t cost us anything, but that way they didn’t go to waste, and we made some people happy.
Doris said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:37 am
Earlier this week I left a gathering after a meeting early so that one of the other women wouldn’t have to walk out to her car alone. My husband and I had arrived in separate cars directly from work, and he would have walked me to my car after the gathering ended, but I didn’t like to see Laurie walk out alone in the dark. I wasn’t really ready to leave, but she had to pick her son up and needed to get going. And actually I got a benefit from it, an extra half hour at home that I used to my knitting advantage!
Betty said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:38 am
I donated a pint of blood yesterday. Something I try to do everytime the Blood Center is here at work.
turtle said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:39 am
There are some very nice gestures listed! Mine is kind of lame but …i travel to work daily on a foot ferry. Doing so you get to chat with the crews on the boats and they recognize you as a regular. One gentleman the other day who always chats was asking where i worked again(i work in a day spa). He said with xmas coming he was thinking of getting a gift card for his wife but wasn’t sure if she would like it or not. I know that he works hard and has a few teens that are not his but family friends he has taken in and supports. Yesterday before getting to the boat i wrote out a small card with a couple of service options that she could pick from free of charge, so she could come in and see if she liked it and so he could have something fun to just suprise her with. Lame compared to some but was something i could do.
NerdGirl said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:47 am
First, to Kathyrn in Minnesota–I want to give you the biggest hug ever. You did make a huge difference for that student. While he was in the depths of despair, a stranger reached out to him…sat with him in his grief and let him know that he wasn’t alone in the world. That is HUGE!!! I am glad you listened to your inner voice and investigated what was going on. It may sound a little melodramatic but you quite possibly saved his life.
Now for my RAK (which pales in comparison): I bought gifts for a ward of the state (one of those pick a name off a tree deals) and I also bought some diapers and pull-ups for a wonderful local agency called the Crisis Nursery that offers emergency respite care for children (infants through age five) free of charge in times of family emergencies.
Julie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:51 am
I guess I commit more RAK’s than I originally thought, although most of them are just every day routine. This week I completed a Christmas stocking (as a surprise gift) for a close family friend’s new grandson. It brought back great memories, as a neighbor friend had made the same pattern for my daughter (before I knew how to knit) many years ago. I also remembered to call that new grandma on the anniversary date of her husband’s passing–just to remind her that we will never forget her most beloved. I also adopted a new pet from the shelter (does that really count? That’s all about me!) And, we decided as a family to buy clothing for Christmas for someone a little down-on-their-luck this season–instead of the usual over-indulgence for our family. These warm thoughts bring such a bright spot to my day!
Jane said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:57 am
just a little RAK – at the library where I am a volunteer, I paid an overdue book fine for a woman who looked like she could barely afford it. Then she was able to check out more books. I love and applaud anyone who reads!
Robin said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:01 pm
I don’t have a RAK to report that I did, but that I saw another person do. My knit night meets at Panera. While we were there, a man came over asking if he could look around for the digital key for his computer. He looked and couldn’t find it and was turning away, when one of our group, lifted the chair cushion and found it. Well he must have really been grateful because he came back and gave her a $20 Panera card! We were just shocked!
I did knit two hats for a local charity, but I don’t know if that counts as a RAK.
Christine said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:11 pm
It snowed last night. I shoveled my driveway (by hand!) and since the snow was not heavy, I shoveled my elderly neighbors’ driveway. This was in the middle of the night…owly person here. I know they sometimes leave in the morning to go out.
Timmie B said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:12 pm
I’ve always known Loopies were wonderful folks. I don’t have a RAK this week but found what others did inspiring and helpful. So next week I can post one.
Joanna in CA said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:14 pm
While walking thru the store the other day, I noticed that several doors were open on the small drink coolers so as I was going past them I closed them up. Not earth shaking, but hopefully saving some energy.
Chrissy said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:16 pm
This isn’t nearly as important as some of the others, but I was in a very busy store where the line to check out was more then 30 minutes long. A mother and daughter were behind me and I heard them discussing that they both forgot to look for something, but they were afraid to leave the line because they didn’t have time to start over. I told them I would trail their cart behind me until they got back so they wouldn’t lose their place.
Jennie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:18 pm
My comment might seem like a blog entry rather then a comment!! I live in southeastern PA. In this part of the country there is a little saying that goes… “we pay more to live, and get treated worse.” It is not common in this area for people to say hello as they pass on the sidewalk or even to smile. The attitude is so cold! I hate it! I run and walk on a regular basis and make sure I greet anyone I pass. For this I feel like I try to eliminate myself from the typical northeast stereotype by performing RAK’s year around. I think this week watching for them made me realize that.
The performance was great. At the end, they both gave me hugs thanking me for getting them there with no problems. It was such a little thing to do, but to see the excitement in her daughter’s eyes throughout the show made me realize how this little act meant so much to her. I think I was the lucky one!
So here are my special ones from the week…
Every day I walk a neighbor’s newspapers to her front door. I go out early with the dogs and we find them on the sidewalk or in her bushes and lay them right where she will find them by her door. Without telling her, it is my way of checking on her. I make sure later in the morning they are gone from where I left them. Well, this morning she beat me to the papers! So I decided to pay her a visit. I took down some cookies I baked earlier in the week and we sat and ate cookies and just chatted. She is in her 70′s and spends most of her days indoors alone. I enjoyed my visit with her very much.
Earlier this week on my way to work I noticed an abandoned canoe on the side of the river near my house. My mind immediately starts to wonder if somebody may have capsized the boat and was now missing. The next day on my way in I noticed the boat again. That afternoon I stopped at the park where the park rangers head quarters for that area of the river is located. I mentioned the canoe to them and they had no idea that it was there. They were very thankful for me letting them know about it. They assured me that no missing persons reports had been made, but they were going to contact the boat commission and have them follow up on it. They think that it may have been washed downstream from a storm.
Finally, months ago a friend mentioned she wanted to take her daughter into Philadelphia to see the musical Legally Blonde. She doesn’t go in to Philly very often and was nervous about making the trip alone. I asked if she wanted me to go along, of course I would pay my way. I know the city well and knew right where the show was being held. She was thrilled and took me up on the offer. Last night was the show. I met her at her house and we went on our way. We had traffic, but luckily we made the show on time. I navigated her around the city and found parking just in time. Her daughter even told me she was impressed!
Krista at AfternoonMoon said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:42 pm
Donated enough sock yarn for 5 pairs of socks from stash to a KAL.
Gave a quarter to someone that needed it at the airport last night
Overgifted to my Secret Santa
Gave up a weekend of Xmas knitting so I could escort around a visiting friend
Bonney said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:45 pm
This one was sort of fun having been in this situation myself. I was waiting forever for the young mother in front of me to pay her toll. I was pulled up right behind her and rolled down my window and yelled to the toll taker that I’d pay for her! When I pulled up the toll taker told me she was gather nickels from everywhere she could!! I hope it made her day nicer!
Michele in Maine said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:53 pm
Well, my RAK’s are pretty minor, really. On my morning walk past an elderly neighbor’s house I noticed that the door of one her outbuildings had swung open, probably from the intense wind we had had the night before. She’s in her 80′s and doesn’t get out too much so I was pretty sure she wouldn’t even realize it. There was equipment inside that shouldn’t get wet, so I closed and secured the door.
A new friend on Ravelry likes to make beaded shawls. When we recently traded some yarn, I shopped for some matching beads to include with her package, just for fun. She apparently had a similar idea and included some wonderful candy in her package to me!
Reading all these RAK’s is inspiring!
Marji said,
December 5, 2008 @ 12:55 pm
My RAK has an ironic twist to it. I went to the Post Office early one morning this week to mail out 12 little boxes of my Christmas Candy. I had done 2 when a man walked in with one package, hoping to use the one self-service postal machine that I was using. So I stopped and let him jump in ahead of me, knowing that I still had 10 more transactions to do. He thanked me, got the postage for his package, put the package in the secure postal box, thanked me again and was on his way. I started getting postage for my little boxes and when I went to open the door on the postal box, it wouldn’t open! Apparently that man’s package filled up the box and it couldn’t accept any more!! Oh, well. I put the postage on all the boxes, took them to school where the mailman picked them up!
Sarah F. said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:00 pm
I’m taking RAK’s seriously in Dec… I plan to do at least one every day!
12/1 – Gave my Broad Street Duet mittens (made for me) to a friend
12/2 – Bought hot tea for a co-worker & donated $20 of cookies for x-mas packages for shut-ins in my community
12/3 – Baked cookies and gave them to the first friend I saw
12/4 – I was “Car-Pool” Mom… I drove a total of 10 kids to 3 different places
12/5 – I plan to take a friend’s 2 kids after school because she is having a big family party at her house tomorrow & needs to prepare
I know that most of my RAK’s so far are for friends, but really it is nice to do these things for people who give me so much all year!! I’m having so much fun with this!!
TMTTYRR said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:01 pm
Well, it’s terrible, but I haven’t had a chance to do a RAK this week! I dropped some money into the Salvation Army buckets everywhere. And we were at WalMart last night picking up things for the Christmas family we took at Church. But I basically haven’t been anywhere but work or home. I’ve got 12 things too many going on this week, planning my mom’s 80th birthday party, which is tomorrow, so I haven’t had a chance to breathe!1 Urgh!
Michelle said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:02 pm
Nothing too earth shattering for me. After I bought a drink and treat from my current favorite small bakery (they love when I bring my dog in) I left $5 extra to pay for the next person to walk in.
Deb said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:06 pm
This week, I took a huge box of plastic silverware, sleeves of plastic cups, and other disposable serving items to my local food bank along with some food for their shelves. It felt wonderful! As a family we’ve really been focusing on doing RAKs this season.
Kat Jorgensen said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:09 pm
I made sure to stop traffic in the malls this week so that shoppers trying to reach their cars wouldn’t have to wait in the cold. I did the same at the grocery store. I know it doesn’t sound like a lot, but when you’re in the weather and trying to get to your car and people will not stop, I think it’s a nice act of kindness to give them a break.
I’ve also made up goody bags for people that have given without any expectation of receiving. Just my way of saying thank you to them.
I spent the day with my dad and took him his favorite ice cream as a surprise.
Thank you, Sheri, for getting us to report our RAKs.
Kat
Sharilyn said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:12 pm
OK, something very small…. I offered and was way too graciously thanked for taking a woman’s shopping cart back up to the store from the parking lot.
Love reading everyone’s RAKs!
Monica said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:12 pm
yum yum , I will have to try that one.
My Rak I knit a few hats for the giving tree at the elem. school my daughter attends. and unloaded the groceries out of one of those wheel chair shopping carts for a lady in line at the grocery store. Nothing earth shattering here either.
Have a great weekend to you and the elves
Martha in DC said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:13 pm
Hi Sheri, You are very evil to post a recipe for that fabulous sandwich. I love them but only order when I am out.
My RAK was the Saturday before thanksgiving. (I know it does not fit the dates ) but I did want you to know that your RAk postings take place even when there is no contest. I was at the local Hair Cuttery waiting my turn and a woman who was getting married that day wetn to the counter to pay for her hair do. They told her the credit card machine was not working and she would have to pay cash. She and her bridemaid did not have enough cash and they were trying to figure out what to do and who could go to the nearest atm and get to the church in time – well the short story is that I hgave her $10 and another woman gave her $5 and someone else gave her some money and we all said at the same time. Random acts of Kindness. It was a hoot. It really blew the minds of the staff at the Hair cuttery. they kept asking did we know her and not one of us did.
Have a great weekend.
Martha
Alicia said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:20 pm
Like a lot of other people’s, my RAK is something small, but sometimes it’s the small things that can make a difference. Wednesday I spent a while helping the kids at a church Wednesday night supper with pouring their drinks and getting their forks and spoons. It took one small worry away from the already harried parents.
Josiane said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:26 pm
A fundraiser was held in November for a blog friend who’s dealing with a chronic illness that is not recognised in our country, which means that in addition to her not being able to work, the medicare system doesn’t cover her medical bills, so it’s really hard for her. I gave some money during the fundraiser, but that is not what I consider being my RAK. What I did as a RAK was this: when I’ve learnt this week that I had won yarn in the raffle that was held at the end of the fundraiser, I remembered that due to those costly medical bills, that friend hasn’t been able to buy yarn for the longest time and she couldn’t see the day when she’ll be able to treat herself to a new skein again. So I simply asked the person who organised the fundraiser to send those two beautiful handpainted skeins of worsted weight yarn to her instead of me. I hope it’ll brighten up her day!
Nancy said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:29 pm
I made a contribution to Pennies for Bella (www.penniesforbella.org or see Ravelry Sonny and Shear group thread “Win 8 skeins of Yarntini X-Post”) to help cover expenses for Isabella Clendenny’s umbilical cord blood stem cell transplant. She is an 18 month old suffering from Hurler’s Syndrome.
kit said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:30 pm
My step-daughter couldn’t afford her share of the rent so my husband and I covered it for her without asking her to pay it back so she doesn’t have to worry about it with christmas coming.
Angie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:39 pm
This week, I sent a donation to the local fire station for the “Shopping with a Firefighter” program. When it comes to children and teenagers, I have a huge soft spot.
OMG, the sandwich looks so darn tasty. I’m printing it out so I can make them this weekend.
Kim B. said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:45 pm
A tenant called me and said she had been off work sick for 10 days and would be a day late with her rent. During the course of conversation, I learned that she was not paid for the time she didn’t work (she is a caregiver at a nursing home). Paying the rent today meant no money for Christmas or Christmas dinner. I gently (trying not to embarass her) suggested she wait until 12/26 when she gets paid again to pay the December rent and told her that no late fees would be needed this time. She was so thankful! She always has been on time with her rent and is a victim of a nasty divorce and a mortgage foreclosure. She promises to send the check on 12/26 and to be on time for January. I just know she will on both counts.
Liz said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:46 pm
We have a bit of a crazy paper delivery guy, and I live in an older neighborhood, will alot of older folks- So, I decided to go to the neighbors and put all their papers on the porch! I am sure most people thought they didn’t get a paper since it wasn’t laying out by the street! I felt a little wierd lurking around in the dark, but it was fun!!!
Lisa said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:48 pm
Well, this has been an ongoing RAK effort, but it culminated this week…a friend of mine and I have been trying to knit one hat per month this year with the idea we’d give them to some charity or cause that would distribute them this winter to people who needed them. I shipped off our hats (we managed 18 between us) to Norma at Now Norma Knits who is taking them to a student-run clothing drive at UVM that will distribute them to migrant farm workers in their area.
Debbie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:49 pm
Instead of taking some very nice coats and suits I have “outgrown” to a resale shop where I could get money for them I dropped them off at a charity.
Laurie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:49 pm
For the holiday season this year, we are making a point to purchase a holiday food bag for the less fortunate each time we go shopping at our local supermarket. Each year before Thanksgiving and Christmas, the store bags up a few items needed for holiday dinners and places them near the cash registers so people can just grab one and pay for it with their groceries, and then they have a big barrel at the exit in which to place them. It costs so little, but it means that a less fortunate family might have a nice dinner for the holidays!
Oh my…Monte Cristo sandwich recipe…my ABSOLUTE favorite…especially with raspberry jam for dipping!
rarabecca said,
December 5, 2008 @ 1:57 pm
one of the guys I work with left his lights on in his car and so I went and told him. I called him at first but he wasn’t answering his phone so I paged him, and then I found him at his desk just not answering. So I had to hunt him down.
Karen said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:00 pm
My RAK – I do this in many places. I park out, away from stores all the time. On my way in, I collect the randomly left shopping carts and either secure them in the cart storage areas or take them back to the front of the store. I have been doing this all year. I am trying to not only protect cars from getting dinged up, but also I saw one cart careening out of the parking lot into a parkway full of flowing traffic. I was not close enough to catch and fortunately, cars hit their brakes and didn’t hit it. I plan on keeping up with my cart collecting in the future….
Elaine said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:01 pm
Last w/e I made a huge bucket of turkey stock from 2 large turkey remains, and on Tues made a large turkey, vegetable, rice soup. I packaged some of it up into 3 2-portion containers and took it to my elderly (mid-to-late 80′s) neighbors to enjoy now and freeze for later. On a cold Maine night, there is nothing like a hot bowl of soup!
Elise said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:01 pm
This is my first post to SHari’s blog. My RAK this week involved my whole family. We were at our local playground and park oN wednesday and went for a walk in the woods. My husband (an eagle scout) and my 4 year old daughter started to pick up random bits of trash that were littered. We ended up not only filling a plastic bag we found in the woods, and the bottom of our peg stroller, but also rolled out a tire that someone had dumped in the woods (don’t ask me how it got there). It made a pleasant walk even better. Hope everyone has a great weekend, Elise
Jessica said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:05 pm
Like many, mine did not seem so much of a RAK, but I’ll tell it anyway.
I live in the same town as my cousin, who is 14 years younger. I don’t seem him as often as I like, but we try to meet every couple of months for lunch. This one in particular was special. First I bought his lunch – we usually go dutch. We talked, him very candidly, telling me about all he has been thru since October – he has had some serious issues with Alcohol, been in detox for 4 days, and is in a rehab program and seeing a psych and all that goes with that. He can never have another drop, ever. He has anger issues (which runs in the family). I feel for him, because he just turned 21. I was able to give him a listening ear, and support, and told him again, if you need anything, just ask, or come over for dinner – the only thing I won’t do is bail anyone out of jail
I was very impressed with his grasp of what all this means and changes he needs to make. I reinforced that I am here if he needs anything. Before we parted, I gave him a big hug that he returned – we are not huggy people by nature… but I wanted him to know I care.
Now the whopper – afterwards, I called his mom, my aunt, to let her know that he is doing well and is on track and all is as good as can be for now…. He is not talking to the parents. I know that if I were to deliver the info in person, I would have gotten a great big hug. I also gave him a T-bone steak for T-giving dinner from our half a cow in the freezer.
Beth said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:12 pm
I donated some money to an orphanage in India that was in need of more cots. Like someone else mentioned, I also work to make sure people keep their dogs on leashes (part of the lease agreement in our apartment complex) and clean up after their dogs – I never thought of that as a RAK before.
just lori said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:14 pm
Since I work from home, I was worried I wouldn’t have the opportunity to do a RAK this week, until last night. I don’t know if this counts, but here goes.
We were downtown for the city tree lighting, when I needed to use the ladies’ room. I was waiting my turn when a lady and her daughter came in, daughter crying. She had cut her finger on the shrubbery (roses) out near the tree. Her mom was rinsing it off when I leaned over, and asked, “Would you like a band aid? I think I have one.”
While looking for the band aid, my turn to use the restroom came up, and I told the person behind me, “Go ahead,” and located the band-aid, apologizing for it being a Backyardigan Band-Aid (why yes, I am a mom of a toddler).
Writing this up, I wonder which was more random–the band aid offer, or the not holding up the line to help someone else out. All involved thanked me, even the little girl stopped crying to give me a gracious, unprompted thank you.
Then the Universe told me I did a good job by having my favorite holiday song on the speakers immediately after that. *grin*
Melissa said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:19 pm
This does feel odd, to say “I did….” but here it is! I helped a man on crutches get his groceries up the stairs to his apartment. I’t's a real eye-opener how difficult it is to do basic day-to-day chores when you are hopping around on crutches.
Johanna said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:20 pm
My RAK this week: I have a friend who recently bought herself a new flat, and she’s been in the middle of moving her things and buying all the new stuff she needs. There’s just one problem – she doesn’t have a car – but I do! So this Monday I went with her to IKEA to buy some furniture and other things she needed, loaded the car and drove it home to her flat.
It’s nice to help someone out!
Joannah said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:21 pm
Today, I put up my birdfeeders and picked up some suet cakes to put out as well. It doesn’t feel very random to me, but I bet it does to the birds (and the squirrels)!
Svati said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:25 pm
I try to be nice to the strangers I interact with (lots of them – this is New York City) so this week I helped a frail seeming woman carry her heavy bag up the subway stairs. But I’m wondering, does the absence of an unkind word also count as a RAK? Does it count if you bite your tongue when tempted to criticize?
Kathryn said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:26 pm
I have the unique opportunity to do a RAK every day, and that was my goal this year.
I teach math on my own time to students who can”t afford a tutor and today, I bought supplies for a student whose father was laid off and couldn’t afford them. I also bought socks and shoes for another student.
Christen said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:27 pm
I filled 3 wishes from the RAK group on ravelry. Sending along fibery goodness to those in need was fun!
Dee P. said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:33 pm
My RAK for this week was taking a songbook to my mom’s nursing home and playing through the entire thing on the piano in the Dementia ward, hoping it would bring some folks some happy memories with the old songs.
BTW, I can’t see any mention of the measurement for jam to be mixed with the dry mustard in the recipe. Do you just slather it on to taste?
ikkinlala said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:33 pm
I shoveled a neighbour’s driveway (and I’m starting to think I should do so again – we’ve had a foot of snow overnight).
Manda said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:39 pm
That sandwich looks delicious! I’m going to have to make those this weekend, I think.
I also have to say that all these RAKs are so very inspiring. It’s nice to know that good, generous people are still out there. It’s easy to forget that sometimes.
I can’t wait to read next week!
My RAK this week was kind of a two-fer. We have a candy dish at work that we usually order something like Nips or something to put in it, but every once in a while, people who come up for candy usually grumble about wishing they had some chocolate. I was at Target, and they had Kisses on sale, so I bought a bunch of bags to dump into the candy dish at work! And while I was at it, I saw some Candy Cane kisses that were PERFECT Loopy Colors, so I sent them to Loopy Central. hee hee.
I have a RAKIP (Random act of kindness in progress), but I can’t mention it here in case the recipient of the RAK reads all of the comments!!
Trish said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:42 pm
The RAK’s are one of my favorite things about this blog! I am actually in the process of knitting some “titbits” for a friend who had a masectomy a while back. My other good friend is spinning the yarn for them so they will be super soft. As soon as they are knit, they will go out in the mail for her. So, that’s my RAK.
Kirstie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:42 pm
I’m enjoying refreshing the page to see everyone’s RAKs. It’s a great way to improve a crummy mood.
My own RAK involves some lab supplies. Our company is shutting down my old office building, which includes a lab full of glassware and equipment. There’s no need for the supplies anywhere else in the company, so it was all slated to be thrown out. I’ve been working with different school boards and people involved in charities to find someone who’d like to take some or all of it as a donation. It’s turning out to be a much more complicated task than I’d thought it would be, but I can’t bear to see something so valuable be wasted.
Thanks to everyone for sharing!
Margaret said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:42 pm
I knit a pair of gloves for my son’s teacher and gave them to her on Monday when the high was 40 degrees (freezing cold for Alabama)
Paula said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:46 pm
My AK wasn’t so R. I took care of my 29 year old DS Tuesday when he had his wisdom teeth removed. Of course, he didn’t think he’d need much help. Just drive him and get his prescription filled. Well, I spent the day with him and made 3 trips out to pick up gauze, soft food, tea bags, meds, etc. I reassured him that his lip was still there even though he couldn’t feel it:-) I kept the ice packs on him and let him know the bleeding was normal. I was really glad to help him out and it was probably the most time we’d spent together – just the 2 of us – for years.
Lauren said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:51 pm
Thanks for all of the ideas! I completed my RAK this morning. I work at an academic library and do lots of teaching in 50 min blocks. One of our professors had to leave town for a family emergency, so I volunttered to teach her class while she was out of town.
Nell said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:54 pm
I let a frazzled woman with 2 children go in front of me in line at the grocery store. I didn’t have that much stuff but she looked like she really needed to get out of there!
Ellen said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:55 pm
I called the local evening newspaper to let them know that the additional account they recently gave to our carrier (an 8th grader, walking in the dark) causes her to walk much farther up our road and was dangerously near a light and turning lanes. It is also on an adult’s driving route but I’m guessing that they don’t want to do it because it is so near a light and dangerous to stop. Get that logic?? They haven’t changed her route yet so I guess that makes it a RAKIP (see comment above) since they haven’t heard the last from me!
Karin said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:56 pm
I am knitting a hat/gloves for my husbands secretary who will find out over the holidays whether or not she has cancer. Positive thoughts please!
Crystal said,
December 5, 2008 @ 2:58 pm
I bought the change from a fund raiser so that the bank teller doesn’t have to count it or mess with the change machine. It’s not much but you people inspire me to try harder next week.
Sue Johnson said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:06 pm
My RAK is short and sweet. I was waiting in the Dr.’s office this week for an appointment. I never go anywhere without sock knitting, so I was knitting away on a sock that I had just begun the day before. I noticed an elderly woman watching me, so I asked her if she was a knitter. She said she hadn’t knit in a long time due to the financial problems her family is currently experiencing. She can’t afford yarn or needles. So, I simply handed her my entire knitting bag (says Loopy Ewe on it, of course!) and told her to have fun. Inside was a set of KP Harmony DP’s, 2 skeins of Trekking XXL, a DP holder, scissors, etc. All the things I carry around with me wherever I go. At first she wouldn’t take it. But, after I convinced her that it would make me so happy to see her knitting again, she agreed. When I came out after my appointment, there she was, still waiting for her husband, knitting on the sock I had started.
Barbara-Kay said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:06 pm
An elderly church member called me and asked if I had any #7 needles. She has arthritis, and had pretty much given up knitting, but she wanted to knit some booties for a new grand-niece. She knits with straight needles, so I sent straight #7s to church with DH, as I was still recovering from surgery. She was sure they were on loan, but since I’ve gotten used to using circulars, I urged her to keep them. You’d have thought I gave her a whole Knit Picks set! Such a simple thing, that I really didn’t miss, and it made her so happy.
Jodi said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:23 pm
There is an older woman at church who had a stroke, went into the hospital and is now in an assisted living home. She doesn’t have any family except for a cousin who lives across the states. I have been visiting her in the assisted living home every week since she has been there (about 6 weeks ago). I try to go once a week. I really don’t feel like this is a RAK because I have come to find that I look forward to going and visiting her every week.
Seanna Lea said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:28 pm
Mine are pretty minor. One of my friends/coworkers needed some stuff from the drug store and wouldn’t have time to go and get it, so I went there on my way to rehearsal and bought the stuff for her. It’s just a little thing, but the two of us are stupid busy so it was nice to do something small for her.
C.Harms in Alaska said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:31 pm
Thanks, Sherri, for letting people share!
Last Saturday I was on a long (6 1/2 hour) flight from Chicago to Anchorage and I was knitting a pair of green and white Scandinavian snowflake mittens. The young lady sitting near me started asking about how long it took to make them, if they were warm, etc. I learned that she’s from southern Texas, and her husband was in the military and had been stationed in Alaska, and she didn’t know much about cold weather and was worried. I talked with her about cold weather activities and how to dress to stay warm and about the Becoming an Outdoors-Woman program where she could learn ourdoor skills and how to actually have fun in the winter. Then she mentioned that her husband had already served three tours in the middle east and had just received word that he was being deployed to Afghanistan. I asked what her favorite color was and cast on a pair of mittens for her which I’m mailing to Anchorage. I don’t look at it as a RAK, but more of a miniscule payment for what she and her spouse have given to our country.
Erin M. said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:43 pm
The company I work for was taking volunteers to ring bells for the salvation army in downtown St. Louis today. So I spent an hour of my afternoon ringing bells in the cold cold weather. I was just lucky that I decided to wear a nice pair of handknit socks today so my toes didn’t get too cold. I don’t know if I would consider it a RAK or not but I felt good to be doing my part.
Angela said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:44 pm
This is kind of an ongoing RAK that I do. I am a sucker for making donations…St. Jude’s, Habitat for Humanity, Diabetes research, breast cancer research…just about anything, even if it’s only $20. Also, something I try to do more during the holiday season is to over tip waiters and waitresses. They don’t get paid a whole lot and rely on tips, so I try to give them extra at this time of year.
Ellie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:44 pm
I know it’s not much but I washed all the dishes and the linens from our church’s pot luck last week. It wasn’t my job but the people in charge had a lot to do.
Tami Thurston said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:45 pm
I don’t feel that my RAK are much, But I’ve been reading yours & feel the need to share. I’m currently being extra nice to my boss. His FIL died yesterday & his Mom is waiting to see if she will need heart surgery. So I bought lunch today & made sure he ate before having to arrange the funeral & other stuff. I was going to buy cookies for this afternoon, but one of our customers picked them up & refused to let me pay him back.
I also agreed to take a penny donation to our local school for an elderly gent in the neighborhood.
Barbara said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:47 pm
while removing heavy snow from the apron of our drive it seemed only appropriate given the RAK challenge to do as i would probably have done anyway, to remove the neighbor’s as well. other little things included remembering to use turn signal at intersections so other cars wanting to enter can know ahead of time that i, as on coming traffic am turning. these are not necessarily unusual things but just little things that can be done when i remember to look out into the environment around me rather than to stay inside my own head!
hearing of other knitters’ RAK is so inspiring…today one person in the mindfulness and knitting group on ravelry mentioned knitting kata scarf for others (something she’s done several times) and the next to be given to Pema Chodron a wonderful nun! this is just one example of the many i see daily!
Patty said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:54 pm
I helped at my Daughters school today with the Holiday shop…it’s was so much fun helping the kid’s to shop for gifts for their loved ones
Liz said,
December 5, 2008 @ 3:59 pm
Mine is sort of a nothing compared to so many on here… but here goes: Since I don’t have a normal mailbox (I live on a city street), I generally have to head down to the post office to pick up packages. One of the things that my post office lets people do is dig through the packing-material-only recycling bins (neatly organized right by the door) for used boxes if they need to ship something somewhere but don’t have a box. Instead of just grabbing my packages, heading out the door and dealing with the boxes later, today I took an extra few minutes to open my packages at the post office, tuck their contents into a shopping bag and leave behind the shipping boxes for someone else to use.
Allison said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:01 pm
I didn’t think I had an RAK, but this week I made a bunch of Christmas ornaments for people in a nursing home. It felt really nice to make something for people who might not have anyone to be with during the holidays. I loved reading all the RAKs and this has definitely inspired me to do more!
Janice said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:08 pm
I was waiting in a long line at the store and had almost gotten to the front of the line when an elderly lady with a walker arrived. I gave her my spot and went to the back of the line.
Nadine said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:11 pm
My goats were due for a mandatory shot today and we were all a bit nervous- they are pets, not livestock so…… yes. We worry about furbabies. The two vets who came were very nice and while the catching and mudwrestling went on I snuck inside to quickly gather some cookies and homemade jam and wrapped it in two holiday bags- both vets were totally surprised to get something and I hit the jackpoint when one exclaimed that I chose her favourite jam even!
Sweet. Critters had a good time, so did the vets. Phew.
Beth Comstock said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:12 pm
My RAK is to make sure that a family that I love dearly has a Christmas. They are seasonal workers in the seafood industry and have not been paid for the entire summer of work so no Christmas at their house so I am putting my families Christmas knitting on hold and working on some hats and felted slippers so that the family has as least one present under the tree.
Erynn said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:16 pm
I always hold doors open for people if I see they are having a hard time or if they just happen to be coming behind me.
I also picked up a shift at my second job one day this week because people had called in sick and no one was scheduled to work freight that day, even though it meant I would have to miss a day at my first, higher paid job.
Janice said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:22 pm
It does seem odd to talk about this but here goes. The first actually happened last week when a person on Ravelry was saying she wanted to try Wollmeise but couldn’t find any for sale at a reasonable price. I had 2 half balls left from other projects so I sent them to her so she could see if it was worth what people were asking for it. The one for this week was send flowers to an elderly gentleman who misses his wife(who died 5 years ago) very much. He developed pneumonia and said he hoped it was time for him to meet with her again.
I prefer to call these intentional acts of kindness rather than random ones. Random acts can often go badly astray.
Kathleen said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:25 pm
I sent Christmas cards to a couple of on-line friends that are going through a rough patch. They each got a little extra green this Christmas. Hopefully, that will ease their burdens a bit.
Kelly said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:27 pm
All I did was smile and speak cheerfully with the cashier at TJMaxx this afternoon. You’d have though I handed her a winning lottery ticket. “Oh, I’m so glad you came in,” she gushed. “Everyone’s been so crabby today.” I left her laughing merrily.
I forget sometimes that working retail or food service during the holidays is harder than it seems. (Apparently I’ve blotted those years out of my memory.) Taking a little extra time to make someone smile and feel good — it doesn’t cost a thing but it’s worth its weight in gold.
Amy Scott said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:40 pm
I was on the train commuting and sat next to a lady who needed help getting to the mall. So I checked the map to make sure that she was going to get off at the right stop. She was new to the area and was nervous about riding the train and had no idea where things were. She appeared to be relieved after helping her and am certain that she made it there a-ok!
Those Monte Cristo sandwiches look yummy and I have to try before the New Year before I make those “I’m gonna lose xx lbs” resolutions!
Samantha Smith said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:46 pm
My parents just moved into a new home this week. Of course I helped as much as I could. I also surprised them with I nice dinner that I brought over, so my mom wouldn’t have to worry about cooking and could take the evening off. She appreciated that
Alexis said,
December 5, 2008 @ 4:47 pm
I’ve been knitting beanies for the guys in my husbands platoon who are stationed in Iraq until May. I finished one this week and have started on the next. …I’ll probably be knitting these all month come to think o fit.
Susan-a-Buffalo-Gal said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:10 pm
I feel it in my fingers, I feel it in my toes,
Three RAK and so the feelings grow.
Okay, so I have been watching Love Actually again and the song is stuck in my head. Such a feel good movie.
My first RAK was allowing one of my students to hand in their paper one day late so she could visit her grandpappy in the hospital before his surgery. This was a real step-out-of-the-box for this rule “stickler” professor. Maybe it was a RAK for both of us.
The second was buying a cup of coffee for the homeless person using the bathroom in the restaurant I ate lunch at today.
The third, leaving a piece of candy on the bedside table of all 33 patients in our treatment facility.
Becky said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:14 pm
Oooh, that sandwich looks awesome! Yum.
My RAK: I’ve been knitting a scarf out of sock yarn for about a week, and although I really loved it, I gave the finished product to a girl from my church yesterday. She really admired it while I was knitting it, and I really didn’t need another scarf!
Katie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:15 pm
Mine isn’t so much a random act of kindness, but initiating other RAK’s. My kids and I (I have six) cut out and decorated a large cardboard star and are calling it our “Christmas Kindness Star.” The person who has the star is supposed to perform a RAK for one of the other kids in the family. They then place the star on the bed of the person who they did the RAK for. It’s then that person’s turn to do a RAK for one of their siblings.
Sue said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:24 pm
My immediate supervisor is being deployed this weekend to Iraq for 6 months as a civilian project manager . I didn’t want him to head off without him knowing that his co-workers were supporting him. So I arranged a potluck luncheon for him so everyone could get together wish him Godspeed in his deployment.
Kristin said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:24 pm
I love reading these posts! You all are so generous, and there’s lots of good ideas! I’ve donated food to the local food bank this week. Their need is up 30% with the economy in the pits.
PS – should I ship some to you????
Also, not an RAK, but I thought of you today, Sheri. I ordered 10 lbs of boneless chicken breasts from our local butcher (first time). I picked up my package and went to pay the bill – you won’t believe it – $13.90 – Holy Cow – will be returning for more, I’m sure!
Ariel said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:43 pm
I held the apartment door for a man on my floor with a giant unruly puppy! He was very very grateful that 1) I’d help and 2) I wasn’t scared to death of the huge, extremely excited dog!
Tory said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:57 pm
Earlier in the week I was picking up some Christmas gifts at Bath and Body Works, and the woman in front of me in the check out line wanted to use a coupon, but the cashier pointed out that it had expired the week before. I had 2 coupons with me, so I gave one to her. It was $10 off of $30, and her total was only $24, so she tried to give it back, so I had to explain to her that she’d save money if she just added a $6 item, so she ran to get another candle which brought her total to exactly $30. So, she saved $4 and was happy, and even though I had planned on using both coupons, it made me feel all warm and fuzzy inside to see how happy I made her
The people behind us were getting a little restless, but I don’t really care too much
Then today, in my French class, we had to present our group projects, and one group was missing a member, so they couldn’t present, and were upset that they would have to wait until after the weekend. So, I asked them for the script and filled in for their missing member. Speaking French in front of 20 of my peers isn’t my favorite activity, but I figured that if I were in their shoes, I wouldn’t want to put it off until the next class, and I hoped that maybe seeing my RAK would inspire other people– and our teacher added a point to my semester average for it 
So–that concludes my report! Now, I’m off to read what everyone else did to collect ideas for next week
Anna said,
December 5, 2008 @ 5:58 pm
So many impressive acts of kindness! The only thing I did this week was schedule my next appointment at the blood center and purchase some desserts from a fundraiser for a local animal rescue group that I adopted my last two kitties from. They are an all volunteer nonprofit group and they work long hours trying to find homes for cats, dogs, bunnies and whatever else they can handle. Keep up the great work, Two Left Paws Animal Sanctuary!!!
Wendy in Cambridge said,
December 5, 2008 @ 6:09 pm
I love reading these RAKs; they are so inspiring. Unfortunately, I’m stuck at home with a back injury, so hopefully I’ll have some to report next week!
knitopia said,
December 5, 2008 @ 6:12 pm
Mine is nothing big at all, I just picked up the dropped pen of a woman with a toddler and baby. I did notice that a man who was standing a bit closer to her than I was completely ignored her dropped item.
Melissa said,
December 5, 2008 @ 6:22 pm
It’s a little thing and mostly personal, but I played Chief Kitchen Drudge for my mom on Thanksgiving and all weekend. Mom has rheumatoid arthritis, but she still does a big, huge, traditional T-day dinner for Dad, me, my aunt and uncle, my uncle’s parents and sister, and anyone else who can come (this year it was my aunt’s daughter and her excellent new husband).
I breezed into the house and said, “Put me to work.” I did all the prep work and cleanup for the pre-cooking on Wednesday night. Thursday, I did all of the side dish cooking and cleanup, all the table arranging and setup, all the food monitoring, the carrying to table, the drinks, the refills, and the removal (I had a small plate of cold dinner somewhere in between jumping up and down!). Then I did all of the dishwashing and leftover stowing. Even my dad didn’t help.
I consider it the right thing to do, but Mom has thanked me every time we’ve talked over the past week (and that’s nearly every day).
This weekend, I’ll be knitting items to be auctioned at work during our (military) organization’s silent auction. The proceeds are given to two Operation Happy Holidays families–junior-ranked military enlisted families who have trouble making ends meet. I know that the items will be sold for a good amount….we raised about $1000 total last year.
Loretta said,
December 5, 2008 @ 6:36 pm
This week my kids elementary school had their Secret Santa Shop. The kids get to come in and pick out little things to buy for their familys. It was a lot of fun and a bit challenging sometimes to get the kids to understand their budget. One girl came in with 2.00 and 7 people to buy for. She was very careful in choosing items. The items ended up being.75 cents more than what she had. I snuck .75 into her envelope and pretended like I just missed it the first time I checked the envelope. She was so excited to be able to buy all her family something special. There were so many kids buying for themselves first and the other people on their list last that it was refreshing to see this little girl carefully choosing small items for each of her family members without a thought of buying herself something.
Andrea said,
December 5, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
I gave some fingerless mitts to a friend who is always thinking of others and not herself. I also had some spare time, so I baked cookies and bread and gave them to each person that came to our church’s knitting group. These ladies knit (and quilt) so many items that they donate to others. They are truly an example to me of selfless giving.
Liz said,
December 5, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
My RAK- We all know how bad traffic is this time of year. My Dr’s office is very near to a mall and busy shopping center. If you want to turn left anywhere, you’re better off turning your engine off and reading a book. Yesterday, I was having a particularly bad day and I was having a little mental road rage. (I don’t scream at people and give them the finger, but yeah, in my head, I was ranting like mad). And then I was inspired- How frustrating it is to want to turn and not one car will let you through. So I stopped, in the middle of the road. And I let the long line of cars turn. I counted 8 or 9 before I moved on, if only to shut up the many honking horns behind me. I smiled, waved in my rear view mirror, and went on my way. And you know- my car ride home was quite peaceful, and with a smile on my face.
elisa said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:13 pm
This is not about the RAK challenge, but that sandwich sounds soooo good. Except you don’t list what sort of jam you’re supposed to use in the “jam mixture”.
Sharon said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:17 pm
I bought a lottery ticket for the nice girl who does my pedicures. I was going to stick in on her windshield but she had already left for the day. So I brought it home and put it next to mine. I put her initial on it so if it’s the winner of the $148 million…I’ll know it was hers that won and not mine!
“Sue” who gave her WHOLE knitting bag away deserves some kind of prize! That is the ultimate sacrifice!!!!
Kathy Sue said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:21 pm
This is my weekly RAK–I always park the farthest from the door to get exercise, and grab a cart from where they don’t belong and take in to use. I did this one day, and had to walk past the teenager who cleans up the lot after all the lazy people in town. I got the biggest smile and thank you. It really made my day.
GinkgoKnits said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:24 pm
Even though I was very much under the weather and could I avoided doing so, I went out in the cold and put out the trash for pick up day. (Not a big deal but a much hated task in my family.)
Also, I think you forgot the jam in your list of sandwich ingredients.
bob said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:27 pm
I use a walker or a wheelchair to get around at the moment as I am in severe pain (and I really appreciate the thoughtfulness of people like Elizabeth Durand above who take the time to help me out). When I am in the supermarket I use one of their motorised disabled carts to get around the shop. Yesterday whilst I was shopping a gentleman in his own motorised chair was trying to reach a loaf of bread which was slightly out of his reach. The able bodied people around were just ignoring him, so I got out of my chair to get his bread for him.
Debbie D said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:29 pm
I have a friend who I got hooked on sock knitting a couple of years back and she is going though one of those times we all go through where everything at home seems to be falling apart and has to be replaced or repaired. She mentioned to me that her college-aged daughter is REALLY liking Mom’s socks, and that she would be making her some soon, but would need to wait until some of the bills get paid so that she could do a little sock yarn shopping. I went home to my stash and gathered a bag of sock yarn from my way-too-big stash and gave it to her Wednesday night at church. Needless to say, she was THRILLED and I was glad to be able to share some of my stash with her!
Carrie L. said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:35 pm
My RAK for this week:
I stopped and gave money to the Salvation Army and also helped a wheel-chair bound person out the door after my knitting group this afternoon.
Happy Holidays everyone!
Marianna said,
December 5, 2008 @ 7:51 pm
I went into the local coffee shop last week for a treat and I was lucky to run into one of my son’s friends who was home from college. After we caught up for a few minutes I surprised him by paying for his latte. He was even more surprised to find out I was treating him on my birthday!
Lori said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:03 pm
I have a friend on the indie perfume boards over on Ravelry. She’s a student and can’t afford to buy herself the lovely perfume oils she desires. While this might not be a total necessity, everyone deserves to smell good! So, I ordered her a perfume sample pack for the heck of it. She’ll smell good all through the holidays!
Jocelyn said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:05 pm
It’s the last week of classes at the university where I teach, and all of us faculty members are frazzled and crazy busy, so my RAK for the week was to compliment folks around on me on small things that I noticed, just to keep everyone’s spirits up!
Lauren said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:15 pm
even though I love getting a seat on the subway (I can knit faster sitting than standing) I’m always on the lookout for older ladies to give my seat to – this week only two people took me up on the offer though…
and this wasn’t for any one particular person, but really for the whole community – my date and I picked up a bunch of trash off the local beach while on a walk.
Marcia said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:18 pm
I gave some money to the Salvation Army this week.
This is something I do anyway, but whenever employees need to fill out insurance claims or other benefits forms at work, I fill in as much of them as I can so that when they get to my office they just need to sign the paper. It’s so much faster for me because I’m a lot more familiar with the forms than they are anyway!
I went to lunch today with a couple co-workers, and the one guy stopped and waited maybe 10 extra seconds to hold the door for an elderly woman with a cane (as I knew he would do) . The lady was so surprised and grateful, it made me a little sad to think it’s that much out of the ordinary for elderly people to have others help them a little!
Kristi ~ Ohio said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:23 pm
I love reading the RAKs…they were inspiring last year and they are again this year! My RAK this week was giving yarn from my stash to a co-worker who had previously admired it. I had been knitting socks at work and this particular yarn was in my knitting bag earlier this year. My co-worker saw the yarn and said it was great…just her colors. She is just getting back into knitting, but had never knit socks. So Monday, I wound up the skein of yarn she liked, took needles and taught her to knit socks during lunches at work this week. She was surprised and thrilled and it made me free great! Plus this project keeps her mind off her newly “empty nest”.
Marcia said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:36 pm
This was a few months back, but maybe it will inspire someone else.
On my birthday, I was trying to think of a fun present to buy myself – I had just gotten a fairly generous and very unexpected raise the previous week, so I was going to really treat myself to something big.
I happened to get an email that day from a charity I’d sent money to in the past, so I went ahead and clicked a few buttons and sent them something right then. Well, that felt so good, I decided to give to punch up a few of my other favorite charities and send them something too.
I ended up giving away quite a bit more than I had been planning to spend on myself, and it felt much better than buying myself something I wouldn’t have really needed anyway. I’ve decided that giving to others will be my new birthday tradition!
Caroline said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:44 pm
I took my friend’s roommates Student ID card over to her when she was in the library and forgot it (If you live on campus in college, you really can’t do much of anything without your student ID card. Including checking out books for papers due at the end of the term, aka about now). Not a majorly life changing thing, but still…
Karyn said,
December 5, 2008 @ 8:49 pm
I am a therapist who works with disabled kids, and squeezed another therapist’s kids into my schedule when she had to take some unexpected days off.
marnie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 9:03 pm
My act of kindness was for my group of co-workers. We’ve been working really hard to get a new store open. Everyone has been working long, physically hard, hours. I went and bought everything to make a giant vat of trail mix (almonds, pecans , cashews, orange and chery flavoured craisins and real semi sweet chocolate chips). We unpacked 28 skids of accessories and 9 truckloads of furniture in 9 days. When the first vast was gone, I made another one… quick energy, protein, and a hint of delicious chocolate to keep everyone’s tempers sweet during a rough couple of weeks.
Liz said,
December 5, 2008 @ 9:04 pm
A friend’s six-year-old is in the hospital. I took off of work early to drive her ten-year-old sister in to visit her (one of her parents was at the hospital, the other had to work).
Christel said,
December 5, 2008 @ 9:07 pm
I made a hat/cap for a door prize for our ladies’ banquet at church several months ago. One of the ladies mentioned that her daughter who has battled breast cancer would love a hat like that in pink. I knitted her one and gave it to her mom to send to her. The sister of one of my co-workers has breast cancer and is scheduled for surgery next week. Monday I was able to give her a pink hat–she has already had chemo prior to surgery and has lost her hair. Even in Florida, it’s hard to stay warm when you’re going through cancer treatments. I’ve never had to go through this myself, and my heart goes out to my “sisters” who must suffer.
Mary R said,
December 5, 2008 @ 9:38 pm
I can’t believe how many RAK’s have already been posted. Loopy readers are truely inspirational!
My RAK is this: I cleaned out my “stash” this week and realized I had a number of bulky yarns that I will probably never knit with (multiple sweaters’ worth!). Knitting on bigger needles seems to bother the arthritis that has developyed in my hands more than knitting on smaller needles does.
So instead of selling the yarn on ebay, I dropped it all off at the local thrift shop that raises money for charity. The thrift shop usually sells skeins of yarn at $1 apiece. I can only begin to imagine the excitement that someone will get at discovering this “stash” of wonderful yarn at an incredibly affordable price. I remember finding a similar deal years ago at a yard sale and smiling all the way home. I smiled all the way home this time, too.
Ruth said,
December 5, 2008 @ 9:49 pm
I have a check ready to take to the food bank when I go into town tomorrow. I’ve done a few throughout the past year. It’s been fun.
Natalia said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:26 pm
I love coffee, so when I stopped by Starbucks this afternoon, I picked up three $5 giftcards. I stuck notes on them inviting the finder to have a cup of coffee on me, signed their neighbor. Then I left them on the shelves in the library. I felt a little silly trying to surreptitiously leave stuff in the library, but I saw that by the time I was done checking out my own books, the cards had been picked up. This was fun.
Marie Wilson said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:32 pm
One of my favorite Bible verses is: Be ye kind, one to another” so I try to be aware and look for ways to be kind. This afternoon, I was locking up after work and someone came in late to make a payment. I went back into the office and fired up my computer again and took his payment. His insurance would have been cancelled if I had not done this for him. It only took a few minutes of my time and meant a lot to him and his family.
Diane said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:42 pm
Well, my RAK this week is for a young couple who have a 2 month old baby (their first born). The baby has been very ill in the ICN at the hospital for about 2 weeks. The young Mom has been sleeping in the hospital with her son and the Dad has been out of work for about a week now on top of that. One of those “when it rains, it pours” things I guess. They are always doing things for others out of love and kindness to include helping inner city teens without any fanfare or making much mention of what they do. My son, daughter and I bought groceries for them this week.
Marsha said,
December 5, 2008 @ 10:58 pm
My RAK for this week happened this afternoon. As I walked to my car after work, I noticed that the car parked next to me had a flat tire. It was 4 pm and I knew that when the owner came out at 5 she/he wouldn’t see the tire as it gets dark about 4:30 here. I went back in and had the receptionist announce over the PA so the owner could get the tire fixed before dark.
My other RAK was surprising my 2 office mates with fingerless mitts I knitted for them to keep their hands warm as they do computer input.
minnie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:15 pm
here’s my RAOK. monday, i had to run to walmart to pick a few things up, and found a few christmas presents for my boys as well. i hadn’t grabbed a cart, so i walked to the front of the store to do so, and found a giving tree. i’ve always taken a name from any giving trees i find, so i stopped, and looked it over. imagine my surprise to find that this one wasn’t the usual one for kids, but one for seniors. i went & grabbed a cart, then came back and looked it over. there were several interesting ones, and i almost went with one asking for books, when i found frances. she asked for paper towels and toilet paper. while she also asked for shirts and stamps, it was the toilet paper and paper towels that made me well up. (where’s my kleenex, this is getting me right now!). i grabbed that one, and bought her the biggest packs i could find, and the shirts and stamps. i hope i make her christmas a little better for it.
New Jersey Laura said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:18 pm
Well, more random act of honesty. Chased down the guy who left his ATM card in the machine and drove away.
Katie said,
December 5, 2008 @ 11:44 pm
Well, here’s my RAK: I was at Chik-fil-A last weekend before work and I noticed that they have a Salvation Army angel tree, so I was looking over the “wishes” while I waited to order, and one caught my eye. Before I could even think about it I grabbed it off the tree and took it home with me. I just dropped off what I bought this afternoon, and I have to say, I had so much fun shopping for her! She’s 11 and not a small kid (size 1X), so I went to Fashion Bug and got her jeans, dress pants, a sweater, bracelets, a sweatshirt, and a couple of shirts, and then I went to AC Moore and got her a bunch of beads and wire and stuff (she asked for beads and crafty stuff). I really hope she has a good Christmas now.
Stpehanie said,
December 6, 2008 @ 12:11 am
I work in a fairly large office. This week we had a luncheon/craft sale. I knitted a nice scarf and donated it to the group that does the Alzheimers walk each year. Anyway, our receptionist had knit a bunch of dish clothes for the same cause. She admired the scarf. She’s a knitter that does a lot in acrylic and does a lot of dish clothes. My 100% wool yarn was something she drooled on. So, as I was done with the yarn, with a skein or so left, and she never had done much more than kitchen rags, the next day I brought her the yarn I had left (debbie bliss) and the book from which I got the pattern and told her to go at it…make her own yumminess. Then I invited her to our SNB. She’s really excited to get into the yummier side of our craft now. And she’s gonna teach me to make dish clothes. Every knitter and yarn has it’s place…and I want to learn her style and vise versa. It’s fuN!
Deb said,
December 6, 2008 @ 1:07 am
Here in Minnesota we’ve been seeing snow fall in substantial quantities at least once a week in the last 14 days. Last weekend I shoveled the sidewalk for neighbors on my block in the early morning. It’s a simple little thing, yet I love the idea of each of them looking out the window with a cup of hot coffee, tea, or cocoa with a smile on their faces.
Betty Bond said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:39 am
Walking into the grocery store I saw a woman unloading her basket into the car – I stopped and waited until she had finished and took the cart back – She really appreciated it.
Lisa said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:44 am
My RAK this week was a birthday present for my mom. She died a bit over a year ago, and on her birthday, while shopping in Target, I noticed some MP3 players on sale. She had volunteered at a Christmas store charity, and really enjoyed it. I remembered her saying how they always needed gifts for teens. I bought the last 2 of the players (and batteries) and donated them. Happy Birthday Mom–she would have really liked that. I think I will have to do that every year now for her birthday–just because.
Betty H said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:58 am
Since the middle of last month, we have taken it upon ourselves to feed our across the street neighbor who is 90. She choses to live alone and does have a son and daughter-in law but they don’t spend much time with her. Since I am 3000 miles away from my mother who is living alone right now with my father in a nursing home, I feel that if I help someone close by I know there are many people on my mom’s street looking after her. My father does get to visit for several hours each weekend but he no longer recognizes our house as a place he belongs at any longer. It is so sad seeing my parents age but it has taught me valuable lessons about how to live now and how to treat everyone around me. My Random Act of Kindness is not huge, we are already fixing a meal for ourselves, but we don’t only deliver the meal (my husband, my daughter or I make sure we take on any small jobs needed to be done around the house and we just sit and talk awhile about the various places this woman has visited in her life. Amazing person we are helping. I know this shows my daughter how I’d like to be treated when I’m in my 90s (heaven help I can live that long and finish all the socks I’ve started).
Suellen said,
December 6, 2008 @ 8:22 am
My sister has found herself in an awful situation with a man she thought loved her. He lied and used her credit without her knowledge. When she found out she kicked him to the curb (Thank God!) and launched an investigation to prove what he did and get restitution. His response now is to sue her for a ridiculous amount of money. She has engaged a lawyer, and he will not win if our family has anything to do with it, but in the meantime she is beat down. She received the notice on Monday. Besides the fact that she is now paying for things he bought under her name (e.g. a car!!!!), she will have legal fees. Monday afternoon I went to the bank and got a cashier’s check and mailed it to her. She used that money to pay the initial retainer to the lawyer. We will all be helping her financially, and emotionally as well. I feel like a mother cub right now, and I am so outraged. But we are resolved, he will not win. We will fight and we will pray. I suspect my acts of kindness will center around my sister this holiday season. She’s not good at asking for help, so we will have to help her before she asks!
nancy said,
December 6, 2008 @ 8:23 am
I haven’t really done anything that I would consider special this week that i can think of. I will try harder next week.
Sandy H. said,
December 6, 2008 @ 8:37 am
I am going to repeat what I did last year for my grandson’s nursery school class. Since many of the mothers work and have little time I volunteered to do all of the baking for the holiday party for his class and will again dress up as Mrs. Claus to come to the party and visit with the children. Last year our little guy did not know it was his Mimi who was visiting so I wonder if he will know this time.
Brooke said,
December 6, 2008 @ 8:53 am
I don’t have a specific RAK to post today, but wanted to share a tradition my family has kept for years. My parents have always anonymously given money to a person in need every christmas since I was young. When my brother and I were teenagers, they started giving us each a 50$ bill in our stockings so we could do the same. It’s been fun over the years to find secret ways to give those 50$ bills away to who ever God puts in our path that seem in need. My husband, who is now part of the tradition, gave his 50$ this year to the woman who cleans his office. She sends money home to her family in South America and was going to visit them for the holidays. Anyway, just thought I’d share this great idea for a christmas family tradition that really gets at the true spirit of christmas.
liz said,
December 6, 2008 @ 8:56 am
Instead of buying each other small Christmas presents, a few years ago a group of friends decided that we’d sponsor a family. I bought my toys yesterday! It’s fun to buy things off of someone’s wish list.
Amanda B said,
December 6, 2008 @ 9:03 am
This weeks RAK was buying gifts for a child in need via the local giving tree.
Gina said,
December 6, 2008 @ 9:36 am
While not as big as some of the RAK’s noted above, the next door neighbor has the flu and her DH is out of town for work, I volunteered to come over an supervise the homework, and given that it was 3rd grade math and it has been a long time since 3rd grade for me, it truly was a RAK!
Kristie Hammond said,
December 6, 2008 @ 10:33 am
Well, I am not sure this counts as a random act of kindness….
My 24 year old son has been home for a week. I had asked him to hang our Christmas lights. Bless his heart, he went out sick with a bad cold in the midst of a snowstorm (never mind I had suggetsed he do this long before he got sick and while the weather was still nice, but he procrastinated). When I went outside to admire the display I was horrified to see he had strung them all wrong. They were spaced so at the front of our house, dangling down in all their glory, were the huge, ugly, bright orange extension cords. They have, sadly, become the featured item of the Christmas lights due to their ugliness and extreme visibility.
My random act of kindness? I chose to not say a word to him about it.
sandy said,
December 6, 2008 @ 10:48 am
While shoping this weeks I gave each of my kids a handful of coins. We all spent the rest of the day putting those coins in every Red Kettle we could find. They both know where the money goes to help people. and love doing it.This year we don’t have much to give, so I gave them my yarn money
Christina said,
December 6, 2008 @ 11:05 am
A coworkers house burnt down and they were uninsured. When I heard about it I thought about what I had that they could possibly use. I had a microwave in storage that we were no longer using since our house now has a built in. I brought that and couple of large bags filled with clothes that he and his wife could hopefully use into work and he was very grateful. Having lost everything in Katrina ourselves a few years ago without having renters insurance I know that every little bit helps.
Elise said,
December 6, 2008 @ 11:10 am
I have been racking my brain trying to think of a RAK and all I can come up with from this week is that I held a few doors open for people. A couple of weeks ago there was one day when I kept running after people who had dropped things. Clearly I need to get into the holiday spirit and try to do a few nice things next week.
Geraldine Scott said,
December 6, 2008 @ 11:22 am
I also donated blood this week. I love the idea of knitting baby booties and giving them out randomly!
Kirsty said,
December 6, 2008 @ 11:55 am
This week, I bought a coffee for the person behind me in line. No a huge thing, but it make them smile!
Dorothy said,
December 6, 2008 @ 2:59 pm
Well this is not what I did but what some one did for me. I had to have MOHS surgery to remove a cancer on my face . It was done in a town about 2hours away and on a different time zone. I had to be there at 8am but that was actually 7am here. My friend picked me up at 4:30 am and spent the whole day at the hospital with me and drove me home. She knew i was extra nervous and she just made me feel so much better being there!!!
Doreen said,
December 6, 2008 @ 3:13 pm
I bought 4 prepaid phone cards to donate to hospitalized soldiers. A group at my church sends them to the hospital chaplain and he makes sure everyone gets to call home over the holidays. It’s not a big deal, especially compared to what they have done but I still felt better for having done it.
Meghann said,
December 6, 2008 @ 3:54 pm
This isn’t really random, but a close friend of mine found out last week that their two-year old daughter has leukemia. They are going to be in the hospital for at least a month and have no time for anything extra. I bought some Christmas presents for their children and shipped them off yesterday….hoping to lighten the load for them.
Maria said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:11 pm
I was thinking I had nothing and was feeling rather ashamed of myself. Then I remembered a couple of things. I’m going to try harder as I think it’s important to be the kind of person you want others to be.
Anyway, some of our local grocery stores have coupons you can ask to be scanned which will add certain amounts to your grocery bill and these go to the local foodbank as cash donations.
We are really feeling the pinch ourselves, we already live very frugally, but I just looked at those coupons and thought “I’m not going to miss a couple of dollars here and there.” So I donated, and I”m going to start doing it on a regular basis. I used to do it, but then got out of the habit when I moved overseas for a few years.
Also, in todays paper there was a really unpleasant letter to the editor in response to a story about this same foodbank’s service of providing a kind of “restaurant” where homeless people can get a hot meal. One person discussed in the article was a woman who had been homeless herself in the past, and was working at the foodbank in order to give something back to the community now that she was able.
This letter writer was criticizing the article and said instead of stories like this that instead of focusing on the “weak and lazy” there should be more focus on “decent and hardworking” people.
I suppose it wasn’t really random, but in response to that I significantly increased my donation to today’s “cans for carriers” food drive done by the post office.
Vanessa said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:29 pm
I like the idea of doing one every day, so I need to try harder to look for those opportunities. For this week, my most significant one was joint with my mom and sister. We baked Christmas cookies yesterday, and made an extra dozen or more of all nine kinds to give to a family where the husband/father is struggling with life-threatening health issues (failed stem cell transplant to treat multiple myeloma). The mom has baked with us in the past, and the kids had asked when the event would be happening this year. She had just told them that there wouldn’t be any cookies this year- and then we showed up!
Lacey said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:33 pm
This week I did a number of things. I pulled in buggies for a store on a really rainy, cold night as I walked into the store. And I gave out knit scarves to all the ladies in my office because they always like mine so much. Then I gave all of the guys homemade Christmas cookies (made with Splenda/Sugar blend because one of my guys is diabetic). And on Thursday, we had a Christmas party for my job and at the door we were given free breakfast passes for McDonald’s. One of the ladies in my office was late and didn’t get one, so I gave her mine.
I feel very Chirstmas spirity this week.
Leigh Ann said,
December 6, 2008 @ 4:48 pm
Well, you’re right, this does feel a little weird, but I’ll try it anyway.
I work at a college, and I’m usually the contact for my building and the guys who do all the custodial/building & grounds type stuff. The other morning, one of the facilities guys (I think he does painting) came by asking if I knew how to get one of the big scary student copiers to collate. Now, I usually use the staff copier, so I’m not really that familiar with how the big copiers work. I figured I might be able to figure it out, though, so I walked over there with him. I took a look at the thing, he gave me his copier card (which deducts money off of it per copy), and I was like “you know what? Forget this. Let’s just use the staff copier and make sure we get this right.” Then he was all nervous, because it was something like forty copies, but I assured him that I didn’t care, brought him downstairs, and got all his stuff properly collated and whatnot. I wouldn’t have considered it a big deal, but he was all “thank you SO MUCH” afterwords, and almost looked like he might cry.
Edna said,
December 6, 2008 @ 6:16 pm
I always hold the door open for others when I am going into or leaving a store. I try to let people waiting to get into traffic out in front of me at random times as I always hope others will do the same for me. I am quick to offer a smile and hello to others, hoping it brightens their day in some small way. I am planning to make cookies to take to my co-workers next week as well, just because.
Marsha said,
December 6, 2008 @ 6:37 pm
I have given rides to and from church to a man who has no license and no car. I also gave a ride home from a meeting to a couple who has trouble walking any distance. I read this week that happiness is contagious so I try to smile at everyone and mostly they smile back!
Lisa Perreault said,
December 6, 2008 @ 7:07 pm
My RAK has to to with Ravelry. I was reading a post on Ravelry about sock yarn. This poor woman has only knit socks with itch department store yarns like Red Heart. I sent her a PM and got her addy so I can send her some nice sock yarn – she’s getting a skein of Lorna’s Laces Maple Grove so she can feel what good sock yarn is all about. The reason she hasn’t tried anything else is because of $$, she didn’t ask for anything or even hint, it was just my idea to help her. I then came to read the blog and saw this so I hope it counts.
Emmy said,
December 6, 2008 @ 7:09 pm
We have a family that has difficulty being a unity. To help this I suggested to buy each other Santa Claus (Sinterklaas) presents and thus celebrate a real family happening.
My daughter didn’t want to.
But on the afternoon of 6 December, I got inspired and bought one little present for each family member.
Whilst cooking dinner I started writing a poem for each person to accompany the gift. When my 14 year old girl got a hunch of what I was doing she got interested.
After dinner, after all the washing up had been done, I rang the doorbell and pretended to just have seen Santa Claus’ red gown flappering around the corner..every one laughed. When each person was reading his/her poem, I couldn’t tell who was beaming away more: my 49 year old husband or my 14 year old daughter..both had refused to celebrate..but my goodness, such a pleasure together, only with a pair of socks for everyone..the best Sinterklaas ever! Emmy
Susan said,
December 6, 2008 @ 7:21 pm
My husband and I live near a single father and his son, who don’t have very much money, due to the father being a disabled veteran. The father bought a wireless router, so his son could have internet access in their apartment. Neither of them knows too much about computers, while my husband is a programmer with extensive computer and networking knowledge. This evening, after we got home from visiting with my mother-in-law, my husband and I went over to the neighbors apartment and set up their wireless network for them. I really wanted them to have Internet access, since they are kind to everyone in our apartment community and we like them a lot.
Marion said,
December 6, 2008 @ 7:50 pm
Just a simple little RAK. I bought breakfast for the car behind me in line at McDonald’s.
Linda said,
December 6, 2008 @ 8:38 pm
I’ve spent the week letting drivers into the traffic, in front of me. I used to get upset when the driver didn’t say thank you but now I give myself TWO points if they don’t. Even my kids are shouting “That’s two points, Mum”, now.
juana said,
December 6, 2008 @ 9:41 pm
So many good deeds that one feels ashamed to report such a little thing…… A friend is going through a very a bad time with money problems. She told me that she did not feel like celebrating Christmas this year. I would share with her but her independence is too great. I decided to give her this wonderful little book “Purpose of Christmas” to cheer her up and thinking that reading it would generate positive feelings. She was thrilled and that made me happy for her.
meg said,
December 6, 2008 @ 9:50 pm
I always enjoy reading these!
I dropped off some homemade goodies to someone having a bad day at work. I had just done some baking and it happened to be the person’s favorite Christmas treat, Peppermint Fudge.
The other thing was saying Yes, when someone called to see if by chance, she could drop her two small boys over for three hours while she got highlights and a haircut. It was a wild three hours with two five year old boys and two climbing, active 1 year olds:)
Vicki said,
December 6, 2008 @ 9:57 pm
One of the things our university does every year is collect stuffed bears and toys that they give to local children. Our store donates a bear or 2 and this year my daughter and I did some shopping and added about 6 toys of our own. Just a little thing that we can do, makes us feel good!
Janet said,
December 6, 2008 @ 11:32 pm
This week I helped my nursing class organize a donation box for the Toy’s For Tot’s. It was a lot of fun, and together we were able to give the Toy’s For Tots so many gifts for children who would otherwise go without Christmas gifts.
Raine said,
December 7, 2008 @ 12:12 am
Here is some of the list for the last week. Called two different friends to see how they were doing. Bought “good” yarn for a friend who is getting back into knitting after not doing it for so long, I also included patterns. We have talked about all the fun my daughter and I have been having that she decided to try again. When we saw her and her family we gave refresher lessons to her and her daughter.. they are still working at it. =)My daughter and her homeschool group baked 27 dozen cookies for the Cookie Brigade, these will be sent the military. Mikhaila and I have also been making hats through our knitting group to send to the military as well. I made homemade Christmas cards that I plan to send with the next group of hats that get sent out, just to let them know they are appreciated and thought of!
Go out and Randomly Act Kind to someone… you will really enjoy it!
Dawne said,
December 7, 2008 @ 12:25 am
My RAK is not a big deal or overly unique but I think the recipient was blessed and thats what counts
I work at a school and one of the elemetary teachers is very much ‘with child’ due in just a couple of weeks. The staff are on a rotating schedule for playground duty outside and true to Canadian form it is darn cold up here. Earlier this week I arranged a new recess duty schedule by setting up so that other staff will take turns filling in and the expectant co-worker will not have to go outside on duty for the rest of the month. Good thing too because she can barely get a coat around her belly much less bend over to pull her boots on!
Shari said,
December 7, 2008 @ 6:18 am
It feels weird writing about the things I did this week but I so enjoy reading what others have done so here goes.
1. left large tips when buying coffee
2. donation to the salvation army
3. knit hat for charity
4. knit a doll outfit for an internet friends little girl. The little girl had lost her dolls hat and her mom asked if I would make her a new one and she would pay me. Of course I don’t want any payment!
sherry said,
December 7, 2008 @ 8:18 am
BTW, have you ever used Creme Fresh??
As I have seen meanness, especially on the road.
Oh, i can eat that stuff right out of the container!!
that sandwich, well, todays lunch!!
Anyway, my RAOK, which this may sound strange, but this time of year and all.
I was leaving the malll to go to my car. Since I had gotten there earlier in the day, not crazy early, but enough to get a half desent parking spot, as I was walking ot the car, a nice lady w/baby, asked me if I was parked in that row, I said no, one over. She looked disappointed, but I said one over. She didn’t expect to get my space, but I waited until she had turned this lane and was coming, and I waved her and let her know that I was at the spot, so she was able to get that spot. So she didn’t have that fat to lug her baby. I felt i did a good dead
HOpe your reaping benefits of people staying at home and knitting!!!
As I plan to do today.
sherry
Sheryl said,
December 7, 2008 @ 8:27 am
I took my daughter to ballet on Friday and one of the other moms asked it I would go to the little restaurant next door to get some dinner as she had not had time to get lunch. She told me that her husband had been laid off from his construction job and that they don’t expect a recall for 4-5 months. although we’re trying to save money to build up an emergency fund, I paid for dinner–hey, my husband and I have jobs still!
Lynette said,
December 7, 2008 @ 9:56 am
Yesterday my daughter and I were shopping @ Barnes & Noble and we purchased a book for a book drive. The best part of this little shin dig is that my daughter picked out her favorite book The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants instead of a cheap $1 book. I think sometimes when we give we just give a little so it was nice to see that my daughter really thought about what she would want as a kid.
Lynette and Taryn
Newport RI
Bonnie said,
December 7, 2008 @ 11:50 am
I had 7 college students over for dinner this week. But I think it was a much a blessing for me as for them; it was so much fun!
karen (morsecode on ravelry) said,
December 7, 2008 @ 12:25 pm
Reading this thread is making me feel all warm and fuzzy inside (and occasionally making me a bit teary-eyed).
A lady at work collects toiletries for a local shelter and drops them off around this time every year. I sent her a big box (she works in a different building) of toiletries as well as some gift items (apparently they are starting something new this year – having a “shop” where people in the shelter can pick out gifts for their family members).
MaryEllen said,
December 7, 2008 @ 1:09 pm
As I do every year, I bought some gifts for my church’s Christmas “giving tree”. And I’ve been trying to let people in front of me in line at the grocery store or when holiday shopping, since I am usually not in that much of a hurry.
Tracy said,
December 7, 2008 @ 1:29 pm
I guess I have two for the last week – I bought books for a local elementary school supported by the Barnes & Noble I go to. Every year they pick a different school in need and try to collect enough new book for every child to have at least two (Besides the 3 I got, I also ordered a copy of Tales of Beedle the Bard that will be another to donate). And…I bought a Costco membership for a co-worker. She and her husband have lost their home (victims of the mortgage crisis) and they are stretching every penny as they try to recovery. I took her grocery shopping a few times over the fall and summer and have ultimately decided she would probably feel more independent doing some of that on her own, but coming up with that darn $50 to JOIN costco was a huge stickler so I got that for her last week. While there’s always the old joke that you can spend $100 at Costco and go home wondering what to eat for dinner, she and I have found that hitting just the fresh produce, bakery, soups, and meat sections can make your food dollar go a LONG way.
katie said,
December 7, 2008 @ 1:37 pm
In the UK we had the worse snow we’ve had for about 10 years, even that wasn’t as bad as what some you guys in the US get on a regular basis! But anyway, after clearing our own drive, we cleared that of our next door neighbour who has mobility problems.
Also this week our UK VAT (value added tax) rate changed, which has caused a mountain of problems, reprogramming tills etc. I work for a concert season and our box office staff are always understaffed and overworked and generally get a raw deal. They have to reprogramme the computerised box office system with the new ticket prices. As I’m quite handy with Excel I created a spreadsheet for the to help work out the new prices, hopefully saved them a few minutes and stress.
Not much, but hopefully it helped.
LaLa said,
December 7, 2008 @ 1:44 pm
I have two random acts of kindness this week. I’ve begun taking time out of my day every day to walk down to our self-contained classroom and read Tale of Desperaux to the kids there or play games with them. It’s something that I hope to continue for the rest of my teaching career. I also taught a dying class yesterday and could see one of the shop regulars eying one of my sample yarns, so I gave it to her. Hope you and the elves are having an awesome week!
Kelli said,
December 7, 2008 @ 1:54 pm
There is a great shop close to my house called Baker’s Peak. I’ve successfully hooked a few of my friends on their lunches and baked goods. Every once in a while I take Kelli, Brittany, and Clint a little surprise. A peanut butter cookie for Clint, a snickerdoodle for Kelli, and a chocolate cupcake with white frosting for Brittany.
Last Thursday was the first day they were open since the Tuesday before Thanksgiving, so I took treats to my friends. It isn’t much, but it makes them happy, and me too.
Chris said,
December 7, 2008 @ 1:56 pm
I really enjoy reading theses posts-to me that is what Christmas and life is all about. I see many people overwhelmed at this time of year with the whole shopping frenzy and it is especially hard when not everyone can afford what we feel we ought to do And we all know that all families are not perfect and that leaves many feeling lost hurt and disappointed .I did some major stash busting ths week for some elderly knitters at my Dad’s home this week-they were thrilled! They knit mittens, hats etc for a childrens charity-I think it keeps them going-hey it keeps me going!!
Helen said,
December 7, 2008 @ 2:28 pm
Mine is actually similar to one I had last year. I was going home from work and noticed a young man escorting a blind woman to the L. It’s our city commuter train here in Chgo. He was only walking her to the station and then went on his way. This is a crazy confusing station so I asked if she needed help. I proceeded to help her up the stairs and over to reload her commuter card. I helped her get to the platform where we had to wait for at least 4 trains. I got her a seat when some women got up to offer their seats but I did not take the extra because for one I did not feel entitled to take it and secondly one of the women to offer her seat was a senior citizen.
Brynna said,
December 7, 2008 @ 2:38 pm
My big RAK for the week was to give up my Saturday this weekend — when I desperately needed knitting time!! — to drive 4.5 hours (each way) to help my mom out with some things, because she has a surgically-repaired broken wrist that means she can’t pick up or move or lift anything. She just published a cookbook, and had a book signing, my dad is trying to move their entire house by himself, so I went, picked up mom, took her to the signing, stayed the entire afternoon, did all the inscriptions into the book (she could, barely, manage to sign her name, but couldn’t write anything else), and then took her back home. I was out of the house about 14 hours with her yesterday, but she’s my mom and she needed the help.
Other than that, it’s been a busy week where I’ve had no time for doing much of anything, and I’m a little short on cash, but I did make sure to tip extra for my coffee the one time I got some, and I make it a point whenever I go anywhere to give everyone a smile and a friendly “hello” when they seem receptive. It’s not a lot, but it surprises me how much just a smile from a stranger can make the day better (as witnessed by the guy who I smiled at on the street on Friday, who stopped and told me that my smile made the day seem less gray to him, and thanked me for it. Such a simple thing, but sometimes, especially this time of year, it’s very beneficial too).
Margot said,
December 7, 2008 @ 4:13 pm
In the spirit of the holidays there are so many folks walking around looking glum. So, when I pass these people, I smile at them. Doesn’t sound like much, but usually they perk up and even smile back and say hello. Simple cheer, that is the spirit of the season.
Spiraling said,
December 7, 2008 @ 6:49 pm
I feel really weird writing about it, but there’a a gal over on our local Rav group who’s going through a tough time, her husband is very ill and she’s having trouble with one of her wee kids, so we’ve organised a gift bomb for her, where a bunch of us each make up a little package with something sweet, something to play with, something to warm her heart and post them along to her.
I really hope they make her day when she gets them.
keiva daniels said,
December 7, 2008 @ 7:59 pm
what i simply did for a random act
of kindness was give my moms
patient back her newspapper
Carol said,
December 7, 2008 @ 9:03 pm
I’m a rabbit judge and yesterday I judged a show. I gave the kids who were showing their rabbits holiday candies whether they won or lost!
Sue said,
December 7, 2008 @ 9:15 pm
RAK for the week was helping a colleague at work with a particularly tough problem she was having; I didn’t have to do much but the job went faster with the two of us.
Diane in Northern CA said,
December 7, 2008 @ 10:54 pm
While in line at a local grocery store Friday night, a gentleman with a strong accent (i.e., not from the US) was asking others for directions to the airport. I offered to provide him with driving directions, and helped him write them down. After loading my groceries into my car, I noticed that this gentleman getting into his rental car. Although it isn’t hard to get to the airport, there is 1 off-ramp that can be tricky. I pulled up next to his car, rolled down my window, and offered to drive in front of them to the airport exit. While it only took me a couple of miles out of my way, I felt better about ensuring that someone from out-of-town got to the airport.
Diane
Heather said,
December 7, 2008 @ 11:41 pm
While I was at Borders, buying some books for my nephews’ Christmast gifts, I bought and donated a book to the book drive that Borders is doing.
Megan said,
December 8, 2008 @ 12:37 am
My RAKs were to bring up my grandparents-in-laws newspaper up to the door when I was walking to work, and at a church craft fair, I left my change from a snack I bought as a donation. Also, at work, I prepared a mutual area for my co-worker, so everything was laid out for her and she wouldn’t have to find her things when she came in. I also helped some of my extended family with a crisis, but I don’t think that is very “random”.
Sabrina said,
December 8, 2008 @ 1:06 am
Gee my RAK are more than one, umm I am knitting dishcloths fr a friend, she asked for 3 and i managed to get 5 large ones done. I cleaned house for my lder gf son…his wife left him for good not only leaving him with thier twins ag 4 but two of her children as well (actually they dont want t be with her) He works full time s little time i left to keep the house clean. It was fun his eyse just lit up. I know there are more but i dont remember them right now.
Hey cool recipe, will have to try it some day. In Mother Earth News Dec issue there are some stir yeast bread recipes for artisan style bread. I made some with my little friend age 5 whom I babysit, and it is so easy even if you think you cant you have to try them out. The unbleached white flour one tastes like french or italian bread yum.
My yarn is in my yarn is in, now to be patient and wait until tomorrow to be able to put money on my visa. THen some more projects will get done yah.
I love December as an excuse to give gifts and bake alot.
loveya
Danielle R. said,
December 8, 2008 @ 1:20 am
My son and I made Taffy for our neighbor who is lonely after her son started college this year.
Diane said,
December 8, 2008 @ 6:39 am
I had a very large order at the grocery store last week and with only a few registers open and the lines growing, I let the the 2 people behind me with young children in tow go ahead of me…..both were very appreciative of not having to wait to purchase just a few things………
Denise said,
December 8, 2008 @ 8:35 am
Since last year, I have been doing the same RAK each and every time I go to the vending machine. I always use a dollar and leave the change in the machine for the next person to find.
I also work on a busy street and at 5:00 there is always a line of traffic. I make sure to let at least 3 cars go that are trying to cut across traffic.
Great ideas.
Katherine said,
December 8, 2008 @ 9:21 am
My RAK is a minor one … I tried really hard this weekend to help my mom out with the housework more than usual. I’m home for break, and she doesn’t get tons of help usually, and she’s currently under a lot of stress. So I did more than she asked me to and took out the garbage, etc. even though it was super cold out.
Also, I finished a scarf for a friend whose been wanting one for ages. I’m going to stick it in the mail to him (he lives on the west coast) to surprise him for Christmas.
Seeing everyone’s RAKs has given me lots of good ideas for this coming week!
Mary said,
December 8, 2008 @ 9:23 am
I donated to my son’s school’s food drive for our local rescue mission. Our local shelter has to serve about 850 meals a day, and my donation was for that cause.
Sharon said,
December 8, 2008 @ 9:25 am
All year I collect my loose change and at the end of the year turn it into “real” money and donate it to our local food bank. This week I also added the bills (money — not what I owe) from my wallet.
Sharon
Melissa said,
December 8, 2008 @ 11:30 am
This year my family and I are on a mission to domesticate however many they can from a feral cat colony that keeps dropping off kittens under my parent’s deck at home, and trap, spay/neuter and release the rest. So far we’ve gotten 11, 9 of which are still in the house and my mother is trying desperately to socialize the latest group of kittens which are 3 two-pound balls of fury so that they can be adoptable.
My RAK is calling our local vet and subsidizing the cost of all of this spaying and vaccinating because it’s getting pretty out of hand, and I really believe in what they are doing.
carol said,
December 8, 2008 @ 11:31 am
Hi there!
My RAOK is small but it is enclosed in the box I sent you…
meesh said,
December 8, 2008 @ 11:52 am
Okay, this may not qualify (for reasons which are made clear later), but I’m putting it in here anyway.
My office has a kitchen, which is not maintained by the cleaning staff (not their job). Someone(s) can be very sloppy with their use of the sink: Leaving dirty dishes there for days, leaving soup chunks in the strainer over the weekend, etc. Each week, I clean out the sink, not just for myself (who deserves a clean sink), but for all those who do NOT leave garbage to fester in the drain. This is my act of kindness for those who are behaving well. For the others who have anonymously caused the problem, I throw out all the crap in the sink. Including the dishes.
Maryann said,
December 8, 2008 @ 11:57 am
My husband and I are blessed with a fairly good healthcare plan and our copays are fair. My MD (also a good friend) has chosen to work for a community health care group and so I followed her there as her patient. I am meeting some of the kindest and most
caring people,staff and patients alike. I was in for my every three month check up
Hypertention with meds- and a man walked in wanting to see a doctor. He was a
patient,but was running a tab and I found out he couldnt see an MD unless he cleared
up his account. I heard the amt mentioned-it was large to him but so minimal to me..
and he looked lousy-so as he was leaving,I went up to the receptionist and told her I would pay,if she did not tell him.People have their pride.
She called after the man and told him there was a clerical error and to take a seat.
I paid and received the receipt so they could not charge him again and watched as they cleared his account.
Maybe I’ll do it again on another visit…
Carol said,
December 8, 2008 @ 1:12 pm
My step-father-in-law who has always made fun of my knitting and spending time to knit something that could be purchased cheaper at the store has cancer. I used some of my softest yarn in a color that he likes (versus the green which he hates) and knit him a chemo cap. He will be starting chemo in a week. This makes the 553rd chemo cap that I have knit.
Erin (not in Minnesota) in New York said,
December 8, 2008 @ 1:55 pm
I work at a comic book company and I usually carry a couple of comics around in my purse (especially comics suitable for kids) and last week I met up with an old family friend and pulled a couple of comics for his 10-year-old son (featuring his favorite charactres). I just got a lovely thank you note in my email and it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy.
Mary said,
December 8, 2008 @ 1:59 pm
This could be thought of as a Random Act of Kindness, but for me, it was more like a Random Act of DoingTheRightBecauseIHaveTheMeans. Yesterday, whilst I was at the grocery store, a woman in front of me watched with obvious concern about how high her total was. She was taking things off the counter that she couldn’t afford…not luxuries, certainly, but necessary things. As she got to a certain amount, she asked the cashier to stop scanning what was left. I interrupted, asked the cashier to ring in everything and scanned in my credit card to pay for her groceries. The woman protested, but I insisted and paid for the woman’s groceries. She gave me the tighest hug I’ve had in a LONG while. The RAK was her making me feel like I made a difference in her family’s life.
Cathy said,
December 8, 2008 @ 2:50 pm
I don’t know if this counts or not, but just thought I’d share. On Saturday, I was at the gas station and someone was trying over and over again to start their car and it would not start. I felt bad for them because it was so cold and windy and I couldn’t imagine being stuck somewhere that day.
I was sitting in my car about to leave and thinking “I wish there was something I could do to help them”, but I didn’t know what I could do. So, I decided to just stop and say a quick prayer “God, please let their car start” and, I’m not kidding, the next time they tried to start their car, it started. It kind of gave me chills, but I just said “Thank you, God!” and drove away. I’m not an overly religious person, but I have faith and prayer really does work sometimes!!
I hope to have a better RAK next week!
Vonda O said,
December 8, 2008 @ 4:07 pm
Normally I wouldn’t say anything but for a chance to win wollmeise yarn, I’ll spill the beans. I shoveled my neighbor’s sidewalk this morning.
Janelle said,
December 8, 2008 @ 4:30 pm
I bought some kitchen supplies to donate to our local Campus Kitchen project – it will make it easier for them to make applesauce from next year’s gleaned apples from local orchards.
Gaylen said,
December 8, 2008 @ 4:41 pm
I don’t know if this counts, but I don’t sew and I made quilt blocks to donate to family who’s father died the Monday before Thanksgiving. A friend is trying to put quilts together for all 5 kids plus the mom. I also sent along a finished top that I had that I knew would never be more than a top in my house. g
RedfordPhyl said,
December 8, 2008 @ 5:11 pm
Not too late, I hope. Helped an online friend who was having problems downloading a winter screensaver for his computer. I downloaded it and put it into a compression form he could access, then emailed the file to him. Mac users tend to stick together.
Liz said,
December 8, 2008 @ 5:38 pm
I let someone go ahead of me in line for coffee so she wouldn’t miss her train. Not original, but she was very grateful!
Jen said,
December 8, 2008 @ 6:07 pm
My co-workers and i went and visited a children’s shelter which houses foster and troubled children in our county. They had some wishes that the kids wanted for Christmas and said we could take some of them. I took all of the wishes and helped organize and motivate people to donate to the cause of these chidren. So far we only need a few more gifts to fullfull all of the wishes. Feels good to know some children that might have not received a gift during the holidays will now have “that one gift they wanted”. In fact after work I need to find a Jonas Brothers & Britney Spears poster… anyone have any ideas where I can find them??
Anne Kaelber said,
December 8, 2008 @ 7:25 pm
There are so many things I do year round and don’t think of as RAKs….until I read this thread! *smile*
The most current RAK-ish gesture occurred on Ravelry’s Karma Yarn Swap group. A gal I didn’t know saw a pattern she loved but didn’t think she could knit herself. Someone suggested she could claim the pattern and have someone else knit it up for her. I was reading and thought the pattern looked fun…and I offered to knit it up for her. The pattern just arrived today and her yarn is coming soon. I had offered some of my stash of yarn, but she had one in mind. There’s no deadline and I’m swamped with Christmas knitting I’m behind on. In a perfect world, I’d get this out to her in time for her late-December birthday (ha!). But she’s so excited to have this knitted up for her. To me, it’s a small thing to do (and now that I’ve seen the pattern, *really* simple to knit!), but to her it’s a big deal.
I’m also knitting a square or two for a blanket being created by some other Karma Yarn group knitters/crocheters.
Is it just me, or are crafters genuinely generous all year round? Reading this thread is just proff of my theory! *smile*
Anne.
Rasa Chambers said,
December 8, 2008 @ 7:31 pm
My siblings and I do not exchange Christmas presents…and haven’t in a long time. My sister marked a scarf as a favorite on Ravelry, so I’ve knit it for her for Christmas. In addition, I have a friend who lost her mother several years ago and always thinks of her mom when she sees ladybugs. I found a present for her that involves ladybugs…I know she does not expect a present…but I had to get it for her when I saw it. Those are my RAKs so far. Some of the other RAKs have brought me to tears – hats off!
Monnie said,
December 8, 2008 @ 9:19 pm
My RAK is, perhaps, not quite so random… I knew my auntie had some Rain Checks that she’d gotten from Target for some certain wireless mouse that had sold out a few weeks ago. However, she wasn’t able to actually buy the mice, because the store near her place was always out of stock of them. In the end, she had to leave for the Philippines without them, and she was awfully sad because she’d meant to give them to her friends back home for Christmas.
Enter me, living in my auntie’s apartment this past month. Well, I found the Rain Checks on her desk after she left, and I figured, “Hey, I’ll get them for her.”
…one week, four Targets, arguments with half a dozen “new service personnel” who clearly didn’t have a clue what they were supposed to do with me, a good number of miles on my car, and the entire Audiobook of Twilight later, I finally have her mice! I haven’t gotten the chance to tell her yet, but I hope her friends really like them!
Amy said,
December 8, 2008 @ 10:24 pm
Probably too late for the contest, but I did give up my place in line this week for someone.
bookgrump said,
December 8, 2008 @ 11:55 pm
My boss gave me her credit card so that I could pay for her lunch and mine when I picked it up. I didn’t use her card. I used mine. She likely won’t figure it out for weeks!
Anniebananie said,
December 10, 2008 @ 12:45 pm
We have an angel tree at my kid’s school. My son reminded me this morning that the presents are due back to school, wrapped, on Friday. I was in a meeting with other mom’s this morning and reminded them of this. I told them that I was going to Target and to give me the items they needed. I would pick them up, wrap them, and bring them to school.
So, I now have a car full of presents that me and my son will wrap and return to school so the other mom’s didn’t have to make a trip into town for one or two things (we live out in the country).
Carol Urban said,
December 11, 2008 @ 4:02 pm
My RAK began last week and finished up this week. I took my bosses wife to the hospital for hand surgery last week and then took her back to her doctor’s appointments this week. I think I qualify for the above and beyond type of secretary.
It felt really good to be on the giving end this time. I had cancer this past year and am cured. It was great to not be the patient for once!
Rachel Peck said,
December 15, 2008 @ 1:46 pm
I sent packages from the Loopy Ewe to my co-moderators on ravelry to let them know how much I appreciate them. Boy were they surprised!
Sandi Seigel said,
December 18, 2008 @ 12:41 am
I was just relishing how great it feels to drive on my 4 new tires. Today I walked to the end of a freezing garage today to my car. I was already very late for an important medical appointment across town. I was really feeling the pressure to get in the car to warm up and to my destination. Then I noticed that the car parked next to mine had very low tires. I pressed on one tire with my thumb. It easily gave way to the pressure. I didn’t have a pen so I used my lip pencil (I know- how does that reinforce the stereotype!) to write a note about the tires to the driver and I placed under the windshield wiper of the car. I kept thinking that that they could have a very bad accident on the icy roads with low tire pressure. I didn’t think about it again until I read of such kind and compassionate RAKS in everyone’s entries.
Kathlene in Iowa said,
December 24, 2008 @ 4:32 pm
Sheri ~ How much jam do you use for the mustard/jam mixture? I don’t see it in the ingredients, but it IS referenced in the instructions.
Sheri at The Loopy Ewe » Cake and Kindness said,
December 11, 2009 @ 12:03 pm
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Lisa said,
December 11, 2009 @ 10:10 pm
My RAK this year is to bring my brother home for Christmas. He has been estranged from my mother for several years and with the help of his new girlfriend, we have convinced him to come to her house on Christmas morning. She’s been missing him a long time but just couldn’t bring herself to call him, thinking he wouldn’t be ready to talk to her. So I am bringing him to her on Christmas day as a surprise. It’s the first time that all of my siblings will be together with our mother on Christmas Day since before I left home for college (17 yrs now).