December 3, 2010
Red and Blue (and Your First RAK posts!)
I find myself wanting to incorporate a pretty robin’s egg blue into my holiday decorating this year. I see that Target has cooperated with this whim, by offering me several red/blue/white/lime green choices in decorations. I think I’ve become attached to it because of this blog (and the photo on that post, which has appeared in her blog before.) How cute is that? So whimsical. I might have spent a little time playing with this, this and this, while clicking around there.
Today I want to share my friend Nancy’s awesome guacamole recipe with you. I have a group of 12 friends who get together for a long weekend every year or two, and Nancy always has to make this for us. (And we usually stand around watching her so that we can start eating it as soon as it is done. That’s our contribution. I’m sure she’s grateful.)
5 ripe avocados
1 small sweet onion, chopped
2 tsp. chopped green chilies (canned is fine)
4 dashes Tabasco
3 Tbl. fresh salsa (or Tacante Sauce)
3 Tbl. mayo
3 Tbl. sour cream
1 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. pepper
lemon juice
Mix everything except the avocados and lemon juice. When you’re ready to serve this, mash the avocados and mix in the rest of the ingredients. Sprinkle lemon juice on top to prevent it from browning (just in case your friends don’t gobble it down as fast as we do). Serve with your favorite chips and veggies.
Today is our first reporting day for our Random Acts of Kindness month. Leave a comment and let us know what you found to do for someone else in the past couple of days. Something extra nice. Not the “I held the door open for the mom with 3 toddlers at the grocery store” kind of nice, because I think you probably do those types of things all the time. What did you do above and beyond your every day politeness? Share it with us! I’ll be using the random number generator to pick winners from all of your random acts comments.
Sheri stilldoingone-a-day.Althoughwe’rejust3daysin….












Bonnie H. said,
December 3, 2010 @ 9:50 am
Our afternoon reception-guy comes in late on Tuesdays and Thursdays. There is one particular secretary who is supposed to fill in until he gets there. Yesterday, I stopped her from gathering up her work to take to the front and told her that I would be happy to do it for her. She was thrilled. The way people customize their computers, it can be difficult to work at someone else’s desk.
Michelle said,
December 3, 2010 @ 9:57 am
FIrst of all THANK YOU for sharing the adorable link! I agree the blue adds a lot of happiness to the typical Christmas mix.
Had major surgery 2 weeks ago today and am still housebound so I must be honest I am the recipient of the most overwhelming and humbling acts of kindness! I’ve had meals delivered, flowers, balloons, p.j’s, a neck pillow, a body pillow, angel charms, messages of hope, the list goes on and on.
As I said I am not up and out yet so I am at a slight disadvantage but as my hubby returns containers and dishes I am including a big holiday Hershey’s Kiss!
Brigette said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:00 am
It was really cold here yesterday and I happened to be downtown. What I saw was a younger woman and her child walking the street with no coat, I jokingly ask where is your coat, she told me she didn’t have a coat. She told me she either had to pay the electric bill or buy herself a coat, she chose electricity. So I chose to clean out the pockets of my coat and gave her the coat off of my back. I left a $20 bill in the coat just in case she needed a little extra help. I slept a little easier knowing that someone who was cold is now warm inside and out.
Carol in Zion, IL said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:28 am
Your Guac looks sooo good. My RAK actually just recently completed … I have dedicated the time between Nov. 1 to Thanksgiving as my personal “Knit for the Needy” time. Everything that comes off my needles between this time is donated to needy families through Catholic Charities, etc. It feels so good to make hats, and mittens and know that they will truely be appreciated. So, this year I completed 4 hats and 4 sets of mittens in this short time! My goal next year is at least 5 of each!
Ruth said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:36 am
I write a newsletter for our local electric cooperative. They had another story in mind for the December issue but the woman I was to feature proved difficult to work with. So, I convinced them instead to allow me to write about our area’s food bank network. The newsletter goes out to 6,500 people, mostly local. However, it does get mailed to members all over the states and even in several other countries. I included information in the article about how to volunteer, how to give money to the food bank and how to volunteer with AmeriCorps (www.americorps.gov) because many of the food bank volunteers are AmeriCorps VISTA volunteers. The issue arrived in mailboxes yesterday. I’m pretty excited that by doing my normal job, I might be able to really make a difference to many, many families!!! The administrator of the food bank was very excited when he saw the article. He thinks it will really help. Woot!
Karla said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:40 am
Sheri,
You are so good to remind us to be more than kind to one another! It has been fun this week demonstrating RAKs. Taking a friendly reminder from some of last year’s comments, I have made a concerted effort to be more generous in my driving habits. My route to work includes a long patch of construction with lane closures that people frequently ignore. I have been allowing the cars in who don’t merge until the very last minute instead of yelling at them for their lack of attention to signs. I am also teaching my 4 year old to share her blessings. At the beginning of the week, we set aside a ziplock baggie of dollar bills and change that I carry in my purse for her. Every time we see a Salvation Army kettle, my daughter puts “her” money in to help others. She is already looking for the kettles as we run errands! Last for this week, I have loaned my favorite knitting needles to a coworker who cannot afford to buy any so that she can knit a special Christmas present for her daughter.
Heather said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:52 am
I did my yearly “adopt a family” for Christmas. One of my co-workers helped by donating to the cause, and my mother has volunteered to do some sewing to make a few warm pieces. This is always something we love doing because 1 – we know there’s a family out there who will be able to celebrate christmas a little easier with our help and 2 – It reminds us of the whole reason for the season, to treat others with love.
Kathy said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:52 am
on the teeming rainy dark Wednesday, when we had high winds and hoped for no power outtages, I gave my mail carrier a cup of hot cocoa. I didnt have a disposable paper or cardboard cup so I made it in a regular mug and carried it out under my umbrella for her to drink in her truck. She was so surprised, said she planned to get some hot soup when her route was done but this would get her thru. My reward was a handful of exciting bills from companies eager to take $ from me, wonder if they’d go for a RAK instead?
Lisha said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:56 am
A couple days ago when we had a (very) slow day in the office, my coworker and I debated whether to even come into work or not. It would have been a complete waste of our time but at the same time we didn’t want to leave the office completely empty. I told my coworker to stay home that day and I came in. I knew she wanted to enjoy the day with her boyfriend. My boyfriend was working that day anyway so I figured her enjoyment of a day off was probably greater than mine.
Kim said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:20 am
I reached out to a classmate yesterday, who the day before had let our clinical group know that she was really struggling this term. We’re in an intense nursing program and it’s hard for all of us at different times. I just spent a few minutes listening to her and letting her know how normal it is to feel like it’s this hard sometimes. It felt like a small thing for me to do, but I remember how good it felt when someone did the same for me earlier on.
Susan Ipavec said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:31 am
My mother’s workload at work has increased during the holidays and all week I made dinner for her, my sister, my son, and myself. It’s something that made the week a little less stressful for her.
TeresaNC said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:35 am
First, I want to say to Brigette that you are an inspiration. Giving the coat of your back is a beautiful RAK that will make a huge difference in that woman’s life.
My RAK is very minimal in comparison, but it brought a smile and happiness to my nail tech. I was rushing to my appointment and felt a great pull to stop at the coffee shop. So I stopped and bought her a large chai latte. I had no idea whether she would like this drink or not, but when I got to her, she was thrilled. She said she’d had a rough day and was just down and her favorite drink from the coffee shop was the chai latte! It brightened her day and thrilled my heart.
MicheleinMaine said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:44 am
A co-worker had quadruple bypass a few weeks ago and can’t drive yet. I drove him to his first rehab appointment this morning (I had to go in for my own shoulder PT), stopped at the drugstore so he could pick something up, and drove him home. I made my appointment for next week to coincide with his so I could do it again. We haven’t always seen eye to eye (shall we say), so this was a good opportunity outside of work to talk about non-work stuff and help him out a little.
Lisa said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:56 am
I made a donation to the Veterans Outreach Center who helps all veterans of the armed forces as well as their immediate families. It was the least I could do for all they do for us!
Earlier in the week, I let my neighbor borrow my car while hers is in the shop.
Jan said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:08 pm
Well, I didn’t do much, just picked up something someone had dropped. It was close to me, so I picked it up.
Jenn C. said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:10 pm
Mine was a yarn gifting, and minor compared to some others… Someone on one of my boards needed just a little extra of a color and didn’t want to buy a whole skein. I had about 1/3 of a skein left, and sent it off to her and insisted that the only payment I wanted was that she do the same thing the next time she say a need she could fill for someone.
Tiny, but I’m just warming up.
Gina said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:13 pm
passed an 8 dollar off coupon to the couple behind me in line..they were obviously christmas shopping for grandchildren. they were thrilled.
diane said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:13 pm
I have gathered several hats, scarves, and gloves to deliver to the Senior Citizen’s annual hat and mitten tree this evening. They will be distributed to seniors who need a little something extra to keep them warm this winter.
Faith said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:21 pm
This RAK is a joint one between my husband and myself. He took time off of work to watch our daughter so I could go with a friend and her 4 month old to a pediatric cardiology appointment. Friend’s husband was out of town and they had just been told the baby might have a heart problem. I did not want her to go alone as she was planning on. In the end, it was good news and we celebrated with chocolate souffles on the way home : )
Megan said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:32 pm
I always buy 2 coats for DD every year for winter. One for regular use and one for playing in the snow. I’ve put off buying her snow coat because we still have no snow. But I bought one this morning. For some reason I felt the need to get it today, even with no snow on the ground yet. I stopped at the grocery store on the way home and saw a girl about DD’s age in just a sweatshirt. I asked her where her coat was, it’s way too cold to be outside with just a sweatshirt. And she said she didn’t have one. I went to my van and got the coat I just bought for DD and gave it to the girl. She smiled so big and put it on right away.
Her mom didn’t say anything the whole time just was in awe. I felt bad when she started to cry. She said she has been trying to afford coats for her kids but wasn’t able to buy the youngest a coat yet. The mom tried to give me something for it but I told her to enjoy the holidays and walked away. Money is a bit tight for us this year but there is no reason a little girl should go without a coat, while my daughter has an extra in the closet waiting for snow.
Evelyn said,
December 3, 2010 @ 12:49 pm
I heard a podcaster mention that she wished she had a knitting machine and that maybe someday she could afford one. My knitting machine has not been used for many years so I gave it and the stand to her. She is in another state but it just worked out that someone was close by that was going to see her and could deliver it for me. I feel really good that it went to someone that will really appreciate it.
CyndyC said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:00 pm
I am working on two “college baskets”for our townships holiday drive. One of the students only asked for school supplies!
Patty L. said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:03 pm
This week…I helped at an area school ..helping the children shop at their Snowflake Shoppe…tons of fun!!
Barb in MA said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:04 pm
My quick story is not exactly a “random” act of kindness, but through a very small group of friends (three to be exact including myself), we found one of our dear friends who had been missing from the doll boards and e-mails for over a week. Serious sleuthing too. she is a senior who lives by herself in MO, and had disappeared. I was hoping that maybe her disappearance was that she was at a relatives for Thanksgiving, but, she had been rushed to the hospital, and is now in rehab and I was sent her phone number last night. I’m not a phone person, but I did call and as happy as she was to hear from me, I was more than thrilled to hear her voice (the first time, I’m an e-mail only senior), make sure she that her two loved dogs were safe, and that she would be going home asap. Now I need to knit her up a little something for her get well, and get back to your home present and keep calling her.
Chris said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:11 pm
I delivered coffe and doughnuts to the Pharmacy staff who prepares my dad’s blister packs. They are always so nice ad helpful. They sdeal with alot of cranky people that is for sure
Deborah VonBrutt said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:18 pm
I drove by my coworkers home (she usually walks) to see if she needs a ride to work. Now that it is winter even a short walk can seem very long.
Heather said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:20 pm
A dear friend of mine recently decided to learn how to knit so I have been teaching her over the past few weeks. She told me that her family budget is a bit too tight to purchase any yarn for new projects once her current scarf is complete. While I also can’t afford new yarn right now, I could certainly afford to part with some stash and so I gave her several skeins in colors I know she loves. It’s good to know they went to someone who will appreciate it.
ChristyH said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:28 pm
Our boys play with a neighbor boy who seems to not have a hat or gloves. He always borrows ours, so we bought him a hat and some gloves today. Actually my boys did.
Mary Beth said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:38 pm
I sent in a bag of the fancy gourmet coffee to my son’s 1st grade teacher. She has a big, important job!
Rachel said,
December 3, 2010 @ 1:56 pm
I work retail, so this time of year is especially busy – any time off is precious and hard to come by, as you might imagine! My coworker got the chance to go out of town two weekends before Christmas to see her favorite football team play in their stadium – so I’m working her weekend shifts and sacrificing my days off.
Beth said,
December 3, 2010 @ 2:20 pm
I gave a hand knit hat to my favorite vendor of the local homeless newspaper. He has been wearing an acrylic job that never looked very warm.
Kate said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:15 pm
I know it’s not much but I was at the gas station earlier this week and a gentleman approached me and asked for some change – any loose change I could spare to help get him a few gallons a of gas to make it back home – I said all I had was a few coins and he was more than grateful he said all he lacked was 60cents from getting 2 gallons of gas and actually offered to only take 60 cents of the 75 I was offering – after he said that I told him to give the change to one of the people on the corner (it’s the area where a lot of homeless travel) and to pull his car behin mine and I would fill it up so he wouldn’t have to worry about it.
Sara said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:27 pm
I’m hoping that no one notices my RAK! There are a substantial number of dogs in the neighborhood that I live in, and not everyone is diligent about picking up after their pups. So, every time I walk my dog, I’ve been on the hunt for additional poops to scoop. I’ve been picking up one or two a day. It’s not much, but I know firsthand how much it can ruin a day if you step in it.
Jenna said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:33 pm
I cooked an extra turkey pot pie to take over to a friend who is gutting her kitchen.
marina said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:44 pm
i made a donation to a college FA fund.
i just want to say that when i read all the above entries, i was super impressed with everybody’s kindness. its good to know there are people out there so nice. have a great day!
Lynn said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:44 pm
I was given a gift card to Starbucks for doing an extra project at work. About an hour later I was talking to the admin who happened to say that her daughter loved the hot chocolate there but it was a special treat and they didn’t go very often. I pulled the card out of my pocket and handed it to her.
Alicia said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:46 pm
It’s pretty small, but I took a name off of our Angel tree at work and bought a warm blanket, some clothes and a game for a 3 year old little boy that’s a refugee.
Nora Brown said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:53 pm
I’m sending off a skein of Wollmeise to a woman I met on Ravelry who has never had the opportunity to grab any when they come up for sale. She’s on a forum group with me and she’s the sweetest most encouraging person and so I’m just going to wrap a skein up (purchased from you a few days ago) and pop it in the mail to her as a “Secret Santa” gift.
jackie said,
December 3, 2010 @ 3:56 pm
I had a $5.00 off coupon at Target if you spend $50.00. It was about to expire and I had not spent the $50.00 so I searched the lines for someone that looked like they had spent that much. I saw a mother shopping with her mother with her calculator out totaling up what she spent on the toys she was getting saying she couldn’t go over $50.00. I gave her the coupon so she was able to get everything she had in her cart.
joyce said,
December 3, 2010 @ 4:22 pm
I’ve started knitting hats for kids on American Indian reservations. this is done through the Dept. of Indian affairs.
Sarah F. said,
December 3, 2010 @ 4:26 pm
Not sure if this is extra nice enough (you TLE people are VERY nice and set a high nice-ness standard!)… but today I brought over some homemade chicken noodle soup for my neighbors. Both of their kids are sick, the 11 yr old has the stomach flu and the 13 yr old has strep throat.
So now, what are the chances that the stomach flu kid will get strep throat and vice versa… mmm…. not good I’m thinking.
Adrienne said,
December 3, 2010 @ 4:35 pm
I gave and received today. At work, a co-worker brought in some donuts from a local shop. We do this occasionally for birthdays, but today it was for no reason at all. I gave an extra pack of Skittles that I accident-ed upon to a co-worker who seemed interested.
Makes us seem like gluttons, and makes me want to explore more altruistic RAKs.
Marsha said,
December 3, 2010 @ 4:46 pm
I am working on fleece scarves for our church and we donate them to the multicultural center here in Gunnison. As some of you may know, Gunnison, CO, can be the coldest place in the nation several times each winter, and some of the folks who live here just don’t have the warmest clothes.
Kim B. said,
December 3, 2010 @ 5:05 pm
A young woman I know is in vet school at Ohio State. She has very little family and struggles to make ends meet. There is no money for little. I packed up a box of goodies — Oreo cookies, peppermint patties, chocolate covered espresso beans, and a holiday gift box of the small flavors of Starbuck’s coffees. She received the box today which I had labeled “study aids.” They are on the term program and her final exams begin Monday! It really cheered her up…oh and so did the skein of Malabrigio that she found at the bottom of the box. She is a knitter and can’t wait to have some time to knit after finals.
Julie W. said,
December 3, 2010 @ 5:19 pm
My SO is in grad school, and one of his classmates is from Israel. So I baked a batch of pumpkin bread to give him a gift on the first day of Hanukkah. Small gesture, but he was very pleased.
JenL said,
December 3, 2010 @ 5:37 pm
I did a few small things this week just because. I went to my favorite bakery and picked up cake for the office and a croissant for a coworker who had wanted to try their chocolate one. Alas, she was out sick, so her croissant went to a different coworker. And today I took a coworker out to lunch. I called it a Hanukkah present.
Elle said,
December 3, 2010 @ 5:38 pm
I’m in awe at so many of these stories. I wish everybody was this way!
Also, Sheri, thanks for the RAK and the guac recipe – guac is a favorite food of mine.
The church I’m visiting this month while visiting family is having a gift drive – you take a bag that contains a foster child of a certain age and gender, and a few items s/he would like. My three-year-old and I took one and have been having a lot of fun finding things for our special friend. Even though the child won’t know who we are, I hope that it will make him happy, and I’m teaching my child about giving in the meantime.
Michelle said,
December 3, 2010 @ 6:05 pm
I just dropped off a box of yarn at the post office. I’m sending this surprise to my friend, who is picking up knitting agin, by getting her stash started for her. I cannot wait to hear how she reacts to this.
Christel said,
December 3, 2010 @ 6:11 pm
My coworker was recalled to active duty and is now in Kuwait. I knitted a helmet liner and filled a box with her favorite nuts, face cream and other goodies. She can’t buy those things reasonably over there. Today someone did something nice for me–my new coworker stopped on the way in a brought me Starbucks peppermint mocha latte. Hit the spot for a busy day!! It was a very sweet gesture as it has been a difficult couple of weeks of training. We actually made the best progress today!!
Thanks to everyone is goes above and beyond.
Mel said,
December 3, 2010 @ 6:23 pm
I recently emailed a friend via Facebook, and was shocked to receive a reply that she had cancer and was undergoing chemo (we are both right around 30). We became friends at the gym, and she is a triathlete, so the fact that cancer struck such a healthy person took me aback.
I jokingly said that I was grossed out by puke, but asked her if I could do anything that wasn’t puke-related, such as clean her house or go get groceries for her.
She emailed back and returned the joke, and mentioned she wanted me to teach her to knit.
She has a week off chemotherapy treatments next week, so I bought her EZ’s “Knitting Without Tears”, a skein of Malabrigo Twist (because she should have something nice to knit with), and a bamboo circular needle. I figured she has enough to deal with already, without having to venture out and buy knitting stuff. I actually bought two skeins of Malabrigo Twist, and am going to ask her which she would rather knit with – the other colorway will become a hat for her. It is very soft Merino, so I figure it won’t hurt her sensitive scalp.
I can’t wait to see my friend, and convert another one to the knitting fold.
Kathryn said,
December 3, 2010 @ 6:23 pm
I love when you do this! It Just makes my day reading all the comments from everyone else. It reminds me that there are a lot of good, kind-hearted people in the world! My RAK was to bring flowers to a colleague who has been going through a stressful time. I also shared my lunch with a student who forgot to bring his today.
Veronica K said,
December 3, 2010 @ 6:52 pm
I bought a bag of groceries from the grocer’s table of “bags of food for those in need”. You buy a bag of pre-chosen groceries in certain price ranges and put them in the barrel for collection. Anyway… I bought one of those for the barrel when I was getting my holiday baking supplies.
Lisa said,
December 3, 2010 @ 7:35 pm
I’m so glad to see your RAK’s again!
I’ve been asking for RAK’s the past few years as a remembrance of my mom, whose birthday was Nov. 24. I’ve heard some lovely and heartbreaking responses. This year, I was the recipient of one–I moved and the new place did not have a refrigerator. Someone contacted my new landlord, and had a new fridge delivered to me with a note inside that said Random Act of Kindness. I’m trying to pay this forward every way I can.
A little girl–the niece of a friend–has cancer. There are fundraisers being held, and her aunt is holding one with a plan to have the winner shave her head. I had already made a few chemo hats for Regan, and I made Regan and her aunt 2 matching sets of chemo hats, so that they will match on the 6th when Kate gets her head shaved!
This morning in the store, a high school aged girl with a cast on her leg sat waiting for someone. As I walked past, she commented that she loved my scarf, and asked if I had made it, because “no storebought scarf is ever that pretty!” I took my scarf off and gave it to her (hey, she has great taste, it was Noro Silk Garden!)
Jenn said,
December 3, 2010 @ 7:37 pm
Today I ordered a gift certificate anonymously for someone who posted on Ravelry about a specific yarn they’ve always wanted to try, that is being discontinued and they can’t afford to purchase…
Cathy-Cate said,
December 3, 2010 @ 7:39 pm
You’ll like this one, Sheri!
I had a box of some things ready to go to another Raveler for her new baby: a hat I’d knitted for the little one, a handknit sweater I’d made my daughter, a car seat cover, that sort of thing.
Just as I was ready to send it yesterday, I read that she had received some very disappointing news (not baby-related, don’t worry). She needed extra cheering up! She had just talked about a shawlette pattern she wanted to knit, but was debating whether she could afford the yarn for it, with Christmas coming up. I found that I had some lovely Spud & Chloe Fine in her favorite color, PINK, which I had bought for a specific pattern and then decided it was not quite the right pink for that pattern, so had carefully put away. It’s such lovely yarn, and seems perfect for a shawlette, and more than enough for what she was planning to knit. So, I popped in the yarn, taped the box closed and off it went.
Cathy-Cate said,
December 3, 2010 @ 7:50 pm
I forgot to say, of course the Spud & Chloe was from TLE, and apparently her yarn wishlist was from TLE too, though I don’t know what’s on it!
Jenny T said,
December 3, 2010 @ 7:53 pm
I helped my kids’ piano teacher make her first pair of socks by finding and e-mailing her detailed instructions for toe-up socks, and making yarn and needle size recommendations. She needed a portable project for a trip to China, and came back from her trip with a complete pair of socks!
Kim said,
December 3, 2010 @ 8:03 pm
I posted this Wednesday thinking we could start posting:
I actually did a RAK at my son’s school this morning. We have been running a Santa Shop for the students to shop for presents for their family and friends. We have a student that had been saving his pennies, dime and nickels for months to come shop as he loves the fact he’s not with his grandmother (his guardian) when he shops (it’s his only time). No matter how he shopped he was over spent. It broke my heart. I pulled him to the side and helped him with his purchases and gave him the amount that he needed to buy the special item for his grandmother. I was thanks with a huge hug and a grin from ear to ear. It warmed my heart that he was so happy.
Linda said,
December 3, 2010 @ 8:39 pm
Not anything particularly special … I had some sweatpants and sweatshirts that I wasn’t wearing often enough to keep so I took 2 bags over to church because we have a family who delivers them to a shelter for homeless teens. I had planned on donating them and with more snow predicted, I got them delivered.
nancy said,
December 3, 2010 @ 8:42 pm
RAK are something I do all year round. My mom always said that you don’t know when you entertain an angel. This year my daughter has a friend whose husband has been unemployed for several years. We did some shopping for her yesterday, gifts for her to put under the tree from Santa. I know when she finds out the tears will flow,but they will be good tears. Even as difficult as it is for them, she often donates time and money to others who she feels are more deserving tha she is.
Beth said,
December 3, 2010 @ 8:47 pm
One of my fellow teachers has suffered a major medical setback, and it has become necessary for her to consider retirement. The problem: she is 24 days short of being eligible. Our principal put out the call for us to consider donating some of our sick days to her account, and several of us did. To lessen someone else’s stress is a wonderful feeling!
Angie said,
December 3, 2010 @ 9:31 pm
My mother’s washer was on its last spin. I used the great savings on appliances at Home Depot and bought her a new washer and dryer. She is thrilled and I’m thrilled for her.
Karin said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:24 pm
I try to be a listing person for people who have it difficult.
Jen said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:25 pm
I taped notes to everyones doors in our gated town house couminity letting them know that they needed to pick up their mail at the local post office. Not really a big deal, but some people here dont speak english, and its harder for them to investigate things. I just wish my spanish was better.
Let me tell you, 58 flights of stairs is hard on the legs. I also made sure that the mail problem will be fixed, so that people will have their mail delivered again come Monday. I am not on the HOA board or anything, It just needed to be done, and if I wasent getting my mail, I would apperciate it if someone told me why. (I figured it out pretty quick, talking to a few of my neibours, I was the only one. No bills? talk about wishful thinking!
)
Linda said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:33 pm
My friend’s depression and anxiety has come back. She told me she hadn’t left her house for 7 days. I got her prescriptions from her, filled them at the pharmacy and bought 3 bags of food for her, all freezable or with long use-by dates on them. She shouldn’t have to shop until Christmas, when she is due to visit her family in another state.
Barbara-Kay said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:44 pm
I had DH go out to the car (hey, I was wearing shoes I hadn’t yet purchased) and bring my Loopy Ewe knitting bag into the shoe store. Three sales gals and one guy got a basic heads-up on knitting your own socks because they really wanted to know.
If you get some new customers from the Planet Shoes store in Cape Girardeau, I sent them.
Kathleen said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:46 pm
We have a giving tree at Church and I purchased a pair of pants and shirt for a gentlemen in need.
Janet B said,
December 3, 2010 @ 10:49 pm
I knit an unsolicited shawlette for a friend who is always cold. When she found out she offered to pay for the yarn. I told her to donate the money to our town’s Service Center (food pantry). Every one wins. I get to see her in my shawl. She stays warm. and the people who are having a hard time will have a little more.
Wendy Wadge said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:14 pm
My friend’s youngest daughter loves to knit, so I showed her how to make a hat, she rushed home and made one and now all her friends want one. She doesn’t have the money she needs to buy the yarn…………..so I gave her mine!
Emiko said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:23 pm
Not sure if this counts as a RAK, but I was at the pet store buying some pet food for my kitty. The store had signs that you could buy and donate food to the local animal shelter. I wanted to make sure the furry ones get to enjoy the holidays too, so bought a few extra.
Catherine said,
December 3, 2010 @ 11:39 pm
I stored my friend’s stuff in my garage for eight weeks while she was in the middle of moving and renovating. I can park in there now that the snow has come, so that was good timing!
Lynn said,
December 4, 2010 @ 8:52 am
Well……….. a local soup kitchen had an article in Sunday’s paper about the individuals that they serve. They said this population was rarely remembered, over the holidays. The request was for a sturdy backpack filled with warm gloves, socks,scarves, hats and underwear, toiletries, playing cards etc. I am excited and can’t wait till I have my sturdy backpack packed.
Lynn
Mary Jane said,
December 4, 2010 @ 10:37 am
Yesterday, I cleaned out my stash of odd balls of yarn and then took is all to the local elementary school for them to use in the art classes. The art teacher was so happy with it because the older classes are working on weaving-she said it was perfect timing!
Crystal said,
December 4, 2010 @ 11:48 am
I’ve gotten so busy with my own issues that I completely forgot about this. I’m trying to catch up on un-read blog posts and thankfully this was one of the first that i came across. I love you RAK weeks every year, it gets me thinking about what I can do for others instead of thinking only of myself.
I feel badly that I had to think really hard for a RAK this week. I came up with one, it’s small but I hope that it helped. I have a co-worker that is having a very difficult time with the changes and uncertainty that is going on in our work place, as it is in so many others. I took 30 minutes out of my day to just listen to her. I was swamped and had many other things to do but she needed to vent. I tried to reassure her as much as I could. It wasn’t much but I hope it made her feel a little less stressed out.
Kelli said,
December 4, 2010 @ 12:12 pm
I am donating the proceeds from my knitting pattern sales to a fellow knitblogger who is having a rough December. A link and a small mention would be greatly appreciated, so that I can help Kim. Thank you.
Nancy said,
December 4, 2010 @ 1:31 pm
My son came this week for a post Thanksgiving visit with his dog. She likes to run in the park on her walks and gets into mischief. Anyway, I treated her to a “beauty day” at the local Petco, and she loved it. I don’t get to see her very often, but I think I made a friend for life.
Rachel said,
December 4, 2010 @ 1:35 pm
My RAK was to send a birthday card to a friend of mine; he didn’t know it was coming, and still doesn’t! He’s been going through a rough time with his grandmother passing.
And I snuggled with my baby sister, does that count?
Someone has RAKed me recently, a shoutout to missyowhite on Ravelry and whoever my Yarn Fairy is! Thank you both!
woolstock said,
December 4, 2010 @ 2:30 pm
Random acts of kindness rocks………………………The woman who works across the hall from me is having a difficult year, her husband has cancer. Yesterday, I got a gift certificate at a restaurant that has car side service. All she has to do is phone in their dinner selection and drive up and take it home. Oh and I got out of my warm bed to clean 6 inches of snow off our daughter’s car really early this morning before she went to work.
Sarah said,
December 4, 2010 @ 3:08 pm
One of the ladies in my church just had surgery, so I took her and her husband dinner. (Good healthy dinner complete with vegetables, and home made fetuccini alfredo).
Jane said,
December 4, 2010 @ 3:29 pm
My best friends home burned and she lost everything this year. My husband and I had lots of extra furniture in storage that I thought I couldn’t part with. I found that I could part with it easily when someone really needed it. Our friends were able to rebuild and are now in their home and I find I love to go there and see my former things being used and loved.
Kathy Sue said,
December 4, 2010 @ 3:42 pm
A coworker of mine has been sad lately because his marriage fell apart. Then one day, he said “Great–now it gets cold. It fits my mood perfectly”. I felt so sad for him that I made him a really soft scarf. He always wants to feel the yarn of whatever I am working on, and loves the real soft stuff. Now, he tells me every time he wears the scarf, and how warm and soft it is, and how good he looks!
Theo said,
December 4, 2010 @ 3:45 pm
We live on a long unplowed road in rural Oregon. When it snows a lot (more than 3 feet!) like it has, the 5 people who live on the road hire a grader to come plow.. too much for any one small plow. One neighbor is unemployed and I have been paying their portion without telling them. I am not sure it counts because it makes ME SO HAPPY!!
Bev said,
December 4, 2010 @ 3:45 pm
Oh it isn’t much compared to some of these others. A fellow knitter on Ravelry who is part of Sock Knitter’s Anonymous just had a bad car accident and I sent her a get well card.
Kata said,
December 4, 2010 @ 4:15 pm
I knit 3 helmet liners for my LYS who is collecting them for troops (not that I see that as a RAK, since I’d have done it anyway), and also paid for the next person in line when I got coffee the other day. Its not much, but it puts smiles on peoples faces
amy said,
December 4, 2010 @ 4:15 pm
Not much… I let someone in front of me in line this week.
sue said,
December 4, 2010 @ 4:15 pm
Mom and I were shopping at Kohl’s and couldn’t find anything to spend our $10 on, so we gave it to a young woman who was shopping with her two children. She didn’t have one and was genuinely pleased to receive $10 she could use to what she was accumulating her cart.
Josiane said,
December 4, 2010 @ 4:17 pm
Twice this week I’ve emailed people to let them know how big of a positive impact something they had done had had on me. I think it’s something we don’t do often enough, and that was made clear when I got answers to my emails saying that my words had made their day.
Kandice Force said,
December 4, 2010 @ 4:40 pm
I helped a little girl at the mall yesterday find her mommy. I felt horrible for her because she didnt speak english and I barely speak spanish. Well, turns out mom was in the same store but hidden behind a rack of clothes, she didnt even notice her daughter was missing!!! No ‘Thank you’ “Gracias’ or anything of the sort…oh well! Im just glad the little girl is safe (for now at least, with a mother that doesnt keep an eye on her own daughter how safe can she ever be?!?!).
Barb said,
December 4, 2010 @ 5:12 pm
I made potato latkes for Chanukah for an elderly member of our synagogue who mentioned that she is too old to make them any more. I brought them to her yesterday morning so she would have them for dinner on the third night of Chanukah. It felt good to help her out like that.
She seemed so happy when I brought them to her.
Jeannette said,
December 4, 2010 @ 5:31 pm
My RAK for the month is to try to repay all of the wonderful friends who recently helped me through a terrible time in my life. This week I’m taking dinner as a surprise to a friend (her hubby is in on it).
Robyn said,
December 4, 2010 @ 5:44 pm
For the holidays my synagogue adopts families in need and I purchased and donated clothes for some of the children.
TMTTYRR said,
December 4, 2010 @ 6:14 pm
So, a lady from my choir passed away on Thanksgiving, and I went to the funeral on Friday and sang in the funeral choir. Is that too planned, or does that count? She was a dear sweet lady, did needlepoint and loved dogs, and she will be sorely missed.
Michele (BlueMoonArtistry) said,
December 4, 2010 @ 6:26 pm
My hubby and I decided to visit the new local bakery run by a young couple who make incredible pastries. We had been hearing lots of good reports about their food and service. They were very busy (which is good), but it was obvious they had been working non-stop all day, baking and waiting on customers. Just around the corner, at another local establishment, a chili-cook-off was being held to gather toys for a local charity. My hubby and I decided to surprise the busy bakers (who have been spreading a LOT of cheer to the community with their scrumptious goodies) by getting a few bowls of the winning chili and delivering them to the harried bakers. Needless to say, they were surprised and thrilled by the kindness of two people they had just met as customers.
melistress said,
December 4, 2010 @ 6:33 pm
A couple of days ago my husband and I were coming home from a day of shopping along our highway. Just off the highway was a house on a hill with a winding driveway and two elderly folk who had driven off the driveway and into the ditch. We could see they were having trouble getting back out. She was trying to steer and he was trying to push. We aren’t people people and this isn’t something we would ever usually do but we turned the car around and drove back to see if we could help. They looked at us warily but allowed us to help push. I slipped and fell and skinned my knees while pushing but we got them out. It felt good to do it too!
Mary R said,
December 4, 2010 @ 7:03 pm
My not-so-random but still an act of kindness this week:
I got the name of a child from the local school program to “adopt” a child for Christmas. I then did all of the Santa shopping for this child. It was an 8 year old girl. What fun! I’ve only ever had a boy to shop for, so a girl made it double the fun. Head-to-toe dressing, including outerwear, underwear, socks and jammies, toys and books as well. Now I just have to wrap it all up and deliver it to the school for the parent to receive.
I only wish that I could be a fly on the wall on Christmas morning and watch her open all of her gifts.
A friend of mine “adopted” her 3 year old younger brother. She had just as much fun shopping as I did.
Isn’t that was Christmas is all about?
Beth said,
December 4, 2010 @ 7:09 pm
I saw a little girl on the sidewalk fall off her bicycle, so I turned around and went back to make sure she was okay and ask her mom if they needed any band-aids (I keep a first aid kit in my car). Also yesterday I bought a case of Cup O’ Noodles to keep in my car to hand out to those who stand at freeway exits with signs asking for help.
Jeanne said,
December 4, 2010 @ 7:43 pm
It seems that I know a tremendous number of people who are suffering from life-threatening illnesses this year. We live in an area that is mountainous, with snow. Most folks keep a nice supply of firewood on hand to help keep warm during power failures and extra cold days and nights. My not-so-random act is taking my 2 tweens out every weekend to stack firewood for these friends who are having health issues. They never want anything, but I’ll vacuum the house and wipe down the kitchen while my kids stack wood. We’ve done it every weekend since the 1st of October, and I still know more friends who need help. It’s a sad time for them, but I’m also teaching my kids to be aware of what they can do to help someone or brighten their day.
Tomorrow we’re going to a friends house to decorate a little and fix dinner. Her hubbo is having difficulties and she’s just old.
Conchita Newman said,
December 4, 2010 @ 8:53 pm
It’s a small gesture, but I passed a car the other day with an expired meter and put quarters in so they wouldn’t get a ticket. They’ll never know, but it felt good to do it!
Joann said,
December 4, 2010 @ 10:08 pm
Today I baked a loaf of bread for the family of the little girl who was over for a playdate with my daughter. Random small things that brighten everyone’s day – love it!
Lisa B. said,
December 4, 2010 @ 10:41 pm
A lot of times I find myself thinking about things people do that really aren’t a huge big deal, but in a way they are because they illuminate that person’s character in ways that I admire. This week, I decided that rather than just think those things, I was going to let people know how much I valued those things about them. I e-mailed two different people, one a pretty good friend and one someone I see only occasionally (my Mary Kay lady). I saw each of them this week, and afterward I was struck by these beautiful personality traits each has…one who values interactions with friends and finds creative ways to make that happen, and the other who shows incredible patience and focus on individuals when it would be easier to just rush. I let them each know how much I valued those aspects of who they are. I think we all could use that kind of encouragement.
Kate T said,
December 5, 2010 @ 12:17 am
I finished a prayer shawl for my best friend’s mother tonight right before I received the email that her mother decided to stop all treatment. Not sure that qualifies but I rarely knit for others (let alone finish anything) and wanted it to be a comfort to my friend and her family.
I was in the grocery store yesterday and felt so sorry for the bell ringer standing out in the cold. I bought a cup of hot chocolate and took it out for him after dropping something into the kettle. Think it is time to cast on for some quick, fingerless mitts for the next occasion that comes up…
valerie said,
December 5, 2010 @ 2:00 am
this is not particularly random, nor was it just me, but….
a coworker suddenly lost her partner of 13 years a few weeks ago. a bunch of us have banded together to give her a gift of a massage at a fancy massage place as she is reknowned for never doing things for herself. we all just hope she’s able to enjoy it.
GinkgoKnits said,
December 5, 2010 @ 4:44 am
My feet are tired from walking all over the mall looking for a couple gift items for charity — the recipients request certain items (useful things for the adults and toys for the kids) and the goal is to fill their requests. I’m glad to do it but my feet are not ready for the workout they’re about to get for the holidays.
Brianna said,
December 5, 2010 @ 7:02 pm
I was shopping today in a big department store, and I knocked a couple pairs of gloves off the rack. I promptly picked them up and hung them back up, and a store clerk came up to me and thanked me profusely for picking up the gloves. She said she’d been picking up things all day and was so thrilled that I’d given her a break. I felt so flattered- I guess it was an RAK for her too!
Alison said,
December 5, 2010 @ 9:11 pm
I donated to the food bank!
Lisa said,
December 6, 2010 @ 7:58 am
One of my colleagues was having a particularly bad day. She wasn’t complaining, but she had a very “I may take the bridge” look about her. I took a walk and found her a fresh brewed Bailey’s Latte and a handmade Buckeye (peanut butter surrounded by chocolate). It made her smile — my goal. When I got back to my office, I realized that could be considered a RAK. How convenient that it happened on a Friday!
LaLa said,
December 6, 2010 @ 9:10 am
Another teacher had to go home because her child was sick and we were over our sub limit, so I volunteered to keep her classes for the rest of the day.
Elise said,
December 6, 2010 @ 9:33 am
On Sunday I helped two guys on the subway train who thought they were going the wrong way. I showed them where we were and where the train was going. Not that big a deal, but they seemed confused. It wasn’t entirely random, but when I was home last weekend I tried to do a few nice things for friends and family. I made dinner one night for my parents and bought long underwear for a friend’s husband because it was on sale.
Doris said,
December 6, 2010 @ 12:16 pm
This weekend I raked the leaves for my elderly neighbor. He was planning to do it an hour a day for the next couple of weeks. I got it done in a couple of hours.
turtle said,
December 6, 2010 @ 12:35 pm
sorry, missed friday as we left town early. Aside from letting a few folks in front of me at the store when they has one item, we also assisted friends in transporting their 5th wheeler to some recreational property, setting it up…leveling, etc… At wally world i helped a wheelchair bound man with reaching items in a couple aisles he could not reach otherwise. Always love when you host this each year, reminds people to put others first….
Betty said,
December 6, 2010 @ 1:51 pm
My husband and I showel the walk and driveway for our elderly neighbours and the family next to them, when it snows. We do it very early in the morning so that when they get up, they really aren’t sure who did it but I think they have a good idea of who actually does it. lol.
duckgirlterri said,
December 6, 2010 @ 1:54 pm
Last week we got dumped with snow which meant putting on tire chain to get up the hill to our subdivision. DH had come down to help me put mine on, but another resident was struggling to get hers put on. While DH was fixing my chains, I walked over and helped her get hers put on.
Brenda said,
December 6, 2010 @ 2:20 pm
We are the recipients of a random act of kindness. Our daughter has autism and doesn’t do well in crowds. She really wanted to visit the mall Santa. The local mall made arrangements for Santa to be there at 8:00 am for families with children with special needs. No line, very quiet, no blaring music and hushed voices. We are so grateful.
Stephanie B said,
December 6, 2010 @ 2:23 pm
This isn’t so much my RAK, as one organized by a lady (R) in my knitting group. A friend of R just took in her two nephews, whose mother has been having drug issues. They don’t have a lot of money for childrens clothes or toys, and have been working their hardest just to provide food and a house. R organized for our knitting group to make scarves, hats, mittens, and stuffed toys for the family for Christmas, to be dropped off this week.
So while I participated in this RAK, it is really in Honor of R, (who would totally get the prize if won).
meesh said,
December 6, 2010 @ 2:27 pm
So many people are out shopping for the holidays, which is supposed to be fun. I let people driving have the right of way in front of me, whether they’re being rude or just patiently waiting for a break in traffic. They may not remember it very long, but hopefully, it will remove a source of stress for them, so everyone else they come in contact with will benefit, too.
Virginia said,
December 6, 2010 @ 3:07 pm
Today, I brought a tin of holiday goodies to my mechanic who has been working hard to repair my vehicle and I thought they could all use a treat. I too have been staying patient and letting people cut in lines – even traffic lines as it seems to cut the tension. Yesterday, I gave some of my coupons at Bed Bath Beyond to another customer so they could save some money … good luck everyone!
Andrea said,
December 6, 2010 @ 4:50 pm
Today was scenario testing for my nursing class. Basically they sequester us for two hours and three people at a time are taken out to do one of the skills we’ve been working on this semester. Everyone around me was terrified of messing up. So I took it upon myself to give some of them massages to help them relax. I think I did 5 or 6 before I was called into the lab but I hope it helped them to focus better.
Jenifer said,
December 6, 2010 @ 5:28 pm
My goal since the new start of the St. Jude’s giving campaign started was to try and shop in as many stores that have been sponsoring St. Jude’s Childrens hospital so that I can give a $1 or more with my purchases. To date I’ve given over $15 and will be mailing in a separate check to the hospital as well.
The reason I’m so passionate about St. Jude’s is because they saved a friend’s brother’s life when I was a child. He was diagnosed with Leukemia and the family couldn’t afford treatment but St. Jude’s make it possible for parents to get their children the treatments that they need to win their battle with illness.
Cindy in Happy Valley said,
December 6, 2010 @ 5:46 pm
Even though I’ve not yet bought ANY gifts for my family, on a whim I took an ornament off the giving tree at our church and bought the first of several gift wishes on it….a Steelers blanket….and I have more to buy, AND WRAP before the end of the week….
Robin F said,
December 6, 2010 @ 5:52 pm
This past weekend I hosted and cooked for 10 college students. The reason- to share the joy of chanukah, a jewish holiday, with kids who do not know what it is about. Brisket and latkes for all and two desserts. They learned to play dreidel and played the Jewish version of Apples to Apples. This annual event is limited to 10 because that’s all my house can hold. I would do more but my health doesn’t allow a more involved event.
cantsitstill said,
December 6, 2010 @ 6:17 pm
While sitting at a traffic light, I watched a bus turn in front of me and pull onto the highway. This was a private bus that goes from our North shore community to Logan airport in Boston and it was pretty full—and so was the luggag space along the outside of the bus. How could I tell the luggage area was full? TWO OF THE DOORS HAD BEEN LEFT OPEN!
I watched the bus go down the highway on-ramp, picking up speed. All I could think of was that some poor people were going to get to Logan airport without their luggage because it was going to be all over the road soon…and what if a falling piece of luggage caused an accident?
As soon as I got a green light, I carefully changed lanes and instead of taking my hungry kids home we drove to the bus depot which wasn’t too far away. Parking was tricky, but I found a spot and went in to find someone who could contact the bus driver. There wasn’t anyone at the service window, so I searched outside by a loading bus and found the ticket agent. I walked her to her desk, explaining that an awful lot of luggage could be exiting the bus rapidly if the bus took a corner the wrong way. She was very upset and began calling the driver immediately.
Then the kids and I retraced our steps and headed home to supper. It took us maybe 15 minutes out of our day, but I like to think we prevented a lot of misery in those 15 minutes.
NancyN said,
December 6, 2010 @ 6:55 pm
My random act of kindness was to offer to host my husband’s van pool Christmas get-together. As I was leaving the mall with a large box of wineglasses, I saw an elderly woman stumble and fall trying to open the door. If only I had been faster! But I was able to make sure that she was OK and go out into the parking lot to ask husband to come in to help her. That falls into the category of what any decent person would do. The van pool gathering, that is random, but it did put me in the way of being able to assist a fellow shopper.
Melissa said,
December 6, 2010 @ 6:59 pm
This isn’t really random but I forgave a bet that I won where the stakes were some very nice spinning fiber. During the season of giving, it seemed mean-spirited to take the fiber. I also paid someone’s expired parking meter so they wouldn’t get a ticket, and paid extra when I left my parking spot so the next person could enjoy some free parking.
Carrie said,
December 6, 2010 @ 7:26 pm
Just this evening I was at the grocery store and the lady ahead of me in line had a fussy/crying wee one and she was trying to juggle him, her groceries, and getting her wallet out to pay for them. I offered to help her by taking him from her while she got all checked out. I thought she would cry she was so thankful! And I got to hold a cute, 4 week old, snuggly baby! Win-win!
Nancy said,
December 6, 2010 @ 8:07 pm
My friend Cynthia’s 84 yr old mother fell 3 wks ago and broke her hip. Had to have surgery. She lives in south Florida and could no longer be alone so Cynthia brought her up here to north Florida where it is COLD (only 53 today with 22 predicted for tonight and windy). Mom is freezing and while Cynthia is knitting the Spiral Nebula for her it will take a few days so I sent over 2 of my own warm shawls for her to use until she has one of her own. Now I must hurry up and finish the edging on my Citron in the Spirit Trail Helen that I got this summer. Only a few more rows to go and I’ll be warm again! Maybe the cold will help to burn off some extra holiday calories!!
Tara said,
December 6, 2010 @ 9:59 pm
I work at a department store and this time of year things get crazy. Yesterday I brought in doughnuts for my department before our Sunday shift. It made the day a bit sweeter!
Karen in Toledo said,
December 6, 2010 @ 10:52 pm
I’m not working right now, so I went over and raked the rest of the leaves in my neighbor’s yard for her. She’s 85 and her kids all live out of town. The last leaf pick-up of the year came by the day after I did them, so she was delighted!
Mandy said,
December 6, 2010 @ 11:41 pm
My family is starting to reconnect after a lot of years of distance and no conversation. My sister is now a mother, raising her daughter alone, holding down multiple part time jobs and giving life her best. Things are hard and I wanted to make her holidays a bit brighter. I’m knitting hats for her and her daughter. Money is tight this year and rather than buy something I wanted to make something. I figure making a gift with my two hands would be a good way to help re-establish some bonds. So a little act of kindness that will help keep them both warm.
Suzanne R. said,
December 6, 2010 @ 11:55 pm
It’s a really small thing, but I took grocery coupons from the Sunday paper and put them on the grocery shelves, next to the products they’re for. Someone else will be able to use them, even if I can’t.
Dana said,
December 7, 2010 @ 10:23 am
I helped my elderly neighbor carry in her groceries and get them put away yesterday, so she wouldn’t have to be out in the cold for very long. She’s had some problems with chest colds turning into pneumonia in the past and I didn’t want her to get sick again.
Sherry said,
December 7, 2010 @ 11:46 am
The Mom of a person who I am working for just entered the hospital to begin a bone marrow transplant. I am trying to think of all I can do to help. I e-mail often just to say I am thinking of her & that I know how hard it is for her to see her Mom suffering. I’ve been extra adaptable about delivering my work to her. On Sunday, I bought her a mug from http://calendar.boston.com/newton-ma/events/show/152403705-1-000-mugs-for-south-africa-holiday-show-sale Which hopefully makes the kindness circle around even more.
Meanwhile, I had something happen to me last week that was not very kind. Sometimes, it’s hard to believe “what goes around, comes around”.
KathyD said,
December 7, 2010 @ 11:52 am
My ex is a really wonderful man-we just did not blend well as a couple. He married a nice woman who is always gracious and friendly to me and our children.
The kids are grown and their dad’s birthday is right before Christmas. I remind them-strongly-to call Dad and wish him a happy birthday. Every year.
The ex is not a big communicator, so these calls are probably the only ones he will exchange with his children in a year. He does not know I am behind the calls and I hope he never finds out.
grace said,
December 7, 2010 @ 11:53 am
There is a woman at the restaurant where I have breakfast who was relating to her friends that another person she knows had nothing for her grandchildren this year for Christmas, she had planned on knitting for them warm hats and mittens, and a blanket for the baby, but recently injutred her wrist in a fall. I have plenty of these already made so I packed up a bundle and gave it to Helen the next time I saw her and she delivered it to Mae. Mae was delighted and relieved. Have to help the Seniors—I will be there before I knew it (I threw in a shawl for Mae too)
Angela Brinkman said,
December 7, 2010 @ 12:33 pm
Last night, on my way to my new knitting group, I got to take a picture for a mom and her two boys against a silver Xmas tree in the mall. I had to get the one boy to show me how to work the phone taking the picture, but I did not too bad. I love doing that, taking pics for random strangers. Then I don’t feel so bad asking for someone to do it for me when I’m the tourist.
turtle said,
December 7, 2010 @ 12:43 pm
Aside from letting a few folks in front of me at the store when they has one item, we also assisted friends in transporting their 5th wheeler to some recreational property, setting it up…leveling, etc… At wally world i helped a wheelchair bound man with reaching items in a couple aisles he could not reach otherwise. Always love when you host this each year, reminds people to put others first….
Lee said,
December 8, 2010 @ 1:14 pm
I just have to share about the hubby. I have a friend and the couple are friends of his as well but I really am the one who spends time with them. Their granddad recently passed and they asked him to be a pallbearer. I am too small and a girl and watching two toddlers! So my husband who has no time off at work (he is still making up time from when our youngest was born 10 weeks early due to a car accident– 2 years ago), took the day off to be there. Now to go find more good. Thanks for the reminder!
Joni said,
December 8, 2010 @ 2:53 pm
A little late getting this posted. Just sent a yarn sample to someone on Ravelry who was looking to make a wedding shawl. She wanted to see what a brand of yarn looked like and so I sent her a few yards from the leftovers of my last project. That way she can see the yarn without having to order it. What I have isn’t the color she is considering, but at least she can check it for texture and sheen!
Bobbie said,
December 8, 2010 @ 6:15 pm
A coworker at the high school where I teach just returned to school after having back surgery. I saw that she had cafeteria duty on her first week back. It’s only 20 minutes before classes begin in the morning , but that can be important preparation time. I sent her a message saying that her duty was covered for the day, and I took the shift for her. The idea spread, and now her whole week is covered!
M said,
December 9, 2010 @ 2:03 pm
It’s been a rough week at work so I’m trying to be a cheerleader – organizing lunches out and trying to spread a little cheer.
tami said,
December 9, 2010 @ 3:07 pm
I’m so glad this is back. I have terrible luck with contests so I dont usally enter, but I look forward to reading what everyone does & thinking about what I can do. Thank you all for that RAK.
My year is starting small. I have a job that requires me to spend large amounts of time driving around. While I always say thank-you to the people directing traffic around road work. This year I knit a small bag & filled it with candy canes to hand out to the workers.
Elizabeth Bragdon said,
December 12, 2010 @ 3:46 pm
I made a batch of blueberry muffins for my buddy Dave for breakfast Saturday, and I picked up my boyfriend’s niece and brought her to town so she could hang out with her cousins instead of staying home alone.
Ursala Overdale said,
December 6, 2012 @ 4:08 pm
I should’ve added that it goes unnoticed possibly only when one is caught short !
RAK Reporting Day and Cinnamon Puffs - Sheri at The Loopy Ewe said,
May 6, 2013 @ 4:07 pm
[...] hat and scarf knitting, special help/gifts for the elderly, and Angel Tree participating going on. (Read the ones from our first reporting day, too, if you haven’t seen those [...]